When classmates get together, many people are very arrogant and always hide their knives. What should we do?

Students who have changed over time are often a very subtle thing. When the reunion is held, most students have been working for a long time and have a stable family life, that is, they have been out of campus life for a long time, so when they get together again, students scattered all over the country suddenly gather together, which will inevitably lead to comparison. The society we live in is a society built by people. Even if people are similar in age, their environment, educational background, working environment, circle of friends and interpersonal relationships are different. It is normal for people to have differences. However, if we compare them in a plane, there will definitely be a difference. The so-called high or so-called low is only a superficial phenomenon, and the most important thing is to see what people care about.

There will always be students who are very good at mixing, and this kind of good is generally popular for having a house and a car, having a mine at home, not worrying about food and clothing, having a stable job, having more money and less things, being close to home, having leisure time, being able to do what you want, getting married and having children early, and completing the major events in life.

The above is probably not accurate, because sometimes poverty will limit our ordinary people's imagination and we can only say what we see on the surface in general. What these excellent students say will inevitably be a little harsh. If he doesn't know how to speak, it will be like handfuls of small knives in the ears of many ordinary students, which is a little uncomfortable.

But maybe his expression is just the way she is used to. He doesn't mean anything, and he doesn't mean to show off. We just treat him like a normal person talking, recognizing his kindness and giving him appropriate praise. Most of them are very ordinary people, with ordinary jobs and ordinary family life. In fact, they are well-fed. There is no need to consume too much emotion to compare this matter, and contentment will be healthy and safe.