Almost lovers-some people don't belong to you, but it's good to meet them.

I read Qiu Wei's new book on Thanksgiving. The title is a pity, but all the parting is just right. The strokes of the three stories are different, like they were written by three different authors, but this is also the most attractive place for me and the reason why I have been afraid to write book reviews. Everyone has a unique experience that they want to cherish, and the ending is not together. Qiu Wei's works are full of seriousness, humor, jokes and Zen.

Yuki's mother in Almost Lovers has a cold temperament in her bones, but she speaks sharply and humorously, hitting the nail on the head:

"Woman, one should look good and the other should be rich-what's wrong with loving money? Money can set people free. It's just that most people stop at the love of money, because [freedom] is an advanced thing, and not all rich people know how to be free. "

I also appreciate her enlightened education for her daughter: "Man, when something good happens, it's good to be happy. You don't have to show off in front of people all over the world, so as not to make others jealous. There are bad things, let alone complaining to the world, so as to save people jokes. "

A transparent and sober woman always knows what she wants, likes her attitude and admires her, just like falling in love with Qing Tai, just like being a bosom friend. This kind of blue-faced confidant emotion is difficult to define, but it is particularly simple. The secret of opening up is not to close the distance, but to control the distance. There is no need to say anything about each other's indifferent thoughts and emotions.

Cherish "beauty" all your life and be tempted by your baby all your life. This should be the most important.

Daughter seems to be her only stumbling block and a gift.

Yuki looks at her mother's story like a child, feels her mother's feelings, sees money and marriage thoroughly, is sober and rational, and knows how to let go. This is a special education for my daughter and a satisfaction for myself. "Since life is like morning dew, I hope to finish it."

"I hope there are not so many differences between right and wrong in your world. I hope your world is more for beauty. " Yuki's mother, Miss Zhong Qiu, is very cool and has a condescending and "natural" attitude. I don't know if it's her nature. I believe that outstanding appearance is innate, but attitude should be the result of precipitation and self-discovery. Think of a sentence, "a person should live by himself and be clean." Even with a little "advanced loneliness." Trust and concentration, the truth in people's hearts, are higher-level existence beyond morality.

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Unrequited love era

This is probably a period that everyone will experience in their youth. Secret love is the sourest and sweetest time in a relationship. I never thought I would have an intersection with you, but we met, and I like you, which really has nothing to do with you. Even, I like you, you don't know.

He and she met in the narrow lane of fate, walked for many years, met again and again, and naturally passed by again and again. There is no good or bad, no right or wrong, and no together. I can't even tell the relationship clearly.

There is a person who is a footnote of youth and has no time to meet each other and can't refuse. Unfortunately, we are not together. Happily, we like each other. Seven reunions seem to be coincidental and doomed.

Maybe the word youth is just a dream. There will be a person alive in everyone's youth, and there is a place in my heart, just as Li Haoran said in his letter: "Because of you, I have a time that no matter what kind of rhetoric I am crowned with."

Regret? Later, when I think about it carefully, I don't regret it. Not expecting is the best way of life, and everything is the best arrangement.

Youth is not as good as it used to be, and it is not up to you and me to gather and disperse. Originally seemingly unrelated, it affected each other's later lives. A story is a story, not all unrequited love has a result, and not all differences will meet again. Who are you to me? For you. I can't handle it well. But I know your existence means a lot to me. Pure love can't beat fate, and those unfinished things are beautiful.

Love, involuntarily

This should be the most complicated and helpless story. I liked it very much, but I didn't extract a word. As soon as I saw Wu Jincheng's name, I thought of Takeshi Kaneshiro. He is a romantic and decent excellent gentleman. She is a versatile workaholic, gossiping and fighting in the workplace. Lonely and inspirational. Perhaps in this context, it shows that they met in diamond cut diamond, and they were evenly matched. It seems that the meeting between Wu Jincheng and Xiaoyi is the only simple way for them to escape from this complicated world. Romance in the workplace is steaming, capable and steady, and throbbing and restrained. I think they are a good match, like a tune, beautiful and harmonious. He made a special play for her, which gave her protection and gentleness and became her reliance. Because of his existence, she lived cautiously, attached to warmth, and was afraid of losing it. I seem to see the sentence "I don't want the stars in the sky, I just want the happiness on earth." They should be together.

However, the tone of this book and my reason made me anticipate the ending, so all the regrets are natural and logical. The ending of this story is also expected with the development of the plot. Love or not, whether we can be together, are two different things.

"Everything has a way, like a dream, like a bubble, like dew, like electricity."

Adult love is more of a slight loss. "Life is like a dream, and fate is impermanent."

Becoming a lover, keeping a bosom friend and treating strangers are all fate. Unfortunately, almost. Not bad, almost.

In fact, love is a kind of practice, and you can enjoy its impermanence without obsession. I often feel that what is the perfection of love may not be right, but only good. If you can learn something, have a treasured memory and become a better self because of one person, even if you don't live up to your meeting.

I like a sentence in Qiu Wei's preface very much: It is precisely because "we must part" that we want to make people's lives a feast.

Love and loss are eternal.

The most precious thing is to be willing to believe and have the ability to love forever. Appreciate all the parting and meeting.