Being too sensible is the biggest failure in life

"Looking back over the years, being too sensible is the biggest failure in my life. Being sensible means understanding other people's affairs and suffering. I am easily moved and forget to love myself."

I came across this sentence accidentally and was deeply touched. It seemed that I was talking about myself.

I have always been "sensible" and understand other people's affairs.

I have almost no personal time recently, and even very little time with my family. Because I understand other people’s suffering so well, I am easily moved by other people’s words, and I take on a lot of work. It seems that I am Sharing the burden for others, but in fact it is not helping.

I can't deliver the goods as scheduled, my credit is declining, and I don't like myself very much.

You are so busy that you don’t even have time to breathe, but who will understand you?

If you can’t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?

Therefore, we must learn to say no and learn to let go.