After-dinner joke

No matter how good the relationship is, the four things you will never tell others are emotional problems, financial situation, past mistakes and things to do.

1, emotional problems: feelings, this inexplicable thing, can disturb people's hearts most and make people think about it. Some people talk to people everywhere and ask their opinions just like Xianglinsao when they meet feelings. In this way, what you think is shared and confided with friends may just be regarded as a joke in their spare time.

2. Economic situation: Money has always been a very sensitive issue. Just know how much money you have. Don't tell anyone casually. When others know that you have money, the most common trouble is: borrowing money.

3. The past is wrong: when things are in my heart, I always want to talk to someone. But if it's over, it's over. It's no use kneeling down and begging the gods to confess. Telling others becomes something in others' hands. What you think of sharing has become a tool for others to judge you.

4. How to do it: Making things public before doing them will attract a lot of people's attention. Under such attention, people's pressure will increase. Do one thing, you may get applause and praise, or you may get jealousy; But if you fail, those eyes that pay attention to you may turn into cynicism, which will add insult to injury.

The principle of getting along with others:

1, respect principle: respect includes two aspects: self-respect and respect for others. Self-esteem means respecting yourself, maintaining your dignity, and never giving up on yourself on any occasion. Respecting others means respecting others' living habits, hobbies, personalities and values. Only by respecting others can we get their respect.

2. Sincerity principle: Only by being honest with others can we have emotional resonance and gain true friendship.

3, the principle of tolerance: in interpersonal communication, it is inevitable that some unpleasant things will happen, and even some contradictions and conflicts will arise. At this time, you should learn to tolerate others and don't haggle over every ounce.

4. Principle of mutually beneficial cooperation: Mutual benefit means that both parties can meet each other's needs while getting the return from each other. Interpersonal communication is always a two-way choice and interaction. You and I can have a long-term relationship.