Life is in a hurry, and self-reliance is an ability.

Everyone is looking for a ferryman who can ferry himself, but even the best ferryman can't help you through the long road of life. The only thing that can ferry you is yourself.

It is better to rely on others than to rely on yourself, and it is better to live by yourself than to live by others. Life is in a hurry, and crossing yourself is everyone's ability.

As San Mao said, "What is the heart? It is like a maze, and it is thousands of miles away. There is no boat to cross people, and there is nothing others can do except cross themselves. "

There are many people who can help you, but only you can help you. Learn to make a living, and you can find a way out.

The vast sea of people, although I met many people, but few people accompanied me. Even your peers are just luxuries. How do you expect others to consume you?

No one will always be with you, and no one will help you through it for no reason. Even your parents will say goodbye to you in advance. After you are left alone, you can only rely on yourself.

On the way forward, there will inevitably be hardships and setbacks. These sufferings seem to be holding you back, but this is your chance.

As long as we get through hardships and overcome setbacks, we can turn these hardships into an upward ladder. This is paving the way for your own life. No one can help you except yourself.

This is a process that you have to go through, and you can't avoid it. You have no choice but to try to protect yourself.

Of course, you can wait for others to save you, but ask yourself, are you confident to survive the long wait?

Waiting for others to save is the stupidest thing, and learning to die is the way to save yourself.

People live a lifetime, and choice is very important. If you choose to ask for help, you lose the opportunity. Choosing to cross the river by yourself can really create a beautiful world for yourself.

Man's destiny is in his own hands. You have to create the life you want. You must choose where you want to go.

Others can give you advice, but they can't make decisions for you; Others can accompany you for a while, but they can't accompany you to the end.

Stumbling along the way, those who promised to accompany you in this life disappeared from your world at some point, and only your own shadow really accompanied you.

You can't keep everyone and everything, so don't expect you to get anything from it. It is the wisest choice to go your own way, pursue your dreams and cross your own boat.

It is difficult for a person to go forward alone, but please believe that as long as you have the ability to die, all suffering is just a cloud.

As the saying goes, "life is up to me", no matter in good times or bad times, we should firmly grasp the steering wheel of fate and cross the river to find our real habitat.

Waiting for a person to cross seems easy and effortless, but in fact it just leaves the fate to others.

Learning to fend for itself, although difficult, is also a management of life. The world is in a hurry, and only by crossing the river can we reach a happy country.

Everything that happens to you is your own business, and no one can feel the same with you. Those who say they will help you are actually waiting to see your jokes.

You expect others to cross you, but others just want to get satisfaction from you. You expect others to ferry you, but others are not your ferrymen at all.

In this world, the only person who really thinks about you and only wants to cross you is yourself. You can't count on anyone. Instead of passively waiting for others to cross, it is better to learn to cross as soon as possible.

You have to understand that things are in a hurry and self-reliance is an ability. With this ability, the road will be smoother in the future.

From an early age, we knew that we should do our own things, and we can really rely on our heads by ourselves.

The sign of a person's true maturity is to know that he will create his own future, go his own way and cross his own destiny.

No matter how difficult the road ahead is, you should grit your teeth and go forward bravely; No matter how hard life is, enjoy it. No matter what happens, you must change your life by your own efforts.

Seneca once said: "Real life can only be achieved through hard struggle."

How can I meet a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? How can there be happiness without suffering?

One day you will understand that everything you have experienced is stimulating your potential. With the impact of suffering, you can truly have the ability to die.

A successful life depends on self-crossing; A bright future depends on self-reliance. Learn to live by yourself, and the rest of your life will be wonderful.

"Without wind and waves, it is impossible to show the true colors of sails; Without twists and turns, you can't taste the joy of life. "

Everyone's life is actually the same, and there are bound to be storms and twists and turns. Since you can't change it, you might as well learn to die.

No one's life is smooth sailing. Some people walk smoother than you because others are crossing themselves and you are waiting for someone to cross. In the process of waiting, others have already ushered in the light before you.

In this life, people can lack everything, but they can't lack the ability to fend for themselves. Self-reliance is an ability and a ladder to success.

There is a saying in Buddhism: "Think about it and cross the river." Crossing people is a kind of accomplishment, and self-crossing is an ability. Crossing people first is the way out.