Women who pay attention to spiritual communication (lovers should pay attention to spiritual communication)

Do male guests use "ex-girlfriend" as the criterion for choosing a spouse?

Beware of inequality in love

The handsome boy Guo Ganglong is a luxury goods salesman. Because of his work, he pays special attention to the matching of clothes. I am always concerned about my image. Even if I am just taking a photo, I must choose a beautiful scene, choose a suitable outfit, and have a handsome hairstyle. Friends commented that he is a gentle and slow-tempered "snail boy" who lives at a slow pace and knows how to take care of others. At the scene, he was the first to select Xu Ruixuan as the final selection. The reason was that "she looks a lot like my ex-girlfriend!"

In love, Guo Ganglong claimed to be a beginner. I fell in love once but it is unforgettable. At that time, the girl was the "heartthrob" in the school. Not only did she have many suitors, but she was also very popular with the opposite sex. "There were so many boys that I could chat with!" From the beginning of falling in love with her, I have been jealous and jealous. One or two episodes of jealousy can heat up a relationship, but she is a jealous person. Finally one day the vinegar jar overturned and we broke up." Huang Lan analyzed that in the male guest's relationship, the two people have always been in a state of inequality, and the boy even has a bit of inferiority complex. "He is always worried about gains and losses, and his emotional fluctuations become more and more severe, and the girl's behavior is even worse." It aggravates his inferiority complex, causing him to feel more and more that he is not good enough and not worthy of the other person, and finally becomes completely unbalanced."

Inequality in love is not uncommon, the female guests unanimously suggested. : "Of course it is impossible to be absolutely fair in love. There will always be one party who pays more and one party who pays less, but the status of the two people must be equal. Some people love too humblely and put their status very low. "Insignificant, always looking up to the other person, the distance between the two people will become farther and farther." "Many people can tolerate everything because of their deep love. As long as the other party just coaxes and comforts them, they will follow behind them. This way. Emotions are neither happy nor long-lasting. Love must be mutual, and two people must get along with each other as equals before they can love more stably and long-term."

How to judge whether the opposite sex is attracted to you?

Lovers should pay attention to spiritual communication

Although he is young, Qing Zhixiong, a male guest from Shanghai, I am a square dance enthusiast, and my dance partners are all middle-aged and elderly aunties. His daily life is very simple, basically three to one, going to the park to play badminton with his uncle in the morning, and then going to the store to do business. After work, he often goes to nursing homes to sing to the elderly. His wish is that he can bring laughter to everyone wherever he goes. When we came to "If You Are the One", we first performed a Russian version of "Katyusha", and then performed a square dance. The atmosphere was very happy.

Talking about his relationship experience, Qing Zhixiong revealed that he once had a failed marriage and has a 5-year-old son who now lives with him. Summarizing this relationship, he believed that the two people fell in love too hastily, and their living habits and personalities did not match well after marriage. He likes art, but the other party neither likes listening to music nor dancing, but likes playing games. Over time, the spiritual communication between the two people was broken, and they finally broke up. Later, the male guest met another girl who always liked to like him in his circle of friends. But when he tried to confess her love, the girl strongly denied that she had a crush on him, and finally disappeared altogether.

How to judge whether the opposite sex has a crush on you? The female guests shared their experiences on the spot: "If a person has a crush on you, he will often secretly observe you, and when you notice it, he will quickly Avoid it. In addition, the eyes of someone you like will shine, and you can see the love and joy in it." "In fact, there are many intuitive ways to identify it, such as whether the other person responds to your message instantly, and whether he responds to your date request. Are you willing to agree, will you share your more private thoughts with you, etc." "It is too simple for male guests to judge just by likes. When a person likes you, he not only likes you, but also often comments. , will look through your Moments and Weibo, especially eager to take the initiative to get to know you, love to chat with you when nothing happens, like to hang out in front of you to show off... and many other aspects."

Regarding the spiritual communication emphasized by the male guests, the female guests also agreed very much, "Only love with spiritual communication can flow smoothly. Two people must have consistent views, like-minded interests, and be able to have spiritual conversations on the same channel, so that they can go further." "Compared with the traditional pursuit of a good match, it is more important for two people to be able to chat and have equal spiritual communication. When two people are together, they must have a rich spiritual life to make each other more attracted."

For his future partner, Qing Zhixiong still pays attention to spiritual communication. He hopes that the other half will be a girl who likes art and is full of love for the elderly and children. The two can understand and support each other and go further and further together. . Among Yu Jie and Wu Yue who were selected into the final constituency, who better meets his requirements?

Living the way you like is the best explanation to your parents

The topic of "excessive independence" has attracted heated discussions

"Tradition" and "openness" " are two contradictory words, but they are perfectly integrated by the male guest Zhang Yishu. Born in Chaoshan, influenced by his family environment, he has great respect for his family's traditional life concepts. The experience of studying abroad made him particularly enthusiastic and open-minded. He couldn't help but sigh: "The most painful thing in life is not being able to live your life the way you like." Regarding his marriage, Zhang Yishu and many young people Likewise, parents’ preferences have to be taken into account. Huang Lan said that as a mother, she would not have formal requirements for her children's future life. Her biggest wish is for them to be free and happy. "We, the new generation, have no regard for parents' wishes for a happy marriage for their children," she said. Looking at it dialectically, if you can live very independently and confidently, it will be a kind of freedom and happiness. I think that living the way you like is the best explanation for your parents. ”

Independence, It is a recognized advantage, but some people are "overly independent." Zhang Yishu once dated a similar girlfriend. "She rarely shared her feelings and thoughts with me. She would take care of everything by herself. I couldn't find one at all." To feel needed.” The topic of "excessive independence" has caused heated discussions on the show many times. Some female guests even said that they don't like being greeted by their boyfriends all day long, and they can go without contact with their boyfriends for a month, and they can handle all the problems in life by themselves. Referring to her boyfriend's advice... Huang Lan believes that being too independent will really make the other person have no sense of existence. A good love relationship is to be with the other person's feelings at all times. Two people being together is actually a process of hugging each other for warmth. Meng Fei also said that everything must be done within a certain limit. Although independence is an advantage, it is better to listen to the thoughts and suggestions of your partner for important decisions.

In the end, the male guest selected Dongmei and Xu Ruixuan into the final selection. Can he successfully hold hands? Stay tuned for "If You Are the One" tonight at 20:30!