After marriage, my father always asks me for money. What should I do?

My name is Xiang Han, and I have a brother. My father prefers boys. I have been kind to my brother since I was a child. In my father's eyes, I was the enemy in my last life. I feel that my father has never smiled at me. But my brother and mother love me very much. Every time they treat me better, my father will lose his temper with us. Later, my brother and mother had to be nice to me behind my father's back.

Originally, my father didn't like girls and wouldn't let me study. My brother and my mother begged for a long time before they reluctantly agreed. I also know that my father doesn't like me, so I study hard. I plan to go to the city after I achieve something, instead of staying with my father.

After graduation, I worked in a foreign company. I have a lot of work to do. I was very busy at first, so I didn't have time to go back. When my brother got married, I only sent money back. Then I remembered that my father didn't like me and I didn't want to go back. The situation at home can only be known by phone with my mother.

My family came when I got married, but I returned to the countryside in a few days. Not long after I got married, my father always borrowed money from me, not much at a time, just three or five hundred. This money is really small for me. But the more times my father borrowed it, I began to worry about whether something had happened, compared with my father who didn't like me.

I called my brother and he told me the truth. He said that my mother was very ill. I asked my brother what was wrong, and he casually said five words: "Mom is sick. I was confused at that time. Because when we came back from the city, my mother was caught in a rain. At first she just coughed, and then it got worse. Now she is in hospital.

Mom didn't want you to worry, and she didn't want us to say that there was really no money at home, so she borrowed it from you. "My brother went on to say," Besides, dad has known that he was wrong over the years, and he feels very sorry for you. You just got married and your parents didn't want to drag you down, so they didn't tell you the situation.

After listening to my brother's words, I immediately transferred 65,438+million to my parents' cards and called my father to tell him that it was not important to cure my mother's illness first. I regret it too. Why don't I care more about my family? Now I just hope mom can get better.