A 35-year-old man bought his wife a car, but she told everyone that it was bought by her family. Why did his wife say that?

Can divorced women really communicate?

At the age of 38, Kai He found the other half of his life. He is five years younger than himself, but he has been married.

About her ex, Kai He asked her once when she was in contact, but at that time, she felt bored after listening to it, saying that she didn't want to recall her past with her ex-husband, so Kai He didn't ask much.

In fact, this woman Kai He is dating, and several close friends around her are against it. It's not that his friends have bad feelings about her marriage history, but her personality.

Although Kai He can understand his friend's feelings, he is 38 years old. After waiting for several years, he really couldn't get a wife. Sometimes there is something wrong with her conduct, but he can also get the taste of love from her.

It is said that most of the two people in marriage live together, some trivial things, take a step back and bear it.

Happy marriages are all managed by heart. With this in mind, Kai He chose this marriage that was not optimistic.

02

When I was a child, there were many brothers and sisters in my family, and my parents were farmers. Raising several children is their greatest ability, and they can't afford the extra education expenses.

After graduating from primary school, Kai He was forced to go out to work. Because a person's educational level is low and his parents take little care of him, it is inevitable that he will get into bad habits when he is away.

At the age of 25, Kai He was out drinking with some friends. I don't know if it's the alcohol. On the way home, Kai He had a friction with some hooligans on the road and hurt his leg, leaving a legacy.

Although the sequela of Kai He's leg is hard to see without careful observation, it still affects his feelings. Long-term malnutrition has affected his height.

Born in a family with poor conditions and physical problems, Kai He has repeatedly hit a wall in the pursuit of self-happiness.

When there was no blind date, Kai He considered free love, but her social circle was too small to find a woman to talk to.

While waiting for a blind date, the blind date either dislikes his height or his poor family. Even when I meet those sharp-eyed parents, I can see the sequela on my leg at a glance, and it ends in a few words at a time.

But fortunately, Kai He met the other half of his life. Although he waited for a long time, he was glad to meet.

This relationship, Kai He as a treasure, especially cherish.

03

Su Qin once said, "You are willing to love someone in the dust, but no one loves you in the dust."

In this marriage, Kai He gave everything she could for this woman, but what she finally got was not the love of this woman, but her proof.

Although this blind date in Kai He is a second marriage, considering that Kai He is married for the first time, her parents didn't think much about how grand the wedding was.

The bride's family asked for a bride price of100000, but Kai He's parents didn't bargain much, so they gave it back and bought a gold bracelet, ring and necklace for the prospective daughter-in-law.

After less than a year of marriage, Kai He's wife begged him to buy a car on the grounds that it was too hard to squeeze the subway to and from work.

Originally, the days of two people were a little short, and they couldn't come up with so much for a while. Besides, they usually go to work by subway, so Kai He just wants to prevaricate.

But I didn't know that Kai He's wife insisted that he buy a car. There is no way. Kai He listened to his wife's advice: borrow money from home first, and then pay it back slowly when he has money.

I bought the car, and the name is also her name, but what makes Kai He friends angry is that when she went out to pick up the car with others, she didn't say that her husband bought it, but that her family bought it!

On weekdays, Kai He's wife has a bad temper. She gets angry easily and throws things. Kai He's parents don't want to live with her. They are a little afraid of her.

Kai He just turned a blind eye. He didn't want to make two people unhappy and lose his marriage because of a little incident.

But then a friend told him something that puzzled him: Can divorced women really communicate?

It turned out that his friends and people went to a restaurant for dinner, where they met Kai He's wife, as if waiting for someone, and were about to say hello when they found a man running past, and then their relationship was a little too close.

The man in my friend's mouth made Kai He wonder if he was the ex-husband my wife didn't want to talk about. But no matter how he asked, she just wouldn't say.

04

I think people who have been hurt by feelings will say: divorced women really can't get along. The married life of two married couples is more about calculating each other than living together.

But what I want to say is: any relationship has more or less some calculations, and the answer should vary from person to person, rather than knocking over a boat with one pole. Divorced women can't really communicate.

It is true that some divorced women are selfish, want to calculate men, and always regard men as tools to improve their lives, but others divorce because of men's abandonment and wrong principles.

In the final analysis, what is visible and invisible is the other person's character. If Kai He paid attention to each other's personality from the beginning, instead of thinking about making do, there would be no misfortune behind it.

Writer San Mao once said in the book Meteor Shower: "Age, economy and knowledge are not necessary conditions for mate selection. I think the most important thing is the other person's heart and character, which is the key to the long-term marriage. "

The marriage of two people is full of little things in life. If you can't guarantee even the most basic conduct, it's hard to talk about understanding and trust. This kind of marriage is not to live together, but to make the people trapped in it miserable.