How to be a smooth operator in the workplace?

Let's talk about the people we are most afraid of meeting:

1, meet someone who will crush you with age and seniority. I often meet some older people in the workplace. Once they know that your age and qualifications are not as good as theirs, they will immediately start to despise you. At first, you may be called by your position, such as manager Wang and supervisor Li, and later you will be called "Xiao+surname" directly, such as Xiao Wang and Xiao Li. The most embarrassing thing is that although the position is high, people still call you "Xiao+surname", which makes you feel at a loss and feel inferior in an instant. So a few years after graduation, a colleague asked me how old I was, and I vaguely said it was grade three. This phenomenon may be more in traditional industries or state-owned enterprises. I think internet companies may be better, and they are equal to their classmates. Or in some companies (I feel that there are many in Shanghai), colleagues call them teachers. As for myself, I always call my colleagues younger than me by their first names (the last two names of three words), which I think is more cordial and equal.

2. Meet someone who is not afraid to trouble you. I am most afraid of this kind of person, because I don't know much about refusing. Once I meet someone who is not afraid to trouble you like a dog skin plaster, I have the courage to refuse, but I am afraid of offending others. If I don't refuse, I think I'm wasting my time and energy. I've been struggling. But in most cases, I will compromise.

I met a person who didn't reply. What about this kind of person? It is that you meet him for one thing, and he seems to promise well. But after the commitment, there is no follow-up feedback. Hurry up, for fear of affecting others. He didn't respond at all if you didn't hurry. You don't know where things are going, and neither do you.

4. I met the old fritters in the middle-aged workplace. Such people really can't play with them in the workplace. They are the thieves who play politics in the office, the first to throw the pot, the first to rob the work, the first to avoid the important, the first to play football and the first to pull the string. Dealing with them for a long time will not only destroy your fighting spirit and enthusiasm, but also slowly flatten you and assimilate.