Why are so many young people being forced into marriage now?

Speaking of this topic, many young people are very helpless now. They used to laugh at others and use others' forced marriage as an excuse. But when we set foot on that era, none of us can escape. Parents urged marriage to come as scheduled, and all kinds of fancy and rhetoric eventually became the most feared thing for young people. Why on earth is this?

Why do parents like forced marriage? In the eyes of parents, no matter what their children are like, becoming a family means that they are normal. Good boy, get married quickly!

In fact, it's not just parents, so is the so-called seven aunts and eight aunts, and maybe we are the same.

Perhaps it can be said that this is a topic that makes the whole society anxious. Why haven't you got married and started a family? What's the matter with you? Are you abnormal? Get married and have children to form a complete family, so it seems to live like a normal person. In this way, the incomplete heart and the broken heart can escape.

Perhaps this is a deeper reason than filial piety. Therefore, in rural areas and even cities, once something goes wrong, they want to rush to celebrate, and give children who are psychologically, socially and even physically incomplete to deceive others, children and themselves by rushing to celebrate. This is to use the superficial facts of a complete family to escape the deep facts of fragmentation.

But the fact is that a broken heart leads to a broken family, and a broken family raises children with a broken heart. This is just a cycle from generation to generation!

Many parents may use the surface integrity to escape the internal fragmentation, which is too much, but the internal fragmentation is uncomfortable. In this respect, human beings should be the same.

In Poland, there is a movie about a married man who was asked out by his ex-girlfriend on Christmas Eve to help him find his missing partner! The man guessed the truth, and his ex-girlfriend was lonely and needed company! But he didn't tell the truth. He accompanied her silently all night looking for it. Finally, his ex-girlfriend said that she had been alone for several Christmas Eve. If she lives alone again today, she will kill herself. The end of the film is also very warm. When the man came home, his wife was still waiting for him on the sofa, but she fell asleep. He used to hug his wife, but when she woke up, she hugged the man tightly, as if he were the one who needed comfort!

Broken everywhere, pain everywhere. The Spring Festival reunion dinner and getting married are all lonely hearts looking for links, but I hope we can really find complete happiness through marriage instead of pursuing formal integrity.