At the wedding banquet, the city son-in-law snubbed her parents and refused to propose a toast. The girl angrily threw her wedding ring. What do you think of the son-in-law's practice?

If you ask the woman what is the most important before the wedding, then eight out of ten will definitely tell you that the bride price is the most important.

In fact, most women are not material, and most women's families don't want to seize the opportunity to collect money, but want to see whether the man's attitude towards the woman is enough, whether his attitude towards marriage is correct enough, and a small number of problems such as extra observation of the economic strength of the man's family are involved.

Most women still firmly believe that the bride price must be as much as possible, so that they can gain higher respect and get marriage insurance in the future.

It's not the only way to examine the man. Perhaps the bride price does have a certain reference to the side attitude, but it is obviously not intuitive enough. Sometimes it may be self-defeating and make the two families turn against each other for this, which is really not worth the candle.

I think that if the woman just wants to see the man's attitude, she might as well look at the other person's attitude towards her parents in a more intuitive way, which is enough to see the man's character and his attitude towards you in the future.

Take me for example. When Heipi came to my house for the first time, he was almost as nervous as a leg. Because he heard my father complain that the lights in the hall were flickering, he silently wrote down in his heart that he went door-to-door to find the open lamp shop on New Year's Day and came to my house after 7 o'clock in the morning, without saying anything, he climbed onto the table and changed the lights.

It's silly to say, but I think it's silly and cute. Heipi is so concerned about my family's affairs that he especially knows what he likes. My father likes to play with birds, so he gives them away. Although they are not valuable things, they are enough to show his mind and attitude towards my parents, which makes me identify him.

Most people with sound intelligence can't fail to know how to make a good impression on their parents and know how to do better, but they are too lazy to do something troublesome and please. You know, this is not a cold style, but he doesn't care much about you at all, so your parents don't care.

if such a person is willing to give a high bride price, do you still think he is worth marrying? I don't think so. Some people may not be willing to spend money or care, but some people may be willing to spend money or care, so can you still say that bride price is the only truth to test each other's attitude?

You don't have to marry someone who is willing to give you a high bride price, but you don't respect your parents' square face. I hope you don't marry. Don't think that marriage is a matter of two people, and it has nothing to do with your parents, as long as he loves you enough. You know that there is still love and freshness blessing. Whether he can treat you as he did at first sight in the future is the key to his attitude towards others, especially your parents.

I don't know if you have seen the story of "The Golden Powder Family". Jin Yanxi is extremely enthusiastic about pursuing Leng Qingqiu, and seems to be deeply in love with Leng Qingqiu, that is, Jin Yanxi's rolling love has finally melted the heart of the ice beauty Leng Qingqiu.

However, after they got married, Jin Yanxi, like a child who likes the new and hates the old, didn't cherish it when she got it. Instead, she thought that Leng Qingqiu was too cold and boring, and turned to pursue the Bai Xiuzhu who once scoffed.

He is just a child who likes to chase and enjoys the process, but once he gets it, even the best Bai Yueguang will turn into nothing. Can you say that Jin Yanxi doesn't love Leng Qingqiu? There must be love in the square face, but this love is far less than that of Leng Qingqiu. Not only has it not changed, but it has gradually disappeared in the morning and evening, and the marriage has finally come to a tragic end.

The drama was suddenly mentioned because Fang Yan knew a girl. Her experience was quite similar to that of Leng Qingqiu. She was also a girl of humble origin and outstanding appearance. She was also favored by a rich and lavish dude, but the ending of her story was particularly different.

Let's call her Qingqiu for the girl and Master Jin for the boy. Qingqiu is really beautiful. She has a rich face. If we don't know her life experience, maybe many people will think that she is rich and beautiful. Although she is dressed simply and plain, she is still beautiful, and people can't help but look at it. Although it is not the most dazzling, it is the kind of China classical beauty that can bear to look at.

The girl is not only beautiful and kind-hearted, but also very hardworking. Obviously, she can live by her face, but she has to rely on her strength. With hard work, Qingqiu was admitted to a local unit by virtue of her own strength. On her first day at work, she was attracted by a colleague of the unit. This colleague is Master Jin, and he is not an ordinary man. He is a famous dude, and his parents are prominent in the local area. Needless to say, how he got into this unit.

It can be said that Master Jin doesn't work for free in the company, but no one can control him or talk about him. Moreover, Master Jin really doesn't care about this salary, and he just comes out to work to kill time.

Master Jin likes clear autumn. Naturally, he tried his best to pursue her and inquired about her family's poverty. So at first, he gave a lot of expensive luxury goods, high-heeled shoes and big-name bags, but they were all returned by the girl. The girl not only disdained it, but also treated Master Jin with no attitude towards her former colleagues. When she saw Master Jin, she turned away and ignored it.

It's not that the girl is a person who doesn't care about money, but that she has a very high self-esteem. Even if her family is poor, she has never applied for a student loan from the school, and even if she needs help, she always grits her teeth and sticks it out, unwilling to let others see her weakness.

master Jin's move undoubtedly hurt Qing Qiu's self-esteem and made her disgusted.

On the other hand, Master Jin's sugar-coated cannonball, which he has always tried and failed, was really useless, which made Master Jin feel frustrated, but even more aroused his desire to conquer. The girl loves reading Natsume Soseki's books, so does Master Jin, and gave her a rare edition of Natsume Soseki's books. The girl likes to keep stray cats, so he also keeps them, and gave her a very valuable cat.

It's really useful to do what he likes. The girl took the book and the cat and was willing to talk to him. Although Master Jin has only learned a little, he finally has a topic with the girl. Go deeper and lead the topic to animals if Master Jin can't talk, so as not to be embarrassed by the silence.

When the girl and I dictated, what she said was very beautiful and romantic, and her words were very literary. She was a thoughtful girl. She also told me very seriously that this memory may be the most beautiful memory of her life, thinking that someone once pursued himself with such care, which is unforgettable forever.

The girl soon fell under the fierce attack of Master Jin. Not long after falling in love, Master Jin booked the whole coffee shop for her to propose marriage, and she agreed with tears. However, her parents don't quite agree with this marriage. She didn't understand it, but her parents said that one day you will know that marrying into a rich family is not good for a girl of her birth.

She once thought about it. She never thought about marrying into a rich family, and sometimes she felt it was a burden, because obviously, she met Master Jin's parents and friends. These people were not very kind and approved of her, and her parents took a wait-and-see attitude. After all, their son liked it, and they couldn't control it. The boy's friends are a playful and watching attitude, which makes her very uncomfortable.

However, Master Jin is good to her after all. In order to live up to her love, the girl doesn't care so much.

"You have to live for yourself once in your life and do something shocking, right? He is the only one in my life. "

However, such a romantic love story as beautiful as a novel came to an abrupt end at the wedding.

Master Jin's family was very generous. He gave 2, yuan plus 1, yuan of gold as a bride price, but Qing Qiu felt that it was too expensive for her to give, so she only took 8, yuan and a gold ring, and returned the rest.

It never occurred to me that this incident had become the butt of her ridicule. Obviously, she is a good girl, but she is said to have no vision. This kind of woman is too petty. At first glance, she is from a small family and can't get on the table.

This sentence was overheard by her parents-in-law and relatives at her wedding scene in Qing Qiu. She didn't like it in her heart, but she could only endure the unreasonable insults of others for her love.

After the ceremony, they toasted, watching her boyfriend lead her to respect all the guests. The girl looked at the female guests who were placed in the most inconspicuous corner and her parents who were looking forward to it. She couldn't help but quietly hold Master Jin and said, beckoning him to go over. However, Master Jin turned a deaf ear. After the last table, she was ready to go back. She obviously passed by the female guest banquet, but turned a blind eye. At this moment, the girl couldn't help it any longer.

"What do you mean? My parents should have made a toast a long time ago. How can you neglect my parents and relatives so much? "

Master Jin rubbed his temples and casually replied, "What do I respect them for? Do you know who are here today? They are all important business partners of our family, or dignitaries, your family's relatives in the countryside, what should I do to propose a toast? Our circle is actually very realistic, and people will look down upon it if you are not careful. I won't go if you go by yourself, and people in the province have seen jokes. "

The girl smiled: "You are from the city, and your relatives are relatives, but not our relatives? Your parents are my parents. I want to respect and toast. Why can't it be my parents' turn? "

Master Jin and you can't tell, but the woman's family didn't know how to look and said, "Stop it."

But Qing Qiu obviously didn't expect to make peace. She pulled the wedding ring out of her hand and threw it in the man's face, and announced it loudly in front of everyone.

"Ladies and gentlemen, the wedding has been cancelled, and my rural parents have been treated with arrogance. If I, as a daughter, pretend to be invisible for my own happiness, then I will be unfilial, so I will not marry. I can bear to look down on my background, but I will never marry those who look down on my parents!"

After that, the girl took her parents away, leaving a group of people to talk about it. The next day, the girl returned the bride price, and the marriage certificate of the two had not been done yet. The man later went to Qingqiu's house and tried to admit his mistake, but Qingqiu refused.

"You're right, we really don't belong to the same world. You don't respect my parents, and I don't think you will respect me much in the future. You like me, but you are chasing prey. Otherwise, how dare you be so indifferent to my parents? Go and marry your Bai Fumei. Our dirty and shabby slum is not the place where you should come. Go slowly and don't send it. "

who do you think is responsible for this farce? First of all, the man is obviously wrong. As I said at the beginning, a man's family who doesn't respect his parents will not treat you on an equal footing no matter how rich they are.

With different values, it may be as easy to pay 2, yuan or 2, yuan for a boyfriend's bride price. Buying a mount casually is a million dollars. This money is really nothing to them, and it is probably a snub.

But for a girl, this 2, yuan may be the total income of a family in one year, or an ordinary family's very expensive bride price, which may save a person's life. Such differences in values make it impossible for them to be from the same world from the beginning.

If a man really values her, he should show respect for his parents-in-law, no matter what, because he loves me and my dog, which is the person he loves the most, so he should not cherish it equally. When you are in love, you know what you like, you know how to learn and respect what girls like, but at the most important moment, you actually neglect each other's parents. Does he really not know? He just refused. With such an arrogant attitude, it is no wonder that the girl will make a scene at the wedding.

The story of Cinderella with a prince and a princess with a knight sounds inspiring and romantic. However, the reality is that a prince will only match a princess. You have to admit, it's really important to have the same family.

Maybe the man really didn't do it on purpose. The reason why he refused to propose a toast is unreasonable to the girl. Maybe there is such a reason, but the girl is not from that circle and she won't understand the man's dilemma.

but since you have made up your mind to marry her, why don't you accept all of her? There are certain reasons for the unequal portal and the selfish love of men, but a man who looks at people with colored eyes and doesn't respect the woman's parents is really not worth marrying. Even if he does, a woman may only have difficulties and sufferings in the second half of her life.

The golden powder family is a warning. Some men may not show how much they love you no matter how hard they chase you. The amount of bride price given does not represent the man's attitude. Look at irrelevant materials, only look at personality, respect not only you but also your family. This is the good man you deserve to marry.