How to treat being forced to get married when going home for the New Year?

How to treat being forced to get married when going home for the New Year?

I never bothered about this question before, but in the past two years, this question has basically become the most frequently asked topic when I go home for the New Year. Do you have a girlfriend? When are you getting married? When will you take it home to show us? You should be handsome, right?

I am a college student who just graduated this year 16. I am 23 years old, but I feel that this problem has become more and more obvious recently. Every time I talk to my family, especially my mother, she always asks me, wretched, are you seeing someone? Mom will report her grandson and bring me one for the New Year. Every time I encounter this thing, I am extremely embarrassed. I feel I have no choice, but there is nothing I can do. Because I understand a mother's expectations of her son.

Especially during the Spring Festival last year, I grew up with them. Several of them are married and now they all have children. My mother mentioned that they always looked envious, and I was a little entangled.

But this kind of debt to my mother is debt. I still keep my own ideas about feelings, that is, lack is better than promiscuity. Good love is worth waiting for, and good love can be met but not sought. Therefore, we should treat this kind of forced marriage rationally, and should not just put our feelings in the position of moths at home.

In this case, my opinion is that you must know what kind of partner you are suitable for, first talk to your family about your attitude towards feelings, and believe that your love will come soon, and before that, you must protect yourself and wait for your love. So for the forced marriage at home, fight wits and wait for true love.