If you let your husband accompany you, you can rest assured that you have three major benefits and two major concerns.

Feifei has reached the third trimester, and she is very happy to see a troublemaker who always kicks her stomach. However, at the thought of the painful picture of childbirth on TV, she is very scared, and she dare not imagine how to face it. Especially recently, she saw some news that her mother gave birth to a baby after a day and a night of pain, and there were dystocia and postpartum hemorrhage, which made Feifei very scared.

The closer to the due date, the more fearful. Although there is painless delivery now, which can relieve the pain of the parturient, and the medical technology is very developed, the risk of giving birth to a child will be very small, but for the mother who gave birth to a baby for the first time, such an unknown field is enough to scare herself.

Feifei's husband saw that Feifei was depressed recently. When he asked, he realized that he was afraid of having children, so he comforted Feifei and said, It's okay. I won't be afraid if I accompany you in when I have a child. I will sing and tell jokes to cheer you up when it hurts. Her husband's words made Feifei feel at ease and had enough courage to face the pain of giving birth to a baby.

However, many mothers oppose their husbands entering the delivery room, saying that this will affect the relationship between husband and wife in the future, and if they encounter cowardice, it will also affect their mothers' smooth delivery.

It will be very beneficial for most mothers to let their husbands accompany them during the natural delivery, which will give them more support and courage to have children, so that mothers will not be afraid, nor will they feel that they are facing it alone, so that they can give birth more smoothly, and at the same time, their fathers will love their mothers and babies more in the future.

Give mom enough psychological support.

Mom will be scared and helpless when she is in labor. For new mothers who give birth to children for the first time, the labor process will be very long, which will make them very upset and anxious. If husbands stay with their mothers, they will get great comfort and support, thus relieving the tension during childbirth and giving birth to the baby smoothly.

Previously, a video of a father dancing in the delivery room became popular on the Internet. In order to encourage and support his wife and relieve her pain, the father who studied dance suddenly said, "Wife, let me dance for you!" " It won't hurt so much after reading it! "So a wonderful national dance jumped up. My father danced in the delivery room in his escort suit. The dance with both form and spirit and the exaggerated and funny expressions make people laugh, which diverts the attention of the parturient and relieves the pain during childbirth. The wife gave birth to the baby smoothly.

Therefore, if the husband is willing to accompany the baby and has good psychological endurance, let the husband accompany the baby and give the mother enough psychological support to help her give birth smoothly.

I can take better care of my mother.

I heard from a mother who always accompanied her husband during childbirth that it was good for her husband to accompany her during childbirth. After delivery, the husband listened to the doctor's instructions, kept feeding water and helped her nourish her stomach with the doctor. Because of her bad joints, her legs trembled when she stepped on the bed where the baby was born. Her husband broke the rules and kept holding her leg to prevent her from shaking.

In the process of production, I have been telling jokes, and chatting with the doctor instantly made me less nervous during the production process and gave birth to the baby smoothly.

The husband takes care of the mother who gave birth to the child more fully and meticulously with productive capacity, so that the mother can get better care and have the motivation and physical strength to give birth to the baby.

Will love mother and baby more.

Husband knows more clearly that it is not easy to have children, and he also realizes that his wife is not easy and hard. After giving birth to a child, he will love his wife more, understand and cherish her more, be more responsible and responsible for the family, and better enhance the relationship between husband and wife. When accompanying the baby, the general doctor will ask the husband to help cut the umbilical cord, witness the arrival of the child, let the father have a sense of participation, have special feelings for the baby, and will love the baby more in the future.

In fact, mothers will also have their own concerns, and will refuse to accompany their husbands because of such concerns, and choose to face the unknown fear of production alone.

Destroy your perfect image

Production is a very dangerous thing, and the picture of natural delivery will be very shocking. A mother said that although she was scared and wanted her husband to accompany her, she was heartbroken in the delivery room and looked ferocious when she cried. She saw not only blood, but also feces and urine. They don't want her husband to see such a bad picture, and they are embarrassed. They just want him to see the soft and waxy baby who loves cocoa, such a beautiful picture.

Affect the relationship between husband and wife

Some mothers worry that when their husbands see the baby's photos, they will cast a shadow and affect their future relationship.

Therefore, mothers will also have their own considerations when they let their husbands accompany them. If their husbands are not heavy in taste and have strong psychological quality, they must be fully psychologically prepared when accompanying them.

When husbands accompany their babies, they must give their wives enough motivation and support, instead of destroying their mothers' emotions and affecting the smooth progress of production, especially these husbands, and try not to accompany them.

Dizziness, poor psychological endurance.

Some husbands have blood dizzy symptoms, and the scene will be very bloody when giving birth. If the husband has not had time to comfort his wife at this time, he will faint at the sight of blood. Doctors should not only help the parturient give birth, but also help her husband, which will make him anxious and affect the production.

If the psychological endurance is poor, you can't see the picture when giving birth, which will have a lifelong shadow on your husband's psychology and affect the future husband and wife life.

Anxiety, poor endurance

Some husbands are anxious and have poor endurance. When they see that their children have never been born, they will blame their wives, which seriously affects the smooth delivery.

Tips: childbirth is a hurdle for mothers, which will make them very painful, helpless and scared. They want the people closest to them to be with them. If the husband is willing to participate and has certain psychological endurance, he can accompany her. But if the husband is dizzy and timid, mothers should try not to accompany him, so as not to affect the normal delivery of the baby, which is not good for both the mother and the baby.