How to face annoying relatives

Although it is annoying, it is not a good choice to resist or oppose because of the relationship between yourself and your family. Specifically, see the following points.

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Don't get emotional

When a person is manipulated by emotions, he will lose himself. Especially anger will do us great harm. Left unchecked, it is not only harmful to our physical and mental health, but also harmful to our interpersonal relationships and our closest people.

Many people always give priority to their emotions after encountering something, rather than the thing itself, which is extremely wrong.

Once people have emotions, they will lose control and have rebellious psychology, which will not only make us nervous with others, but also solve any practical problems.

It is extremely unworthy to create contradictions and conflicts for boasting, which will not only damage the relationship between the two families, but also embarrass other relatives and elders.

Therefore, in the face of the so-called "suppression" and "reprimand" of relatives, there should be no conflict and confrontation, and proper acceptance and ingenious resolution can play a better role.

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Don't run away

There are also many friends who choose to avoid and ignore the difficulties of their loved ones. In fact, this is still an emotional problem, because many times the problem will never disappear because of escape, it will only get worse.

For some relatives who are angry and laugh at others, your escape and retreat will not only make them converge, but also make them more unscrupulous and push their luck.

In the long run, it will only make you embarrassed in the family group and have a negative impact on your physical and mental health and social relations. Therefore, when encountering problems, don't avoid them, but actively face them with your own wisdom and solve them.

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Take the initiative to deal with problems

As mentioned in the previous paragraph, it is extremely undesirable to treat the problem negatively, and it will not really solve the problem.

The more passive a person is, the easier it is to follow his emotions and then be controlled by his own negative emotions. Only by actively thinking and coping can he better cope with the troubles and troubles encountered in life.

When we face those annoying relatives, we should understand in our hearts that if we don't correctly deal with and solve the problems they create, it will only accelerate the opposition between people and create obstacles to the normal communication between families.

Therefore, how to solve the embarrassment humorously and appropriately and make them stop disgusting words and deeds is something we should actively think and act on.

First of all, we must be clear about their ideas and motives. Of course, the reason why they do this is not to "care" about us, but mostly to vent their emotions and satisfy their expressed desires.

And such people are often shallow and ignorant in reality, and their lives are not satisfactory. It is normal for them to find their own "vent point" in life and discharge their negative energy.

Therefore, we should avoid confronting them. It is not worth losing your reason and dignity in front of such a person.

As the saying goes: Be a man, see you later.

Everything goes well at home. When we are faced with their "urging marriage", "having children" and "teaching", what's wrong with accepting them with a big smile? Use "You are right!" "You speak well!" In that case.

As relatives, we have fulfilled our obligation to respect them. Smile, cheer, and treat these as your emotional investment.

However, people who despise others will also despise themselves, and their ignorance and shortsightedness will inevitably be revealed in front of others. Our cultivation gives us dignity and respect at the dinner table, but they are just the opposite.

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Learn from others and improve yourself.

Confucius put it well: in a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good and follow it, and change the bad. People are like a mirror, reflecting their own shortcomings and deficiencies. Whenever we meet annoying relatives, it is also a time to cultivate our own mind.

In the face of their deviance and unreasonable troubles, we can think about whether we have the same problems as others. If so, we will correct them. If not, we will encourage them.

Home and everything, this sentence will never be out of date. Family blood ties are the foundation of our society. How to get along with relatives in the right way is an important starting point of our life practice, which is always worth our serious consideration.