Why have you been divorced for a long time and your life is terrible? I'm afraid my ex-wife will know. Why?

First of all, I understand that you may be experiencing some emotional difficulties, including discomfort after divorce and fear that your ex-wife will know about you.

Divorce is a very difficult decision, no matter what the reason, it will have a far-reaching impact on both parties. After divorce, many people will go through a period of adaptation, including readjusting to single life, dealing with emotional problems, dealing with pre-relationship and so on.

You may be worried that your ex-wife knows about you, because you don't want her to worry, or you don't want her to think that you are not doing well. In addition, you may also want to maintain your image and self-esteem, and don't want your ex-wife to see your weaknesses.

However, if your ex-wife cares about your situation and you have the responsibility to tell her frankly about your situation, then maybe you should consider communicating with her. This can avoid unnecessary guesses and misunderstandings and help her better understand your situation.

If you feel unable to face your ex-wife, you can consider seeking professional help, such as a psychologist or counselor. They can help you deal with emotional problems, provide support and guidance, and help you through this stage.

Finally, please remember that divorce is a complicated process, which takes time and effort to adapt. Don't feel lonely or helpless. Asking for help and support can help you get through this stage.