My father's surname is "Zhou", and his family tree contains "大". Grandpa picked a good name. Parents: We can't pronounce it.

As the old saying goes, it is better to teach a child a skill than to give him a thousand pieces of gold, and it is better to teach a child a good reputation than to teach a child a skill.

In the past two days, Mr. Zhou had been thinking hard about naming his son, and he was even more anxious. In his words, he tore through a Xinhua dictionary and failed to give his son a good name.

Some people may think, isn’t it just a matter of naming a child? Why is it so difficult? As a result, it was really difficult!

The reason? It's because Mr. Zhou has a family tree at home. If you use the family tree to "type out the generation" for your son, you really can't find a good name. After struggling for several days, Mr. Zhou thought: "Now that society is open, do we still need to name our children according to the family tree?"

We know that family trees need "composition generation", and brothers and sisters of the same generation are named. , all use the same word.

For example, if the father's generation is "Zhou", then the child will be named Zhou Feng, Zhou Hao, etc.; when it comes to the child's generation, if the genealogy is "Xue", the child will be named Give a name like Xuejiang or Xuexing.

The arrangement of this character is also particular. Some will be ranked in the middle, such as Li Zhoufeng and Li Zhouhao; some will be ranked at the end, such as Zhou Shuren and Zhou Zuoren; some will not only be ranked in the middle, but also right. There are requirements for the radical of the last name.

Mr. Zhou encountered exactly this problem. The character for his child’s generation is “大” (大), and the last character must be placed next to the character “火” (火).

This naming method limits the names of children to a great extent.

The word "big" alone makes it difficult for experienced people to name it. In addition, with the word "fire" next to it, it is even more difficult to name the child. Because there are about 100 words next to the word "fire", and there are still many words that are not suitable for names.

After Mr. Zhou's son was born, the "community" in the family began to boil: those who looked up the dictionary looked up the dictionary, and those who used their brains used their brains.

A good name makes many people of the same generation come and go, leaving only a few words.

After the whole family made suggestions, they finally settled on a few words: "Jong, Xuan, Xuan, Bing, Ye."

Or, "When everyone adds firewood, the flames rise", I quickly gave Mr. Zhou’s son several names: “Zhou Dajiong, Zhou Daxuan, Zhou Daxuan, Zhou Dabing, Zhou Daye.”

However, after Mr. Zhou and his wife read the names several times, they couldn’t help but frown, feeling these The names don't fit.

"Zhou Dajiong" is the same as "Zhou Dajiong". With such a name, doesn't it make others laugh at the child?

"Zhou Daxuan, Zhou Daxuan" gives people a meaning of "showing off", which is not a simple "showing off", nor is it good.

"Zhou Da Bing" is the same as "Zhou Da Bing, Zhou Da Bing", which either means that the child is unhealthy, or it feels like the name of a "shop", which is not smooth no matter how you call it.

As for "Zhou Daye", his parents couldn't even name him. "Ye" is the same as "ye". In some regional dialects, "Zhou Daye" is directly called "Uncle Zhou".

Naming the child "Zhou Daye" will not only make the parents unable to pronounce it, but also the grandparents will not be able to pronounce it, right?

To put it more exaggeratedly, it is really "whoever calls for it will suffer!"

Therefore, Mr. Zhou has been worrying about the name of his child these past few days, and has been thinking in his heart: What more needs to be done? Don’t name your child according to your family tree?

In this regard, Mr. Zhou would like to refer to the opinions of netizens. On the one hand, he wants to give his child a good name. On the other hand, he also wants to know whether, in a situation like his, it is necessary to name the child according to the genealogy. ?

Netizens have different opinions on this, with some supporting it and some opposing it!

Supporters believe that children should be named according to their family tree: For families, family tree is equivalent to the cohesion of a family.

In the past, many families had family trees, but with the changes in history, many family trees have disappeared. Genealogy is the inheritance of our culture, passed down from generation to generation, and it cannot be "disconnected" in this generation just because the word "generation" is not good-sounding. Besides, the name is just a code name, so it's not that important.

Non-supporters believe that there is no need to name children according to their family tree. Today’s society is very open and we need to be flexible.

Although genealogy is the inheritance of culture, for us in the new era, we need to be flexible when encountering some things. Since there is really no way to choose a name with the word "big", there is no need to choose a name based on the family tree. If you give your child an unpleasant name because of your family tree, wouldn't it make your classmates laugh?

Overall, both views are valid.

However, in my personal opinion, although family history is important, it may be a good solution for both parties to take a step back.

For example, it is difficult to choose a name with the word "big". You can omit the word "fire" next to it, which will expand the range of name choices.

For other situations, if it is difficult to name a girl, let the boy be named according to the family tree. In other words, the first child is born according to the family tree, and the second child is not born according to the family tree. This way, it's easier to give your child a good name.

However, everyone has different understandings of "family tree" and different opinions. What is your opinion on this?

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Is your name based on your family tree? Do your friends know how to name them according to their family tree?

If you were "Mr. Zhou", what would you name your child?

In a situation like Mr. Zhou’s, is it necessary to name the child according to the family tree?