Women, when you didn’t care about anything but one person, did he make you lose or win?

I only wanted one person at that time, but now I regret it. People in marriage will change. No woman is willing to "try to figure out what the other person wants" at the beginning of a relationship, but life is unpredictable and people's hearts are changeable. In addition to love, women always have to think of something to defend themselves. Even if the original love was shattered, time will smooth out the edges of love and return it to dullness. After the dullness, you will feel as much grievances as you did at the beginning, no matter how much sacrifice you made. When you love me, I can rely on you. If you don’t love me anymore, I can only rely on myself.

Those so-called "long-term meal tickets" also have expiration dates. Either the meal tickets are gone or they have expired and cannot be used. As an economically independent individual, she is not dependent on a man and does not need to be “supported” by a man. This makes many boys under pressure say, "It's like a candy, sweet to the heart." Whether it's love or marriage, boys are more snobbish than girls. So, wake up, instead of racking your brains to find a long-term meal ticket, it is better to rely on yourself and hold security firmly in your own hands.

The only people in this world who can be kind to you selflessly are your parents. If you are not kind to yourself, how can you expect a man to pamper you indefinitely? No one has the obligation to treat you well except your parents and yourself. The state of many girls' relationships is like this: If he treats me well, he seems to have the whole world happily, but if he treats me badly, I have nothing. You have to understand that he can be considerate to you, and he can also be considerate to other girls.

Love is the most unreliable thing. In addition to love, women must look for something that can be seen and touched. Happiness has to be the same thing, love is just the foundation. A smart woman wants a good family tradition, a kind mother-in-law, even if she wants to make a good life, she should learn to be less interested in one thing more. Reality tells women that "things" last longer than love. All meaningless feelings have a noble starting point, but in the end they often hurt themselves.