Does the teacher have to suppress the puppy love of students?

Does the teacher have to suppress the puppy love of students?

Maybe many other people will also have such "troubles". When they were young, when they were sowing the seeds of love, the small flame of love in their hearts was extinguished by another bucket of cold water. It was not until they reached marriageable age and were watered by their parents that they found that their ability to love was frozen! Do children have to suppress puppy love? In the face of children's love, how should parents guide their children to establish a correct view of children's love, whether in the morning or at night?

1. Make friends with children, know yourself and know yourself. For example, when a child tells you that he likes someone, you may feel as uncomfortable as tickling, but you have to say, "Wow, our baby has grown up and already has someone he likes! Tell me what is good about him. He is so blessed that we can all take a fancy to him. " In this way, children can let go of their guard and better master all kinds!

2. Correct guidance, preferably "opposite sex" guidance. For example, at home, boys communicate with their mothers and girls communicate with their fathers, which can help children analyze the psychology of the opposite sex and further understand the situation.

3. Look at each other's excellent communication. If the person your child likes is excellent, parents can ask your child, "Do you want to spend more time with each other?" Because I like it, the child's answer is definitely yes. Parents can take the opportunity to guide their children to say, "The other party is so excellent, you should study hard to get into a university or a city in the future, so that you can spend more time together!"

If children like gangsters, their grades are not very good, but most of these children are particularly loyal! Parents can be grouped. For example, you can ask your children to invite these students to dinner at home. Parents can also participate appropriately when chatting. Even if it is inconvenient to participate, you can learn their thoughts from their chat. In short, there will always be a little flaw, which can be used as a breakthrough and then guide the way forward! What do you think of this?