Joke: Deceiving children is a carefully chosen joke.

Lead: When parents take care of their children, they will always take care of them and chat and play with them when they are young. Many parents may think that their children are young and don't understand some things, so they will talk openly with their children, and even many parents will play unnecessary jokes on their children.

There are many jokes played by parents in life, which may make the baby anxious. Some seemingly accustomed words will have a negative impact on children's psychology and cognition. Parents should not take it seriously.

Who will you choose after divorce?

Seeing this title, I believe many people have had this experience in their childhood. Parents always play jokes on their children with no lower limit.

Some parents always ask their children whether they will choose their father or mother after divorce.

This kind of question is nothing more than to see who is the most important in the child's mind, but it seems simple, but it hurts the child unintentionally.

For children, parents are all they have, which may make them feel abandoned.

Such jokes may have an irreversible impact on children's personality and psychology, and even become a childhood shadow after adulthood.

Spit out relatives and elders to children

There is a skeleton in the cupboard. In the family, the relationship between parents and elders is very clever, and sometimes it may make people think more because of a small matter.

Many treasure mothers will instill some thoughts in their children when they take care of them, and they will also vomit when they talk about the elderly and elders.

For children, such subconscious may be formed from an early age, and children do not have a clear understanding of their elders.

You will also learn something from your mother's words, so that the communication with your elders will change during your child's growth.

Vent bad emotions.

Life will inevitably have some troubles. Many parents vent their troubles in work and life on their children.

Parents think that children are too young to be sensible, but children can still understand their parents' emotions, which will affect their spirit and even cause some psychological problems in the long run.

The child was picked up.

When a child makes a mistake, parents can't help but scold him, even verbally, they can't help but say: the child picked it up by himself.

Such jokes have a great psychological impact on children, and children may believe them. They will think of this sentence when they see their parents' performance in life.

Many children will show rebellious psychology during this period and will find their biological parents in various ways.

As children grow older, they also learn about the world. Parents' joking is extremely unfavorable to children's psychological growth.

Parents' jokes will have a bad influence on children's psychology, which may cause children to have psychological panic and even mental stimulation, so we should pay attention to moderation when joking.

Message: Parents should set an example, establish a good image and go forward bravely in the face of difficulties and problems.

Set an example and establish a tall image in children's minds. Such contact will also make children better.