Love story, a true love story.

This article is about my own emotional story. I came to Xiamen for love. Now married and have children. Our story continues. Let's live a good life.

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Many readers have asked me, is there still love in this world? Many of them are hurt by love. I can't believe it.

The answer I gave is always there, and I believe there is. Because I am a lover myself, Scorpio meets love, and once it falls in love, it will never turn back and go into darkness.

This article tells the story of my husband and me. My story with him also started in Xiamen, and we still continue to love and live in Xiamen.

We used to be an ordinary couple, but later we became an ordinary couple. Today, we still support each other and don't forget your initiative on the road of love.

The fate between people is wonderful and unknown. If you don't know what it is, you will love it. Destiny takes a hand, there may be emotional traction. Once you meet them, you will never be separated.

I am writing this article to tell more people that there is love in this world and it is worthy of your trust, but you should see this person clearly and love him well. Work hard and don't be disturbed by foreign things.

02.

Xiamen, I don't know what happened, so I fell in love with Xiamen. Speaking of which, I have known you for a long time. I don't know why. At that time, when I was still in high school, I said to my parents, "In the future, I will take an examination of Xiamen University." At that time, I was very young and had never been to Xiamen. I just saw some bits and pieces about Xiamen in an article, and I felt inexplicable feelings about Xiamen.

I don't know. I've been thinking about it. I wish I could live in Xiamen in the future.

Things have not been solved. I didn't go to any university in Xiamen, but went to Urumqi, the farthest city from Xiamen. I wanted to live in the city closest to the sea, but I went to the northwest border.

Xiamen, maybe there is no fate in this life. When I was in college, I thought, maybe I will never have anything to do with Xiamen again in my life.

When I was in college, it was difficult at home. I am a poor student, and I can't even afford the tuition. I worked at school to earn money. Sometimes I have envied watching my best friend and her little boyfriend kiss me. I don't know where my love will be, but do I think a poor girl like me is worth loving?

I feel extremely inferior inside, but on the surface I pretend to be strong and contradictory. I feel "I can't see where the future is, but I have to work hard." My good friend Xia once said to me, "I think you might as well find a boyfriend, just find one. Even if he can give you money, it won't be so difficult for you." In junior year, she arranged a blind date for me.

This is very interesting. It was the first blind date in my life. I met someone. One second I promised to talk, and the next I refused. Regarding love, I still have an inner insistence and don't want to settle. I don't want to talk about boyfriends for money, and I don't want to cheat others' feelings. Isn't it just a little bitter for yourself? Isn't it necessary to save money in life? What's the big deal?

Scorpio, I have a kind of "malicious" power to fight with myself. Nobody loves me, so I study hard by myself and then force myself to earn more money.

When I was in college, I didn't expect to fall in love. I always feel that "girls from poor families" seem to have no right to fall in love.

I wrote countless "Xiamen" in my diary. I don't know why, but I just look at it in my heart. Even I found a post related to Xiamen on the Internet, and I care very much.

My mother once said that my heart is too high and I should be brave without that piece of material. But I just want to fight for myself, maybe I can really do it.

I was still thinking about Xiamen in my junior year. My sister asked me what my plans were for the future. I gave her the word "one's deceased father grind" in a muddle. "Let me try again, even if it is the last time." I don't know why, but I just wonder if I can get into Xiamen for the postgraduate entrance examination.

The future is uncertain, I don't know where the road is, I can only go forward steadily, but I didn't expect that "he is getting closer and closer to me."

03.

Because Xiamen got to know him. Scorpio girls have a strong fighting spirit. Once they fall in love, they won't hesitate. Even if it is slim, she will let herself fight. Scorpio girls are very stubborn. Once they fall in love, they will become bold. They are people who dare to love and hate.

Did I meet Mr. Wang in Weibo, or did he privately believe me, "Who are you?" ? I was confused. Who is it? It was you who sent me a private letter asking who I was. He said, "Because I don't know who you are, only two words overlap." .

An inexplicable chat, which should be completely irrelevant, has narrowed our distance because of similar interests.

I like reading very much, and I like writing at leisure since I was a child, which is quite literary in the eyes of others. He also likes reading books. I have a little respect for him because he graduated from my favorite university.

After Weibo became friends, on weekdays, he sent Weibo, and we "spat" in the comments. Sometimes, he will talk about things related to Xiamen and my major. He will also secretly read my diary written on Renren. He often chats, and the distance in his heart is invisibly narrowed.

20 12 went to a company for an internship in the summer vacation and wrote an article "speaking like a book" in classical Chinese. He also helped me read it and gave me some suggestions for revision. At that time, I thought this person was quite talented.

I was selfish at first, thinking that he graduated from that school and worked in that city. If I knew him, I wouldn't be lonely.

If you can chat with him, you will become a "net friend" who often chats.

It is said that a woman's sixth sense is extremely accurate. In fact, I was moved when I chatted with him at that time. I once said to my good friend Xia in a daze, "I feel it is him." I don't know why, my heart tells me that I like him, that's him. "

At that time, Xia still laughed at me as a silly girl. After seeing his photo, she began to smile and said, You two are a good match.

No one who knows him knows what it will be like in the future. I didn't think much, so I followed my feelings. I won't let myself worry when I am confused, but keep going, because you don't know where the road is. Just go ahead and maybe the road will be smooth.

04.

20 12 "fell in love" with him in Xiamen on May 8th, the first sentence in Weibo. We talked for more than three months, and at the end of August, he sent me a message to express his confession.

Once I asked him if he was stupid. What should I do if he fell in love? He said if he fell in love, he would marry you. That's ridiculous. I thought he was joking. We don't have time to think about the future, but we like it in our hearts. We dare not think about the future, only care about the present and the present.

There are many unforgettable things. In fact, he left his phone number the first time he chatted with me in Weibo, but I never took the initiative to contact him, only called him for the first time after he confessed. I've never seen it before. I talked for more than three hours on the first phone call that day, from left ear to right ear, constantly changing, and I don't know why there is so much to say. Now that I think about it, I don't know what I said at that time. I have forgotten it all.

Maybe everyone who meets love is a fool. Now that I think about it, he and I were both stupid, but neither of us was happy.

I also wrote a couplet for our love: I know Monet and know each other. He replied: Know each other and cherish each other. At that time, it was also agreed that when we met in Xiamen, we would make up another horizontal batch.

I like writing, and sometimes I send him some text messages, but he always replies freely.

For example, he sent me a message that "the wind blows at first and wrinkles a pool of spring water", and I replied that "the autumn wind is bleak and disturbs some feelings". At that time, it was the age of texting. In the four months of online dating with him, I sent more than 1000 short messages. In winter, my hands were red with cold. I took Nokia's small mobile phone and copied all the short messages by hand, but unfortunately, my diary was lost because of my later trip to Hong Kong.

He accompanied me for the postgraduate entrance examination for four months. Whenever I can't review, I also want to call him and tell him my troubles. He touched me a little. As soon as he received my call, he would "click" and call me back as soon as possible. Maybe I think I am a poor student with little money and don't want to embarrass me. He also secretly charged me the phone bill, 100, and he thanked me at that time.

20 12 at the end of August, I confessed my online love. Why do you call me Ipoh? It's also because of my nickname His name has the word "rare treasure", so he named me Ipoh. This is also the origin of my own pen name.

2012165438+10 It was the first time in my life when I celebrated my 22nd birthday. I was reviewing in the library when a stranger called me and said he had something for me. I walked to the school gate, and it was someone I didn't know. He asked someone to send the flowers, and there was a note in it that said "Bao Ai Yi Bao".

I was very moved at that time and returned to the library with a heavy feeling of flowers. For the first time in more than 20 years, I feel loved by a man.

I cried many times before I met him, but I couldn't stop crying after the review. I cried when I was wronged and cried when I found life difficult. And he never gave up, always gently advised me.

I have been thinking about "Xiamen" since I fell in love with him online, and I have been there many times in my dreams. I dream of meeting him. I woke up and found it was a dream, but I was afraid it was a dream with him.

Online dating is too unreal. After the hormone, we will also consider the reality and talk about whether to break up, but before the exam, he was afraid that I would miss it and never mentioned "breaking up".

I was thinking of calling once. Anyway, I'm still young, even once. Even if I have a 0.00000 1% chance with him, I will let myself try. If I don't try, I will regret it all my life. On the road of love, I am not afraid of losing. What was I afraid of when I was young? I want to try it myself.

I believe what he said: "if you don't leave, I won't give up;" If you leave, I will wait; When it's over, I'll leave. "

After the postgraduate exam, I think I must go to Xiamen to see him. I have to go. If I don't go, I will lose him and regret it for life. I'm not afraid of him lying to me, because he was so serious with me for four months that he couldn't lie to me.

05.

The first time I went to Xiamen by train, I went to see him. In fact, he mentioned the word "breakup" to me after the postgraduate entrance examination. Said it felt impossible. I felt his change. I don't call and send messages very often. But I really wanted to see him, so I booked a train ticket and lied to my mother about going to Shenzhen for an internship. Actually, I went to Xiamen to find him.

When I got on the train in Xiamen, I was both scared and happy. I am glad that I will meet him, but I am afraid that he will be a liar. He comforted me, don't be afraid, trust me, rest assured. He came to meet me when I arrived in Xiamen. When he came to me, he was so familiar as an old friend.

We are lovers. He didn't even dare to hug me the first time he saw me. He helped me with my luggage and booked me a room next to his residence in advance. He took me to dinner and visited his school, Xiamen University. The picture in my dream, he took my hand and walked around the campus of Xiamen University, all of which came true.

He is several years older than me, and I have seen his paintings for me at his house. These things are worthless, but they are priceless in my heart. I have kept it for so many years.

Pure love, I never thought it would come to the end, but my heart was together.

I finally met him in Xiamen and walked with him on the streets of Xiamen. Xiamen is beautiful, and my mood was super beautiful that day. My eyes are full of him, and everything he does becomes romantic.

I tricked my mother into going to Xiamen, and they soon found out. My sisters told me to go home. He also booked me a train ticket to Hangzhou, told me to go to Hangzhou to find my second sister, and told me, "Be good, don't worry my family, and be obedient."

I listened to him. June13+1October 17 arrived in Xiamen at five o'clock in the afternoon and took the train for more than twenty hours. On the afternoon of June 65438+ 10 18, I went to Hangzhou by train.

Online dating came alive, and our feelings were revived. We met again in our hometown during the Spring Festival. I forgot to tell you that we met online, but our homes are in the same city. So he went home during the Spring Festival and we met again. /kloc-February Valentine's Day in 0/4, 13, I went to the railway station to send him back to work in Xiamen. He kissed me for the first time at the station. I hugged him and couldn't bear to send him away.

I don't think it's possible to be together, because I haven't graduated in my senior year and I don't know where to work, and I can't go to his city once I graduate, so my parents can't pass the exam. Very illusory, feeling hopeless in the future, and the opportunity to be with him is slim.

In April, I returned to my school in Urumqi after my internship. He had already said goodbye to me, but he was afraid that he would never see me again, so he came to Hangzhou to see me for the last time. I wanted to talk about breaking up, but as soon as we met, we were inseparable and together again. My sister didn't object either, but she left me alone when she met him.

My mother always lets me decide our feelings by myself. As long as she is a good person, her old man's house is fine. Mom will let us make our own decisions according to our own wishes, and she is very open-minded, so she has never interfered with my love with him.

I graduated in June, thinking that I would go to Xiamen again anyway. I miss him very much, and I really want to know what kind of person he is and whether he is suitable for me. I made myself do the second bold thing. I stayed with him in Xiamen for a while during my graduation to get to know him better. At that time, I had no money, so he naturally paid for the trip to see him. He booked a plane ticket for me, and I will go to Xiamen for the second time to find him.

Fall in love with a city, fall in love with a person, and then you can't be separated anymore. Xiamen has become the most special city in my heart, because with him, I think of him, think of him.

06.

We finally live together in Xiamen and don't want to be apart again. We went to Xiamen for the second time and stayed with him for a month. He took me to meet my friends and teachers, and even took me to have dinner with my colleagues. Inexplicably relieved, he never lied to me, very honest, very popular, and a down-to-earth and reliable person. He has no money and his family is not very good. Like my family, we both belong to people who don't depend on themselves for anything. We have never abandoned, he will not abandon me, and I will not abandon him.

I know everything about him and love him more. After I quit my job in Hangzhou, 13 moved to Xiamen to be with him in September.

When I came, my mother said to me, "Take the road you chose and don't regret it when you leave." My mother believed the person I chose, and my sister couldn't persuade me, so they left me to come to Xiamen alone. Before I arrived in Xiamen, my brother-in-law said to him, "Don't pack, return it." Of course, this sentence is a joke. In private, my brother-in-law told me, "You can come back if you are wronged, and your sister and I are here."

Finally, I live with him in Xiamen. I find my own job with a monthly salary of 2800. His salary is higher than mine, almost 10 thousand yuan a month. He never disliked me. And he is several years older than me and graduated earlier than me. It's normal to earn more than me.

He belongs to the kind of person who always lets me go. He has a good temper. He never dares to talk to me loudly and never gets angry with me. He is a few years older than me and always makes me lose my temper. I am the youngest in my family, and I am very headstrong. Sometimes I pinch him, but he puts up with it. I once pinched a lot of marks when I was injured, and he put up with it. I also kicked him, maybe he regretted it, because I am such a surly girl. But he didn't give up on me. Every time we quarrel, he will hold me in his arms. "Will you stop losing your temper?" Under his careful care, my little temper is gone.

When we are in love, we live a life of fireworks. On weekends, we go out to play together, cook together after work, and then sleep together to give each other a warm home.

The only feeling in Xiamen is that he is enough. I never thought about whether I would get married in the future. Anyway, I just love him seriously.

/kloc-During the Spring Festival in February of 0/4, he followed me home for the first time, and our relationship got closer and we had a good talk.

14165438+10. We also went to the campus of Xiamen University to take wedding photos. We felt very happy and felt that it was him in my life.

We got engaged in February of 15, but then our relationship was in jeopardy. Because of different life concepts, his mother thinks I am unreasonable, and my mother doesn't want me to be bullied. Our feelings were opposed by both parents for the first time after our engagement.

Where is the road? It feels impossible to be together again. I came to Xiamen because of him. I have nothing but him. How can I stay in Xiamen without him?

After talking about home several times, we began to break up. For a time, he cried as soon as I said goodbye, and he took me to work and told me to wait for him downstairs for fear that I would suddenly run away.

I chased him when we were in a different place, and after we were together, he insisted on breaking up. Now that I think about it, we have never really been apart. Every time we quarrel, we still sleep together or live under the same roof. He is still very kind to me.

/kloc-go back to Hangzhou for two weeks in June, and then he will pick me up. Brother-in-law laughed at us as children.

/kloc-In August of 0/5, I found another job in Xiamen with a salary of 5,000 yuan, and I also wanted to be with him. /kloc-I especially wanted to marry him in 0/4, but after something happened in 0/5, I was too scared to marry him.

We quarreled for a long time. /kloc-in June of 0/6, I left him, fled Xiamen and left unscrupulously. He still waited for me in the same place and bought a house until I got married.

My mother asked me what to do, and I said, "Mom, I still want to be with him." /kloc-in August of 0/6, I decided not to escape, but to face him well. We faced all the difficulties together and decided to get the certificate.

When I couldn't make up my mind to be with him, my brother-in-law said, "You make your own decision on the road you choose. Love well and your family will support you."

07.

He and I have a family in Xiamen, and I decided to marry him. We got the license on 20 1 161October 8. No wedding, no bride price, no worldly things. I also advised my mother not to hold a wedding for the time being, and their family agreed, because the relationship between the two families was not suitable for holding a wedding together at that time, and he and I had no money.

Because of you, even if I have nothing, I still love you and accompany you without hesitation.

From the beginning, I loved you not because of money, but because of love. How could I abandon you for money? At any time, emotional problems are the most important to me.

In Xiamen, we finally got married and simply got the certificate. Not long after I got my license, I found myself pregnant. I was so scared that I even thought about aborting the baby. He answered my phone and came back immediately. He stayed with me all the time, fearing that I would be stupid. When I was pregnant for the first time, I knew nothing. Progesterone content is very low. We are worried that the baby will be in danger. He drove me to several hospitals. Now that I think about it, we are big fools.

After I got pregnant, I wrote with peace of mind and became a freelancer. He went to work safely, and then I set about decorating the house.

We installed the house with the least amount of money, and I only have 10 thousand yuan left in my hand after installing the house. Think about it, I have also paid a lot, that is, others say "go to the post bar." I have used up all my savings in recent years. He used to take care of me, but later I earned my own money to take care of him.

Thinking about our family, what is the loss and no loss? When others get married, they think "their family should have everything", and I think "why don't I pay for our family?"

I met him when I got married, and then I worked hard. It never occurred to me to put the burden of family on him alone. I don't want a man to support me. I want to "well, bear it together."

I am very grateful to him for being kind to me when I was poor in college. It is also a kind of "gratitude" to treat him well on the road of love in the future.

Our baby was born in Xiamen on July 9th 17. I became a stay-at-home mother, writing with my baby, and he supported me. It was also the day I gave birth to my baby, and one of my articles was slow. At that time, many Tuba reprinted my articles, and my small career gradually improved.

Living in Xiamen, a very comfortable city, with him around, it doesn't matter that the house is small, nothing matters, and the form doesn't matter, as long as we love each other.

In marriage, we also quarreled, but it was a "bed-end fight", and he still spoiled me. After the baby is born, I take care of the baby safely, and then stay up late or get up early to write. 18 years, very difficult, but also very fulfilling. My salary is higher than his. He smiled and said, "It is because of my insight and support that you have achieved today."

19, we are still in love in Xiamen. Our baby is almost one and a half years old, and our story continues. ......

Xiamen is a beautiful and unforgettable city with wonderful love. If it weren't for Xiamen, how would I know him?

People who love each other will have inexplicable fate, and those who meet will always meet.

Fall in love with a city and a person. Since I met him, all I can tell him is: If you don't go, I'll never go, stay with you, love you, and live with you seriously every day.

It's good to be with you for the rest of my life. Thank you, Mr. Shi.

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