Is there really a history of throwing hydrangeas to attract relatives? What were the ways to get married in ancient times?

There is no hydrangea throwing in history. Although this kind of courtship can often be seen in costume dramas, it is to create more attractions. Because the ancients paid attention to the right family, if you recruit a son-in-law in this way that is completely incompatible with your family conditions. I believe my daughter's parents won't agree. They are afraid that their daughter will suffer.

In ancient times, the requirements for women were very strict, and they often couldn't go out without going out the second door. Moreover, when people are dating, they often go through a matchmaker. If both parties are satisfied, the man will propose. If you really want to lose the ball, the woman may not be willing to marry. If a beggar receives it, I believe her parents will feel very disappointed. It is very likely that the man doesn't want to get married either, so it is just an artistic expression. If it really exists in real life, I believe it will make a big joke, which will make both sides feel particularly embarrassed.

Now, if both men and women are of marriageable age and have no marriage partner, they may be arranged by their parents for blind date. In ancient times, this kind of blind date also existed, but a grand blind date party was held at a specific time. Both men and women can participate, although many people think that ancient women basically stayed at home and could not show their faces. But with the development of society, many women also have a certain status. When attending this blind date, everyone can give each other a bunch of peonies as long as they take a fancy to each other.

For the ancients, it is also clear that they need to broaden their social circle if they want to get rid of Bill. Every year after the third day of March, some young men and women choose to go out for an outing, which not only relaxes their mood, but also provides them with a good opportunity to know the opposite sex. They will sit by the canal, then put their glasses on plates and go down the river. I have to say that they are still very interesting and I want to attract more people's attention in this way.