I'll let you go.

Then get busy. I won't bother you. I bet you've all said that or been said by others. I really hate this sentence anyway.

I chatted with a friend the other day and sent a few sincere words. He always gives me an expression, and I can see from his bland reply that he doesn't want to continue chatting with me, and I happen to be the kind of character who has something to say. I sent a cheeky sentence: every time you just reply to what I said with a perfunctory expression, I don't want to reply to your news anymore. I want to write an article on this topic. In fact, when I sent this sentence, I was ready to use it as the conclusion of the chat.

Maybe my friend also thinks this joke is quite interesting. After all, sometimes I'm smart when talking about the sky. He replied: you have earned it, add a look that is not salty or light. I couldn't hold back completely, and replied: Thank you for your inspiration. Don't inspire like this in the future. Contrast shows that I am gloomy and I can be proud.

I guess I heard my childish temper from that sentence, so he moved out to help: I'm too busy here to take care of you. Forgive me. This slightly polite sentence translated in my mind is: I am so busy, can you stop bothering me? So my answer is very good: then you are busy and don't bother. I won't go looking for him again.

Maybe someone will think that I am really insensitive, then you are wrong. I am very sensible to strangers and even most of my friends, and I will never stick to them, so I just care about them in front of a few people. I also admit that I didn't control my words because I really wanted to chat with him that day.

But all the enthusiasm can't compare with one sentence: I'm busy. Then get busy.

2.

Although I really hate this sentence: I am busy, but different people have different reactions and sensitivities to me saying this sentence.

I called an ordinary friend without feeling, and he whispered, I'm in a meeting. I'll call you back later. I will be sorry to say on the phone: sorry to bother you, I will contact you later. And there is no trace of dissatisfaction in my heart.

Chatting with someone who doesn't like it so much and is a little annoying, she is not too embarrassed to end the conversation casually. At this time, if she suddenly says: I am suddenly a little busy here, I will find you again when I have time. I will be on the verge of Amnesty here because of her words: I am busy and I am extremely relaxed.

Talking about cooperation with a very important partner, he suddenly said, I am very busy. I'll contact you later. You will have a flash of disappointment and wonder in your mind whether he doesn't want to talk about cooperation with me on the pretext of being busy, or whether he is really busy. This is related to your cooperation and your performance. You will feel sad, but this kind of sadness only includes loss.

Chatting with your boyfriend, you tell him what you want to say cheerfully, and he responds perfunctorily. What's more, he will say: I'm having sex with my brother now and I don't have time to play with you. You can play by yourself first. At this time, your sadness is not mixed with water. You will be sad that he doesn't care about you and hates you. You will guess a lot. Anyway, the quality that this series of speculations wants to express is exactly the opposite of generosity and understanding.

Chatting with someone you like or care about, whether really busy or fake, will make you wonder if you are too annoying, and you will think that he doesn't like you. In your eyes, your concern or words and deeds are invalid for him. This is a mixed feeling of disappointment, loss and sadness.

In fact, we have different reactions to different people: when we are busy, sometimes we care more about you, not because we are ignorant, but because you are more important in our hearts.

3.

Sometimes, because we care, we give each other the right to hurt us, even the simplest and straightforward words.

My father often jokes that every time I leave home, he and my mother become empty nesters. I always laugh and take this sentence as a joke. He and my mother go to work on weekdays, and they are also quite lonely on Saturday and Sunday. For a time, my father and I contacted very frequently. When chatting with me, I said: I can't wait to tie a visual locator to myself and want to know what I have been doing.

The specific performance is that I can receive their WeChat when I wake up on Saturday and Sunday: Are you up, remember to have breakfast? Usually I wake up late, and then every once in a while they continue to send: What are your plans today, where to play, tell dad. After all, my parents are too aware of my habit of sleeping late in the morning. Usually I send two messages and I don't reply, so they will know that I didn't wake up, so I won't send them.

When I wake up, I will reply to their message first, and my father will reply to me in seconds: wake up, don't stay up late, have lunch quickly, eat well and don't be hungry. Then I took a photo of the food for them while eating, and my father began to comment on the food I ate.

Usually chatting on this day is not enough. Video chat with me for several hours at night, and I still miss it every time I hang up. Once in a video, I was in a bad mood because of some other things, and I changed my article and talked to them about my family. I am very angry because of this article. They heard me typing here, which was similar to slamming the keyboard. My dad asked: What's the matter? I was so angry that I just said: I'm bored to death and busy every day. Then my dad also saw me in a bad mood on camera and said, then you go ahead and mom and dad won't bother you.

After hanging up the video, after a long time, I received a WeChat from my dad, which was close to three or four hundred words, to comfort me and let me get busy first. I can see the caution and sadness in my words. Sure enough, after I got angry that night, my father simply said the next day: put on more clothes in cold weather, and there is no other news. Even when I sent a message asking what they were doing, he simply replied, honey, you go.

I dialed the video actively at night. My father is taking a bath, and my mother answers WeChat. She told me secretly: after I lost my temper last night, my father was sad and stayed up for half a night. Let me be nice to him. Of course, I'm sorry I stayed up all night. My father will never tell me.

From now on, I don't have to be busy rejecting my parents. I said to my friends in the group before: When I was young, they were parents, trees and we were children. Now they are still parents, but they will look at our faces carefully like children.

4.

Maybe I've been busy with you, and I've also used busy excuses to perfunctory my relatives. People who know that they care about me say that I am very sad that I am busy without adding water, and people who know that they care about me say that I am busy. Don't bother me. They will lose sleep and feel that they are no longer important, so I don't want to perfunctory others with my busyness.

For those things that I can't help but want to refuse, I will simply say: I'm sorry, I'm really afraid I can't help you. Of course, I know that I can solve this problem more simply and efficiently, and there are suitable excuses to escape, but I think it is unnecessary most of the time.

Also, I am a person with great personality. When I'm really busy, I won't reply to ordinary people's messages. Except for some important and urgent people or people who are very important to me, I will reply as soon as possible, and the rest will be postponed until I am busy. Don't say what to do in case someone comes to me in an emergency. I'm not president, and not many people need to come to me for everything. People who are really in a hurry will call me. Don't let us forget the more magical existence of the telephone because of the invention of WeChat.

I don't want to hear people say to me: I am busy, so I am restrained in talking with most people except my necessary friends. Those who hurt me because I am busy, even if I like you again, you will officially leave my heart from now on. Of course, I will never let my closest relatives say: Then get busy, I will be busy in front of outsiders, but I will always be a child in front of them. Anyway, I am such an unprincipled person.

So those who care say to me: I'm busy, go to hell, I don't like you anymore.