Is it better to have a son or a daughter, which is more filial?

I can't give you the answer to this question, which is more filial. I haven't seen much: you can compare which is more filial to have a son or a daughter. Your idea is obviously similar to feudalism. Whether it is a boy or a girl, it is your child's paper. As long as you educate them well, no one is so filial.

The ancients thought it was a good thing to have a son. Sons can stay with them and support them until they are old. Filial piety is more important than daughters. I think they are wrong. They prefer boys to girls. Look at this society. How many criminals are not sons? They are not only unfilial, but also implicated their families. When they grow up, they don't study well, killing people and setting fires. Filial piety annihilates human nature for money.

I have seen many news reports. There are many men who hate their parents and even kill them because they can't give them what they want. It's inhuman. Will there be filial piety? Is it bad to have a son? No, in the final analysis, it is not the scourge of gender, but the bitter fruit caused by parents' ignorance and doting on education first.

Now this ancient concept has been eliminated. In other words, having a son is the same as having a daughter. Some people say that the daughter is the parents' little cotton-padded jacket and the father's little lover. The son should be poor and the daughter should be rich. Can you see which is more filial? I can't tell the difference, there is no comparability.

Since the son is unfilial, the daughter is no exception. I have a classmate. Her parents have been very kind to her since she was a child. She eats, drinks, dresses and serves her. Everything is the best for her. When she was in college, she bought a lot of clothes and sent them to the laundry once a week since she said she couldn't wash clothes. She spent a lot of money. I spent my meal money for one semester in less than a month. After that, she reached out and asked her parents for it.

Such a daughter cannot be said to be filial. Although she didn't do anything wrong to her parents, she took it for granted that her parents should be kind to her, take it or leave it. A filial daughter must know how to cherish the hard work of her parents, know how to be independent and know how to work hard, right?

Speaking out, many men and women in this society are hurting their parents with tears. Do you think it is better to have a son or a daughter? Anyway, I'm not saying that Taoism is more filial, but I can tell you what kind of children are filial.

What is filial piety? Filial piety is filial piety and obedience. Decomposition is to respect and care for parents, know how to be grateful in return, don't let them blindly pay for you, know how to make themselves stronger, and do our duty to support parents when they lose their ability to work, so that they can have a sense of support, happiness and happiness in their later years; When what your parents say makes sense, you should obey your parents' wishes and listen to their elders. Even if what they say is not to your liking, don't refuse or talk back to your face.

Therefore, the important factor to decide which is more filial is not having a son or a daughter, but how parents educate and train them the day after tomorrow. If the education and training are good, everyone is excellent and filial, and it is good to have a son and daughter.