My father and my uncle fight, and my father wants me to fight. What should I do?

My father was beaten by my uncle and his son for a month. My brother and I were too young to help at that time. We both secretly vowed that when we grow up, we must let them go shopping. A few years later, my father died of an old injury, but his last words made us two brothers still unable to understand.

There are three brothers and a father. There is a difference of ten years between the eldest and the second, and three years between the second and the third. My father is the third and my uncle is thirteen.

When my father lived as a child, it happened that New China was founded. Because of years of war, he was hungry and cold, and often missed a meal. Uncle was born earlier, and when his father can remember, he has been working in the fields with his grandfather every day, which is especially popular with his grandfather. However, Bo Er and his father are too young to do anything. They have to let their grandmother work under the influence. Therefore, his grandfather especially dislikes Bo Er and my father.

For Bo Er and his father, if only grandpa doesn't like himself, he is a father after all, and his mother loves him, so maybe he can bear it in his heart, but his uncle often bullies his two brothers with grandpa's love. Occasionally, he took all the delicious food at home and left nothing to his brother. He doesn't do any housework, leaving it to his brother. If you don't listen to him, serve him.

When Bo Er was ten years old, his uncle got married. As a result, on the wedding day, Bo Er ate the jiaozi left by his uncle to his wife. I was chased and beaten by my uncle. Although Bo Er begged for mercy again and again, he was finally caught up by his uncle, stabbed him in the arm with a sickle, and let him go after watching Bo Er scream in pain.

Bo Er's arm was badly hurt, but he probably didn't hurt the big blood vessels, so he didn't bleed too much. After returning home, grandma saw that Bo Er was scratched by her uncle, so she scolded him and let him go. After all, it was his wedding day.

After the injury, Bo Er didn't go to see a doctor, because his family had just married a daughter-in-law and had no money to buy medicine. The wound was only covered with soot to stop bleeding, leaving a great disaster.

Under normal circumstances, the wound should heal within a week, but Bo Er's wound was still oozing blood for more than 20 days. Bo Er's body began to feel unwell, his limbs often twitched unconsciously, and the muscles on his face became stiff and sunken. Grandpa thought he didn't want to pretend to work, so he didn't care. Grandma went to see a doctor and gave him some cheap Chinese medicine. But Bo Er didn't get better, until one night, he was convulsed and couldn't speak, which attracted grandpa's attention, but it was too late to get to the hospital, and Bo Er stopped breathing. After the doctor learned that Bo Er was injured, according to the symptoms, Bo Er got tetanus because he was cut by iron.

Because Bo Er and his father are often bullied by their uncles, Bo Er and his father and brothers are all very well. After two dog left, his father cried all day. Grandma also quarreled with grandpa and uncle all day because of Bo Er, and finally they couldn't stand the separation. Grandma lives in an old house with her father. There is nothing in the old house except a bed and a big pot. Fortunately, this yard is big enough for grandma to grow some food and vegetables in it.

My father got married in his twenties. After marriage, he consulted his grandfather and uncle about the separation. As a result, he was driven out and told to give him the old house and not the rest. My father went several times and finally got two acres of land under the mediation of the elders at home.

My father and my mother worked together in the two acres allocated to him. Although he is still poor, he has solved the problem of food and clothing. Later, grandma died, and my brother and I were born. After we divided the land, our family has four acres of land. My parents are much more diligent than others, the crops in the field are better than others, and life is getting better.

When I was ten years old and my brother was eight years old, one day when I came home from school, I saw my mother crying and my father lying in bed with bandages on his hands and head. My brother and I were so scared that we burst into tears and rushed to ask my mother what was going on. My mother cried and told us why.

At that time, cattle were an important labor force in the family, so basically every family raised cattle whenever possible. My family and my uncle also had cows, all of which were cows. A cow gives birth to a calf every year, and selling the calf when it grows up is an important income. Calves were free-range when they were young. They ran outside during the day and went home by themselves at night. One day, four or five calves were eating wheat seedlings in our wheat field. When my father saw me, he went over to coax them away, but the calf was too greedy to leave. As soon as my father got angry, he picked up a stone from the ground and threw it. When the calf saw that it was scattered, it fled, but one calf escaped slowly and the stone hit him right on the forehead. As a result, my calf knelt on the ground and couldn't get up. Father was very scared. He ran to see what had happened. As a result, he saw a sharp corner on the stone just inserted in the calf's forehead. The calf knelt down, fell to the ground and never stood up again.

Father knew that he had made a big disaster, so he went to find out whose calf it was. He intended to use his calf to pay his debts, but when asked, it was the uncle's. At that time, my grandfather had already left, but my uncle's son was already 20 years old. Uncle was furious when he learned that, and he slapped him in the face like his father, but his father was not a child. Although he was not as strong as his uncle, he didn't fall down. Unexpectedly, my uncle's son followed him to beat my dad, and my dad beat him one to two and was directly knocked down. After his father fell, his uncle and son knocked him out for a quarter of an hour before giving up.

Hearing this, my brother and I gnashed our teeth and turned to get revenge. At this time, my father coughed twice and woke up. He grabbed our skirts with his hands. He said that we were too young to fight at that time, so we had to fight for nothing, so don't add burden to our family. The two of us thought about it, but instead of going, as our father told us, we secretly vowed that we must let them go shopping when we grow up.

In a blink of an eye, several years have passed. My father stayed in bed for a month because of an internal organ injury before getting out of bed slowly, but he often coughed and his physical condition was different from before.

I was in high school that year, far from home, and lived on campus. One day in class, the teacher asked me to go home and said that something had happened at home. I rode my bike and ran home like crazy. My brother has arrived home, but his father is ill again. Since my father was injured by my uncle and his son, my father coughed up blood every winter and it took several days to recover. I thought it would be the same this time, but I was wrong.

Father is still hanging the potion this time, but his condition seems to be not optimistic. His face was bloodless and he was lying in bed with his eyes closed. He probably heard my voice and opened his eyes slightly. He waved me and my brother over. He said that he might not make it this time and wanted to explain the aftermath to us. He can't do heavy work these years, but he has done some business in the country. Although the crops in the field are not good, he has not saved less. If he scrimps and saves, it should be enough for both of us to finish college.

My brother and I won't let him go on. We don't believe he will leave. Father closed his eyes, and after a long time, he opened them again. He said we have one last thing to promise.

My father turned his head with all his strength. He caught one of our brothers with both hands. He prayed that this was the last thing he told us, so that we would promise him anyway. My brother and I sobbed and nodded. He asked our two brothers to promise him that after he left, the feud between their brothers would be settled, and we must not retaliate against our uncle's family. My brother and I opened our eyes wide and couldn't believe what my father said. Over the years, my father has scolded my uncle more than once. This hatred is absolutely deep into the bone marrow. When I was a child, I was bullied, and my dear second brother was killed by him. It was unfair to separate. Finally, my body was destroyed by him.

My brother and I shook our heads, but we can't promise him this. Our two brothers have finally grown up, and my uncle is old. He has only one son, and the time for revenge is coming.

Seeing our refusal, my father held our hands tightly and tears came out of his eyes. He said that he had been bullied and hated by his uncle all his life, but he saved his life. Only then did we know that it was my father who took the boss to swim in the river when he was a child. As a result, he slipped in the deep water and couldn't get up after drinking a few mouthfuls of water. If no one saves him, he will surely drown. It was my uncle who helped him. As far as the uncle is concerned, it may be casual, but my dad remembers it all his life, so although he bullied him all his life, he never thought about revenge.

When my father finished speaking, he completely lost his strength and began to lose his grip on us. He asked us to promise him not to retaliate, or he would die unsatisfied. My brother and I cried and said that we promised him. In the end, his face was burdened and he took our hands down.

Now many years have passed, my brother and I settled in the city, and my mother moved to live with me in the city, and we never went back. We were afraid that we couldn't help but seek revenge on him, but we promised our father that we would do it. We would never interfere in their brother's grievances again, but we would never recognize that relative again.

Never make a move, or things will get worse. If their old buddy fights alone, and you are a mistress, you have to stop fighting first, but it's no big deal. Either of them can scold you and hit you, so it's only a small probability. As long as they don't use murder weapons, they can fight with their fists and brains. It's okay. If they are tired, they will get angry. If you are a junior, they will call again. My father and an uncle started to work because they watered the land. There are me and my brother in the field, as well as cousins, cousins and boys. The old brothers were almost fifty, jumping high and cursing, and the two sides got together, so they fought. Here, I have a good relationship with my cousin. My brother and cousin are one. Four people were watching, and the old brothers beat each other a few times and looked at the children. It is so boring. A six-man team battle may lead to great events or human lives. After all, they are still young and energetic, so they must be calm when they encounter something. This is still a relative, and even outsiders are afraid to shoot. They can only persuade and pull. Otherwise, you hurt others, lose money, others hit you, you suffer, not worth the loss. Therefore, in a harmonious society, you can only be kind to others and reflect the progress of modern society!

Don't make a move at this time. Don't add fuel to the fire with the grudges of the previous generation. If you want to persuade both sides to stop fighting, first persuade your father to go back.

The discord between brothers is nothing more than uneven interests. Looking back later, I may feel that family ties outweigh interests, and what I did today is actually worthless.

As a junior, at this time, we should try our best to play the role of lubricant, try our best to reconcile the two sides, and avoid fighting violence with violence and causing unnecessary tragedies.

You are a good boy, except that you didn't take part in their fight. When you are tied, you watch the fun. Whoever has the upper hand will be stopped. If you are tired of playing, spit on them, bah! Things that ruin the family style!

In this case, your father just didn't let you cheat. You should have cheated a long time ago. You are cheating at this time, which is the behavior of a dutiful son.

When I said you were going to hit your uncle, I didn't mean to help your father hit him, but to pull them away from the middle. The best way is to bring your father back to your house.

To tell the truth, the contradictions of the older generation are mainly solved by your generation. Because there is no blood feud between brothers, it is a trivial matter.

Do you have to ask? "Fight brothers, fight father and son", and help the old father beat them.

Maybe we should consider family ties, but did your uncle consider family ties before he started working? If they just reason with your father and consider brotherhood, it's all easy, and a bloody man can't stand it.

A few years ago, two uncles at home had a fight, and the younger brother swollen his eyes. His brother called his two sons, and he beat his brother and sister together. Since then, the two families have not spoken for several years. There is nothing you can do about it. My brother is neither big nor small, he doesn't respect him, and bullies him with his strong body. It would be strange if he didn't get beaten!

In fact, if there is any contradiction between brothers and sisters, just say it. There's no need to fight. They are all family members. What can't be clarified on the table? Fighting can only make others laugh.

Father and brother fight side by side, and it seems unreasonable to participate in it, but "the arrow has to be sent on the string." My father was badly beaten by them, and he stood by. Is it human? As a normal person, it is inevitable to lose your mind.

Everything goes well at home, and your father fights with his brother. This is a public scandal, but he let you do it, which shows that your father is unreasonable. He is roasting you on the fire, so don't add fuel to the fire! Let's make peace, find out why they fought and convince others.

Love is greater than the sky. You should understand the reason why you broke bones and tendons, or you will regret it later.

A mother, sometimes fighting is normal, and she can commit suicide!

I'll tell you what to do if this happens to me. One night, my father went to my uncle's house for dinner. I didn't know what was going on at that time. My dad called me and told me that my uncle had hit him. Then I went over and went to my uncle's house. I saw my father sitting on the ground and my uncle saw me, too. He also said that you should hit me! I told you, why did I hit you? I just came to see where you hit. Haha, then both of them stopped talking, so I took out a cigarette and gave it to them to smoke there. It's funny to think about it now. After smoking, I asked my dad, how do you want to get to the hospital? My dad said nothing, I said nothing, you go home! I went up to help him up and went home. So far, both brothers are fine.

Therefore, as a child, when we encounter friction between parents, even if someone asks you to do it, you can't do it. It is better that they play today and tomorrow. If you want to do it, the nature is different. It will only lead to the relationship between your parents and your little brother getting farther and farther, which will affect family harmony.

You can choose from two states:

1: You helped your father fight, then your uncle asked his children to help him fight, and then your two families began to mix and fight.

In this way, the grievances of your father's generation can be well passed on to your generation, and then your generation will continue to fight between the two families, and then between your two children, you can continue to inherit this good hereditary custom!

You should persuade your father and brothers to sit down and talk everything out, but it doesn't matter if they really can't talk it out. It doesn't matter if you suffer some losses at home! Be generous! In this way, your uncle's children will also persuade you to make up with your uncle. Even if your father and uncle can't make up, at least your own generation can live in harmony. If your uncle's children are unreasonable, the big deal is that the two families are not harmonious!

Did you choose two options?

/kloc-when he was 0/7 years old, he hit his second uncle. The reason is that he teamed up with two other people to design it, which drove my dad to almost no way out. Although I regret it now, I still insist that there was nothing wrong with doing that at that time!

At that time, my father, my second uncle and two other people in the village jointly opened a cement precast factory, which was to produce cement columns and cement bricks for rural housing. At first, because of technical and market problems, I didn't make any money after working for several months, so several people discussed together to see who could contract and gave others 3000 yuan a year, but no one wanted to contract. My dad saw this situation and took the initiative to contract. As long as my dad wants to contract, he can contract at any time. Sometimes it is very useful to make oral agreements in rural areas. No one wants to leave the impression of breaking his word in front of the villagers.

However, God seems to take care of my family. After the New Year, all the surrounding villages implemented the renovation of old houses, that is, after being smashed, they rebuilt the land to build new houses. The old adobe house is really broken and small. It is this round of relocation that makes the business of the prefabrication factory almost hot, which is simply in short supply. More and more people booked in advance, and my family made some money that year.

These three people are jealous. At the end of the year, three people called my dad together, directly indicating that the prefabrication factory was going to re-contract. My dad is very confused. What he didn't expect was that his own brother would unite others to do this to him without consulting my father in advance. Finally, my dad got angry and said I quit, so you can withdraw his shares. During that time, he was very sad. I know he is mainly. One day, my father was drinking at home, and my mother quarreled with my father about it. Wiping away tears, she said, it's cowardly to be bullied like this. I was getting more and more angry at that time. I went to my second uncle's house with my legs lifted, trying to find out his theory. I saw him repairing his bike at home. When I talked to him, he ignored me and said it had nothing to do with you. I'm angry that your father had something to do with this.

Afterwards, I remember my brother who went to college in the provincial capital wrote home saying that I had grown up, but after these years, I was always a little uneasy. Do you think I did the right thing?