Yin Lihua: After practicing the diamond heart, it is still a lotus face.

She is the most beautiful girl in Chu Wancheng, with bright eyes, white teeth and peach blossom face. She is the stunning beauty that countless men dream of, but she just married a commoner in cloth.

Married in March, her husband abandoned her in her family, went all the way north, and married another woman. Beautiful mountains and rivers, ten miles of red makeup, her husband married in other places, only a few months before she got married. From the wife to the concubine, no one complained about the spring sorrow in the boudoir, suffering day and night.

War, everywhere show, white bones exposed in the wild, thousands of miles without crowing, poor white bones by the river, still a dream girl, one will die. Two years later, her husband proclaimed himself emperor and she returned to Luoyang, the capital.

However, both her husband and his wife are young, and she looks like an outsider, watching her husband and other women very much in love. And that woman's family is distinguished and noble. What will she do to save her love?

What used to be a perfect match has now become a joke. She is the original match, and she actually lives a concubine life in the eyes of others. She is as humble as dust. How should she deal with herself when her husband is older than the sky? How to save yourself?

But she is Yin Lihua, a smart woman with the reputation of "marrying Yin Lihua". This woman is not simple, and her life is destined to be a legend.

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Yin Lihua, a new savage in Nanyang County, has a rich and prominent family background. She was a giant at that time, and her appearance was amazing. She was the object of admiration of countless men, including Liu Xiu.

Liu Xiu is a follower of the royal family in the Western Han Dynasty. In Liu Xiu's generation, there is no difference between civilians and civilians. He has a brother-in-law who is a relative of the Yin family. Liu Xiu happened to see Yin Lihua, but he fell down.

Just like the legend sung by Faye Wong, I will never forget your face, just because I saw you in the crowd. Love at first sight, but I don't know what happened later. Liu Xiu couldn't help sighing: Marry Yin Lihua. This is his ultimate dream in love.

At the end of the Western Han Dynasty, there was chaos in the world, and there were bonfires everywhere, and heroes from all walks of life rose up in succession. Liu Xiu and his brother Ada farm together, and their brother is better. Of course, it also became a thorn in the side of the first emperor and wanted to slap him. Finally, Qin Shihuang beheaded Ada in Wancheng on the grounds of "offending Tianwei".

In June, Liu Xiujun and Kunyang defenders were attacked inside and outside, and Wang Mang's 420,000 troops were wiped out. Liu Xiujun became the hero of Kunyang War and became famous all over the world. At this time, knowing that his brother was killed, Liu Xiu chose to hibernate and marry Yin Lihua.

As a qualified politician and strategist, Liu Xiu not only has love in his eyes, but also has a win-win consciousness. Marrying Yin is tantamount to adding wings to the tiger.

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After marriage, they were very happy, which is also a day that Liu Xiu still remembers for many years. When his wife is down and out, she is willing to tie the knot with herself. This woman deserves his treasure.

Married in March, Liu Xiu traveled to Hebei by bike. It was a long journey, and it was hard to predict whether it was a blessing or a curse. Yin Lihua was left alone, scared day and night, but she had to leave for her future.

At this point, Yin Lihua's profound sense of justice and intelligence emerged. Since we can't stay, we might as well let him go. After three years apart, she can only look at the window and the north every day to comfort the suffering of lovesickness.

At this time in Hebei, the situation was turbulent. Wang Lang supported Liu Ziyu, the son of Emperor Han Cheng, as the emperor's special envoy. When Liu Xiuchu arrived in Hebei, he was arrested by hundreds of families in Wang Lang, and Liu Yang, the strongest true king among the three kings of Hebei, joined Wang Lang.

In times of crisis, Liu Xiu's envoy successfully lobbied for Wang, but he had to marry Liu Yang's niece Guo Shengkun. Liu Xiu is in a dilemma. On the one hand, it is a beloved wife who has been married for several months, and on the other hand, it is the political capital of a hundred thousand troops. He can't give up both, but he must make a choice.

Finally, Liu Xiu decided to marry Guo Shengtong. Liu Xiu and Liu Yang joined hands to win Handan and slay Wang Lang. Subsequently, Liu Xiu swept north of the Yellow River. In a.d. 25, Liu Xiu proclaimed himself emperor in Hebei, and Jianwu was established in posthumous title.

In July of the first year of Jianwu, Liu Xiu went south and took Luoyang directly, and in October he established Luoyang as his capital. In the same year, Guo Shengkun, who had been driving with him, gave birth to Liu Jiang, the eldest son of the emperor, and Yin Lihua, who was far away in Xinye, was also accepted by Luoyang, the imperial city.

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After three years of hard work, my beloved husband became an emperor admired by thousands of people, and there was another beautiful young woman beside him, Mrs. Guo, who was covered with trees and branches. They seem better than husband and wife.

Open the original wife, but like a mistress involved in other people's marriage, the lingering love in the past may have been invalidated, only to see the couple talking and laughing, while the old love broke down in tears. Yin Lihua has a dignified smile on her face, but her heart is bleeding. At this moment, she regretted it and taught her husband to find the seal.

Ironically, Zhu Shazhi, who was clearly in her heart, became someone else's pillow! But she had to put away all her feelings and pretend to be innocent. Yin Lihua is very clever She understands her position, understands the strength of the other side, and chooses to bear it according to the situation.

Two ladies, one wife and one concubine, who is the lady and who is the concubine? On the one hand, she is her dream lover and original wife, on the other hand, she is an innocent woman with strong family strength and a young eldest son.

Yin Lihua is love, Guo Shengkun is politics, and Liu Xiu is embarrassed and worried. He once galloped on the battlefield, fought freely and fought to the death, but he failed to give his wife the birthright he deserved and failed the Guo family who gave birth to him.

Yin Lihua saw Liu Xiu's entanglement, hesitation, hesitation, hesitation and helplessness at this moment. All her waiting and missing are worth it. She was distressed and compromised, and decided to personally end the dispute between wives and concubines.

So, she resigned and offered to let Guo Shengtong be the queen and live in the concubine's room. She cares more about whether she can live in his heart than her junior position.

Lost the backcourt and won the love.

Some people say that Yin Lihua knew that Guo Shengkun's family was powerful, and even if she sealed the queen, she could not sit still. She might as well resign voluntarily, which not only shows her generosity and forbearance, but also wins Liu Xiu's apology and relieves Liu Xiu's worries, killing two birds with one stone. This woman is smart enough.

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If Yin Lihua can have such a profound meaning, there is no doubt that this woman has more political skills than we thought and is a master of playing politics.

I prefer to believe that Yin Lihua made a decision for Liu Xiu from the standpoint of Liu Xiu. She understood his pain and difficulties. She didn't want to embarrass him if she had to choose. She is willing to keep his name, let him be safe and let him be safe all his life.

Guo Shengkun won the game and advanced to the backcourt. His son became a prince, and Huazhi Man Chun was proud of the spring breeze; Yin Lihua also won this game. Liu Xiu saw her pain, her understanding, and her generosity and understanding.

If Liu Xiu is love rat, Yin Lihua's giving up and paying is doomed to be disappointed. However, this man has been a soldier for half his life. He has a strong personality and is gentle with children. In his bones, he and she are the same kind of people, with a gentle and honest temperament. They deserve each other's kindness and love.

Guo Shengkun's honor is too full, and she overdraws her love. Liu Xiu's heart began to tilt towards Yin Lihua, and he could only make some compensation privately.

Once there is prejudice, there will be resentment and hostility, which can't be blamed on Guo Shengkun. Every woman in love, once in love, can't, will be like this. Even if we take Qi Mei as an example, it is difficult to tell the truth. She cried, she complained, she made trouble, but he turned a deaf ear. Guo Shengkun doesn't understand that it's wrong for a man who doesn't love himself to cry, complain, make trouble, live or die.

This man has never loved her. There is warmth, grace and kindness, but only when she is considerate and reasonable. Once she is unwilling, unfair, disobedient and unreasonable, he will lose patience.

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Furthermore, once Guo Shengkun, representing hundreds of military forces, was Liu Xiu's political capital, his weapon and armor for attacking the city, and his chip for attacking the city. Now that the world is unified, it is a success. Since ancient times, birds have done their best to hide their bows and rabbits have done their best to cook, without exception.

Success is Xiao He, failure is me, and consorts are too big to fail. This is a nightmare for many emperors. Before the lujia, after the family, and Guo Shengkun this disgruntled woman, once his daughter-in-law became a woman, how can you allow others?

"The queen with a grudge, several times in violation of fatwas, can't caress it, training room? There is no virtue of Guan Yu, but there is a wind of Lu fire. How can you entrust a young orphan? " A dead letter, more than ten years of glory, Guo Shengkun became the Queen Mother of Zhongshan, and Yin Lihua, who had been a concubine for many years, won the second place.

Guo Shengtong has a good hand, power, status, honor and a prince. She was supposed to be a concubine. She had everything a wife should have, but she didn't expect to lose it. Maintaining marriage depends on wisdom, which she is not as good as Yin Lihua.

The most ruthless royal family, as a royal woman, should not woo the emperor. Grace is more important than love. Mothers depend on their children and children depend on their mothers. She can't understand that she gave birth to five princes, but she still resents and resents. A disgruntled wife is doomed to no good end, with a glorious life and a bleak life.

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In contrast, Yin Lihua is much smarter. She knows that there is no fish in clear water, even if her heart is like a mirror, she should pretend not to know. Do you think she is willing to be her own wife and concubine? No, no, behind her calm clouds, she will also toss and turn, sleepless all night, tears streaming down her face, sobbing.

Love can't match reality. She can only compromise, pretend not to, but also be sensible, sensible, take care of the overall situation, really gentle, or pretend to be obedient. In short, she has always been generous and tolerant in the eyes of others. Renxiao is in disguise. This woman is not simple.

It is a means to open flowers and willows; The wind is crazy and the rain is urgent. If you stand firm, you will see your heel.

If you think this is the acme of this woman, you are wrong again. After she became a queen, she treated the Guo family and his son well together and won a worldwide reputation. This woman is as steady as Mount Tai, so what if she really has a plan? Enough, enough, this is beyond the reach of many women.

Guo Shengkun people are not bad. They have been self-denial and impeccable, but they happened to meet Yin Lihua. There is never a shortage of smart people in this world. What is lacking is smart and intelligent people. This kind of person is not short of means and knows how to be a man, but he knows how to be a man first and then do things.

I never believed that Yin Lihua could win the world by virtue of kindness, humility and gentleness. She has her own incomparable soft power. This kind of strength is the ability in work, calmness in love and self-confidence in marriage.

As the writer Li Ailing said, a woman with mountains and rivers in her breast and mountains in her eyes has a diamond heart, a Zhang Furong face, flowers in her heart, a sword in her hand, a kind heart and diamond means, which is the anchor of life, just like her own steel.

Such a woman is destined to be invincible.