Wife, sell my house and your dowry house and change to a big house. Should I agree?

During the period of love, both men and women, their marriage life is always full of beautiful dreams. They hope to get married and have children with the other half they love, help each other and grow old together. But all these wishes are inseparable from material security. Especially with the development of economy, material factors are more and more infiltrated into marriage.

Since the soaring housing prices, the proportion of houses in marriage has been increasing. Nowadays, there are many only children in cities, and families have a certain economic foundation. Not only does the man have a house, but the woman's family sometimes marries it out.

Unlike couples who have no money to buy a house, their marriage broke up because there were too many houses. I have to say it's a pity.

At the beginning, in order to reassure her daughter to live in her husband's house, her mother married a house of 80 square meters.

Jiang Aiqin's father is a university teacher and his mother is a middle-level cadre in a big company. Jiang Aiqin is the only daughter in the family, and her parents regard her as the apple of their eye. Because Jiang Aiqin was very young, her parents devoted all their love to her, and all the good things in the family were left to her.

Superior family conditions made Jiang Aiqin lose his fighting spirit. In the college entrance examination, she failed in Sun Shan and had to go to a junior college.

Although her parents have taught Jiang Aiqin piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, she is not interested in them. Her only hobby is like food. After graduating from junior college, she was recruited to work in the community. At that time, she was out of shape and became a veritable fat man, which directly affected her search for a partner.

Jiang Aiqin's marriage has become a heart disease for her parents. They have been asking people to introduce their daughters, and after meeting, there is no following. Until 3 1 year old, Jiang Aiqin was still alone.

Later, someone introduced Luo Wei to Jiang Aiqin. Luo Wei's father died when he was fourteen. His mother was an employee of a state-owned enterprise and didn't remarry, so she raised Luo Wei through hard work. Luo Wei also ate a lot under his mother's doting, and finding a partner became a long-standing problem.

02:

Luo Wei is a graduate of three universities. After graduating from college, I was rejected by many units because of my short stature. Later, he found a job in a large dairy company with a monthly salary of 4 thousand yuan. Luo Wei's family conditions are not as good as Jiang Aiqin's. They have a common hobby, that is, food never leaves their mouths. After meeting, two people talked about food, both of them were very fat, and neither of them liked anyone.

Although Jiang Aiqin's parents were dissatisfied with her son-in-law, it was good for her daughter to get married and agreed to this marriage. Luo Wei's family has a two-bedroom apartment of 85 square meters and an old house of 50 square meters. Luo Wei's mother said that a widow has not saved any money in these years and has no money to buy a new house. She wants her son to get married and live in a house of 85 square meters and a house of 50 square meters. Jiang Aiqin's parents agreed.

When Jiang Aiqin got married, parents were confident that their daughter would live in her husband's house. So I married my daughter a house of 80 square meters. My mother told me that this house is Jiang Aiqin's premarital property and must be firmly in her own hands.

Jiang Aiqin disliked that small house after she got pregnant. She wants to change a house of 150 square meters.

Jiang Aiqin and Luo Wei have been together for three months. They are both older young people who are eager to get married. At the urging of their parents, they got married in a hurry. It is said that fat people are difficult to get pregnant, but Jiang Aiqin got pregnant in the second month after marriage, and both parents were very happy. Both parents rushed to knit sweaters, shoes and socks for their children, but at this time, the two divorced.

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When Jiang Aiqin was not married, she lived in a duplex building with her parents. When getting married, she wants to work with Luo Wei first, and then move to her parents' duplex apartment with Luo Wei after marriage. Luo Wei is a man with strong self-esteem, and his in-laws are not satisfied with him. He knows very well that he is determined not to live with his parents-in-law.

Unable to persuade her husband, Jiang Aiqin mobilized him to sell the house when he got married, and then borrowed some money to buy a house of 150 square meters. Jiang Aiqin thought that when she gave birth to a child, her parents would certainly come to wait on her. There are many people at home, and the house is very comfortable.

Who knows, Luo Wei refused to borrow money to buy a house. Luo Wei said to Jiang Aiqin: "The wedding room we live in is my pre-marital property. If we sell it and borrow money to buy a house, it will be the common property of our husband and wife. And our salary and income add up to just over 7,000. If we take out a loan, our quality of life will be affected. If you really want to buy a house, sell the one you married. It is most suitable to combine two suites into one suite. "

Hearing this, Jiang Aiqin was unwilling. She said bluntly to Luo Wei, "When I married you, our family didn't let you buy a new house. Buying a house now is not just for our children. Now that I am pregnant, you are still so clear about the property. Why should I have your child? "

Luo Wei was very angry and said to Jiang Aiqin, "Why should I sell my house and keep my property in your name? I think you are very thoughtful. "

Jiang Aiqin was very angry. He shouted at Luo Wei: "We don't have much income, and we want to keep a suite to collect rent, which can also reduce our repayment pressure. Now I see through you. You are a chicken belly, forget it. You haven't taken responsibility yet. You don't treat me like a wife. Don't worry about such a marriage, let's divorce. "

Luo Wei thinks his wife is simply unreasonable. He thinks it is reasonable to sell two suites before buying a big house. My wife doesn't understand that, and she still wants a divorce. He also roared: "Go away, who is afraid of who! You are getting a divorce, so don't blame me. "

Jiang Aiqin saw her husband's intransigence and went straight back to her family. Jiang Aiqin is so wronged that she doesn't live alone in buying a house, but her husband doesn't understand herself. Since I met her husband, he has been obedient to her. Why didn't he give in and buy a house?

Psychoanalysis:

Once a pair of lovers enter the marriage hall, they should tolerate each other, understand each other and discuss things well. After Jiang Aiqin became pregnant, she hoped to sell her house, borrow some money to buy a big house and give her children a comfortable room to grow up. However, what she thought was right was strongly resisted by her husband.

Luo Wei thinks that his wife sold their wedding room but kept the dowry property, which is obviously calculating her own property. Although he is very concerned about his wife at ordinary times, he is unambiguous when it comes to such important matters as real estate, and Jiang Aiqin's selfishness is unobstructed by him.

Luo Wei and his wife fell in love for some time. After the hasty marriage, the husband and wife have not yet established complete trust, and such a relationship needs more running-in. Because time is the best medicine to test love.

Since we have entered the besieged city, both husband and wife should tolerate each other, understand each other and work hard for a small family together. Don't try your own tricks, this marriage won't last long.