Li Dan

"A cowardly person wrote a cowardly book. I hope you can pretend you haven't read it after reading it. There are more important things in your life."

This is Li Dan's message As written in the preface of "Cold Scene", yes, this is very Li Dan.

I also hope that if you have the opportunity to read this book, you will keep this sentence in mind.

Book Excerpt

Preface #

As long as I am happy, you can do whatever you want.

There is only one way not to lose, and that is not to play.

Lovers#

There are inevitably gaps between the wooden boards.

A small guide to life’s fast pace: Don’t scrutinize your habits.

Life is life, life is not a moment, life is eternity.

No matter how wrong things are, everyone can find excuses for themselves, and we rely on this to survive.

From the perspective of animals, it can also be understood that the zoo changes people to show them every day, which is very humane.

It’s not that Dingo doesn’t like dogs, it’s just that dogs always die before people, and Dingo can’t stand it.

We are not pessimistic about getting married, we dare to get married only when we have a pessimistic understanding.

Language is so unreliable, yet we let language decide everything.

Ruthless people#

Life is already so difficult, life can be even harder.

She put down her cell phone, and Zhang Broo could see that she also put down many bad thoughts, worries, and re-planning of her career. She once again became the boss lady who was comfortable cooking meat for others and jokingly making people call her mom.

The indifference of people here often manifests itself in such tolerance.

Language is also a slave of time.

Should we catch up with the universe, or let the universe accommodate us?

Adults#

You just deny being moved and refuse to face vulnerability. Laugh, will the problem be solved by laughing?

It’s okay to continue like this, but I can’t just be right. I can’t just live a life that’s right.

Tears flowed down, wiped away, and then laughed again, the vitality in the eyes slowly covering up the depression in the whole body. Guo Ben also felt that this girl should start over and start over. Not like myself.

Guo Ben dreamed of Buddha sitting on the sun and meditating.

I#

Curiosity is designed, why should we frequently use nonsense to satisfy it.

I grabbed a handful of snow, melted it in the palm of my hand, and spread it out, a pile of broken glass. Recently I have seen many people who are like this, secretly breaking down, slowly going crazy, and then living happily ever after.

After that day, Cathy would send me something from time to time. I guess it's because she exposed her true feelings for once, and without establishing some relationship, she always feels embarrassed. This is the disadvantage of not being open enough in normal times.

Sorry, I never believe in time. "Always" should not be a word, it should be a word. The linearity of time is a gentle deception.

After Reading#

Every time I finish reading a book, I always want to say something. Even though it is nonsense, few people will read it. But written records can always leave something behind.

This book is divided into four parts, lovers, ruthless people, adults, me, and *** sixteen short stories, from which everyone can discover themselves. Except for the "I" part that is real, the rest is full of hopelessness and helplessness in life.

Regarding the evaluation of this book, there are quite polarized opinions. People who like it like it very much, while people who don’t like it find it inexplicable and even sad. The kind of "mourning" in the book, I personally don't feel like fate is so ruthless to him, but more like a state of mind.

In fact, it is quite in line with the popular cultural trend of "mourning", the trend of "inaction" and "escape is shameful, but useful". After all, "There is only one way not to lose, and that is not to play." This kind of "Buddhist" mentality cannot be said to be bad. If you have already done something, your family is well-off, you don't care about birth, old age, illness and death, and you have a worry-free life, you can escape from reality and not do anything.

Inaction is the magic weapon for people to passively enter the market. Unlike all living beings who have been actively torturing themselves, everyone has a choice of their own lifestyle. It's just that in the current environment, such mournful inaction is actually a kind of knowledge of dealing with things wisely and protecting one's own safety.

But life and life and death are not up to you. Some things have to be faced. As a human being, you have to move forward. Do it for yourself, don't be too pushy. Work hard on the cause, and let fate follow the results.

There are so many obstacles in life that seem to be insurmountable, so many emotions that you don’t know how to deal with. It’s not that scary. You should love the sunshine or love it. If you want to cry, cry bitterly. Before complaining about your fate, you should also cry. Ask yourself if you take life seriously? Take yourself seriously, don't take others seriously.

To be honest, I actually quite like Li Dan. When the dust settled at the end of my best effort, when I was discouraged and unable to face myself, I felt that liking Li Dan was a great thing. When doing secular things. Although his story has always been about seeing through but not telling the truth, the way he expresses it is also very depressing, which can easily mislead young people who don't know how to distinguish right from wrong.

Li Dan’s image is always straightforward and real, unabashedly bowing to reality, pursuing his inner desires in the process of compromising with reality, and exchanging freedom for freedom. He always tells everyone that we should be happy, our world is like this, and we should not be sad. I actually quite like such a world-weary attitude. The world most of us live in is indeed like this. We are bound by reality and cannot help ourselves. We can only improve ourselves through self-discipline and self-denial in exchange for freedom.

I rarely tell people that I read Li Dan’s books. Let alone tell others that sometimes I can’t understand some of Li Danshu’s books. In fact, I am not afraid of others saying that I am vulgar. I also admit that I am a vulgar person. vulgarity is a kind of happiness. This kind of thing cannot be explained or defined clearly. The more you explain, the more serious you become, and the more serious you are, the more embarrassing you become.

I think it's a good thing that sometimes I can't read his books. Secretly feel happy for myself. Isn't it just a person's imagination? The imagination is unconstrained, the angles are tricky, and the plot is bizarre. The story must be short, the words must be sharp, and the story must not be revealed, so that it can be full of meaning and endless aftertaste.

Although Li Dan himself may not like these, and although I don’t know what each of his stories is about, I think it is really good. One in a thousand readers Thousands of Hamlets, there is no point in speculating on his thoughts. Just for your own happiness, read what you write and if others read it, record your thoughts if no one reads them. Just like this manuscript, keep a running account.

I never recommend internalizing any of the values ??in the book as your own. Just read other people’s stories, understand life, and just laugh. Perhaps the best thing about this book is that the endings of most of the stories are open-ended. Even if the content of the story narrated by Li Dan himself is depressing, we can still make the ending happy. It's all up to you.

"I think it all depends on how a person views the meaning of life, what obligations he believes he should have towards society, and what requirements he has for himself."

Per The thoughtful poetry that emerges under a decadent appearance is worth discovering and recording. In this era of information explosion, we need to learn to think independently, have an independent personality, and not be easily led. The unworthy world in Li Dan's eyes may not be the world in your eyes. What can really tell you whether the world is worth it or not is your own judgment.

The past youth books "Hua Huo" and "Eige", as well as the current Li Dan novels, are all very good. I was confused about youth at first, but now I am confused about life. I was thinking about love at first, now I am thinking about life. What's the difference? Most people are like this. Different ages have different troubles. Everyone is trying their best to live a good life. In this world, everyone has snow, and everyone has his or her own ambiguity and brightness. No one is nobler than anyone else, and no one is vulgar than anyone else. It doesn’t matter whether you are mourning or not, whether it is worth it or not is the same. They say "It's too difficult for me", but no one will really stop moving forward.

For most ordinary people, life is not that bad, and it is not as simple as in the book. You have to experience it slowly. There is no shortage of tragedy in the world, warmth is the most precious, and fakeness is normal. What if it's true? Cherish it, whether true or false. Don’t let a few stories hold you back, especially young people.

Through the book, he bravely and frankly showed everyone the space of his inner world, and he sincerely communicated with the world and established a healthy relationship with the world. This book may not be of any help to your life and career, but at least it can help you better understand a friend named "life". Be sincere about it and accept it well. It will reveal itself when the world gives us suffering. Shine some light.

Instead of resisting and resenting the existence of "mourning" culture, and criticizing how bad this book is, it is better to accept it calmly, regard it as a harbor encountered halfway, and stop and take a rest. It's just a little "gentle resistance" to reality. This book is a cowardly book written by a person with a sad background, when he was lazy, with a bit of flamboyance, just for fun and entertainment.

No matter how absurd the story is of inaction, it is better than a life of absurd inaction.

"A cowardly person wrote a cowardly book. I hope that if you have read it, it will be as if you have not read it. There are more important things in your life."

Written at the end: Quietly Speaking

I used to watch Xia Qixi and Canoe

Now I still remember "Monsters Only Cry at Night"

I cried while watching it... I was crying