Silently ask how to be humorous

1. Self-deprecation 2. Laughing at others and getting laughter from other people 3. Dirty jokes 4. Exaggerated content, plus some funny and exaggerated actions 5. Unreasonable, making people feel Bored to the point of being funny 6. Telling cold jokes

How can you make the listener feel humorous by speaking? One of the most effective ways is to make the listener "unexpected". People have a kind of psychological prediction when they speak. After you said the last sentence, they are already predicting what you are going to say next. If what is said is indeed "as expected", he will feel that it is unremarkable or even boring; if what is said is "unexpected" and makes him feel fresh and wonderful, his sense of humor will be based on the "words". . 1: Surprises arise from sudden changes in semantics

Using this method, one often first expresses multiple situations of one thing, or one situation of multiple things, so that the listener can form a psychological state. A clear semantic trend, and then a sudden turn, revealing a wonderful meaning that is different from the previous trend, making people laugh out of surprise. This situation often puts pressure on semantics through the following two methods.

One is the trend. Semantically, the levels increase from small to large, from weak to strong, from low to high... For example, there is a traditional cross talk that goes like this:

A: When the student has a pen in his chest pocket.

B: Learning tools are essential.

A: The person with a pen in his pocket is...

B: Who is he?

A: I am a middle school student.

B: Where are the two pens?

A: I am a college student.

B: Where are the three pens?

A: He is an international student!

B: So, where are the four pens?

A: That—that’s a pen repairer! (Audience laughs)

The humor of this conversation is based on the incremental psychological prediction of the listener. Students have pens in their breast pockets. The more pens they insert, the more knowledge they have, and the higher their academic qualifications. As the levels increase, the audience's psychology has formed an increasing trend. When the increase reaches "four pens", a sudden reversal occurs. The contrast - "That's a pen repairer" sounds "unexpected" at first glance, but "makes sense" when you think about it again. The humorous effect is great.

The second is that the semantic trend level is decreasing. The level of semantic meaning is from large to small, from strong to weak, from high to low... The levels decrease gradually, so that the smallness exceeds the unexpected. For example: In the stands of a football match in the United States, three young men happened to be sitting behind three nuns. The young men were very unhappy because the nuns were wearing tall nun hats on their heads, blocking their view. One said, "Guys, there are so many top hats here! I wish I lived in Ohio where there were only 25 churches."

Another said, "Oh, I wish I Live in Idaho, where there are only 20 churches."

The last one said, "I wish I lived in Oregon, where there are only 15 churches."

Just finished. , a nun in front suddenly turned around and said: "Why don't you go to hell? There is no church there!"

Some of the three young men shrugged, some stuck out their tongues, and laughed secretly. . The people around me were happy to hear this.

This dialogue makes use of sudden turns in the decline of semantic meaning to form humor. The number of churches mentioned by those young men was less than the last, which formed a downward prediction trend in the listener's mind. At this point, the listener's psychology will naturally predict that the nun will definitely name a state with fewer than 15 churches.

The rebuttal explanation given by the nun exceeded the listener’s psychological prediction—she actually cited a place with so few churches that it didn’t even have one! At first glance, it was "unexpected", but after thinking about it again, the criticism was "reasonable", so everyone couldn't help but laugh.

Two: Wonder is born in the discontinuity and continuation of meaning

The speaker deliberately finished a sentence that could have been finished in one breath, but deliberately did not finish it in one breath, but deliberately paused , leaving time for the other party to predict the semantic trend, and then say the second half. After the listener finished listening, he suddenly discovered that the speaker's meaning was "unexpected", and he suddenly understood and smiled happily. For example, there is this dialogue in the TV series "Macho Man":

A: When I get my salary, what do you think I will do?

B: Leave it to my wife.

A: No, deposit it in the bank.

B: Well, this is a man!

A: ...and give the bankbook to my wife.

B:...? !

A in the dialogue deliberately divided "(put the money) in the bank and then gave the bankbook to his wife" into two parts, causing people to have twists and turns in predicting and understanding the meaning of his words. Lots of fun.

The separation of semantic expressions can sometimes be achieved through pauses in speech, such as:

A young man said: "Yesterday on the street, there was a beautiful girl who was familiar with me. We don't know each other, but he took the initiative to talk to me."

His friend came over and said, "Brother, you are so lucky! What did that beautiful sister say to you?"

"Speak, don't be embarrassed! You and I are not outsiders anymore. If you tell me, I might even be able to give you some advice!"

"She said: Comrade, if you spit everywhere, you will be fined 5 cents."

"Young man" intentionally cut the meaning to be expressed into two parts, so that the friend could psychologically predict, "This boy will have an affair." "Yes. However, when he said what the beautiful girl said, it was completely beyond the listener's prediction, and his words became humorous.

This kind of pause in spoken language is essentially the use of thinking inertia. What is said before the pause is often a hint to the other party about the direction of thinking; what is said after the pause is a sudden reversal of semantics, giving people a sense of abruptness. The following conversation between the lovers is like this:

Female: For example, if we are already living together, and I come back angry outside, even though I know that you have just come home, I still show my anger to you for no reason. What would you do if you lose your temper and think you haven't prepared a good meal?

Male: This is easy to handle. I will rush to the kitchen and pick up the kitchen knife...

Female: How is it?

Male: Hurry up and make you... a delicious meal so that you can no longer be angry.

My husband deliberately divided "pick up the kitchen knife and cook you delicious food quickly so that you can't get angry again" into two parts. First, say the first part "pick up the kitchen knife" and then deliberately induce the woman to think according to the inertia of her thinking and predict that he is using the knife to fight. After he figured out the direction of his wife's thoughts, what he said was: he picked up the kitchen knife and said, "Hurry up and cook you delicious food so that you can't get angry again." This sudden turn, with ups and downs, surprises and surprises, is humorous, adding a romantic interest to the lovers.

In addition to the "unexpected" semantic meaning that can produce humor, rhetorical techniques such as word selection and sentence selection that break the listener's predictions can also produce humorous effects. Please read the words in a sketch:

Male: The future is bright!

Female: Yes, the future is bright, the road...

Male: The road is crooked! (The audience laughed)

Why is there humor here? "The future is bright, but the road is tortuous" is a popular saying. When the man said the first half of the sentence, everyone invariably predicted the second half. But the second half of the sentence is unexpected. It is said that the road is curved, and the meaning has not changed. However, the written word "zigzag" suddenly changed into the spoken word "bend", which still surprises everyone. One or two lines of dialogue vividly portray the "sourness and rusticity" of the character, making people laugh so hard that their stomach hurts.

Friends, everyone wants to speak in a humorous way, so that the listener will listen happily and everyone will be happy. This not only expresses the meaning, but also harmonizes the interpersonal relationship. To speak humorously, in addition to requiring the speaker to be well-informed, open-minded and optimistic, you must also master certain skills. Friends may wish to try the two techniques introduced in this article!

First of all, you have to learn to talk a little bit, and then you also know how to communicate with others, and you can find topics that both of you can talk about from other people's words, and you should also read more jokes when you have time. Self-deprecating has become very popular nowadays. If you are talking to a girl, you can make a fool of yourself appropriately.

There are a lot of jokes in searching "cheating point hee hee"