If one day, you become more and more selfish

It is not unreasonable that many people don't like to associate with people who are too selfish.

People are so selfish, all they want is profit

If one day, you become more and more selfish

It is not unreasonable that many people don't like to associate with people who are too selfish.

People are so selfish, all they want is profit.

Generally speaking, there are two kinds of selfish people: one is selfish with principles. He just wants to immerse himself in his own world and doesn't want to be troubled by the secular world. He knows what he really wants.

The other is an extremely selfish person. He usually looks kind and harmless. In fact, he just wants to get more feelings and materials from you. When it comes to interests, he immediately becomes a tiger.

But in life, there are also many good people who prove their existence value by constantly pleasing others. In fact, good people come to no good end.

What I want to say is that if one day you become more and more selfish, it shows that you are mature and dare to meet new challenges.

1. If you become selfish, you have learned how to love yourself.

When it comes to loving ourselves, childhood scenes will keep popping up in our minds:

You have a piece of candy in your hand, which you begged your mother to buy. Before you open the sugar paper outside and let the sweetness fill your mouth, your mother said, "Don't finish eating, little sister, you give her some."

Your new toy should also be put on the bedside when you sleep at night, in case you wake up in the morning and you can't see it. Who knows, my cousin came to play at home, and my mother said, "He's my younger brother. He's a guest at our house. Just give him the toy. "

Even as an adult, people keep telling you in your ear, "Life is like this, the salary is low, if you work hard, it will go up in the future." It happened that at this time, you want to quit this seemingly stable job and go out to take a break.

Growing up, we learned from our elders that when we get along with others, we should take care of others' feelings and not always think about ourselves.

After listening to a lot, nature is really in mind.

I dare not look at others' disappointed eyes, so I have finished twice as much work as my colleagues; Laughing in the crowd is just to echo the cold jokes told by others.

Walking around in the middle of the night, I'm tired of this.

Chaplin wrote when I began to really love myself:

When I really began to love myself, I realized that all the pain and emotional torture just reminded me: live, don't go against my will.

You think that as long as the people around you are happy, you will be happy, but you don't know it. As a result, everyone is unhappy.

Endure injustice, suppress yourself, everything is against your true wishes.

If one day, you stop pandering and refuse what you don't want to do, others may think you are selfish. In fact, you have learned how to love yourself.

2. If you know how to give up, you will become selfish.

Michelangelo said: "Beauty is the process of purifying excess."

Breaking up is a simple and real way of life. It pursues less material things and tries to avoid ineffective social activities, so that there will be a lot of troubles in the heart, and it can also keep its life full in the process of being alone, thus seeking a pure land for itself.

If one day, you start to sort out your heart, sort out those things buried in the corner, go into battle lightly and move on to the next journey.

In fact, you have embarked on the road of giving up. People are complex and simple. With this courage, you can live a selfish life, do what you want and not give yourself to others.

Bai said: "when the development of the times makes people pursue things beyond material things, it is the beginning of love."

The pursuit of material things will certainly bring people pleasure and make you look great in front of others, but who knows when you look out of the window?

Throw away the heavy things on your shoulders, and the whole person will be much more relaxed. When you become selfish, there will be a breeze in your life, and flowers will bloom in Xu Lai.

There is nothing wrong with being a selfish person without hurting others.

There is a debate in the first issue of Seven Parnassus, "The museum is on fire, and a famous painting and a cat can only save one. Which one do you choose? "

The debate on Li's birthday was really unacceptable, but it touched me deeply.

He said so,

"We live so selfish, but we don't hurt others, so the world can run, and it is these that, for some grand undertakings, for some lofty goals, we are desperate to sacrifice others and other kittens, and frequently let our world fall into a fire."

Sometimes we can allow ourselves to be selfish. There is nothing wrong with doing this, but it will give you more time to devote yourself to what you like.

In this world, there are so many people, and no one can live without anyone.

Always ask yourself if you are happy and if you really want to do this. On the premise of not hurting others, create a favorable environment for yourself as much as possible, instead of indulging in a useless life every day.

Conclusion:

Selfish people understand a truth, love themselves first, and then love others, in order to have more and more possibilities.

In other words, if you don't even know how to love yourself, how can you convince others that you are a lovely person?

Being selfish doesn't mean that you have to cut off contact with everyone. People are social animals and need friends and lovers.

Just a selfish person, he will minimize his social circle, leaving only people to talk to.

May you take care of yourself for the rest of your life and learn to be a selfish person.

Today's question:

Have you ever seen a selfish person?