Is it normal for people to have sad things in their hearts rather than say them?

Of course it's normal, very normal. This has little to do with your introversion. Even if extroverts sometimes want to keep their sadness in their hearts, they choose not to say it and digest it themselves.

We usually say, you tell the story, and then all of us will help you solve it. If you can't solve it, we can help you share the pain. But in fact, there is no empathy for this matter at all, and it is difficult for others to understand you, because the needle will never hurt unless it is stuck in your body.

You may refute me. Do you know why women generally live longer than men?

That's because when a woman meets something, she will choose to say it, cry and then vent. Men, on the other hand, like to put things in their own hearts, and if they don't say it, they will suppress internal injuries after a long time.

There is some truth in what you said, but in fact, it was not because she said it, but because she let it out and finally didn't take it to heart. Even if you told someone about it, you still can't let it go. It's a thing to keep thinking about it. For example, Sister Xianglin in Lu Xun's works is very willing to talk to others, but after a long time, she can't let it go and others don't like it.

and sometimes, our hearts are very rough and uncomfortable, but only about 7% or 8% of what you can clearly express, and 5% or 6% of what the other person hears, so that only 2% or 3% of what the other person can understand and feel. So don't say that no one understands your feelings. You really can't blame others.

Besides, it's human nature and understandable to find it difficult to talk about something sad, but you must learn to talk to yourself. If you can talk to yourself, you don't need to talk to others.

When I was in college, one of my roommates belonged to the kind that ha ha ha every day. We called him Ma Daha. When something happens to him, he often heals himself without waiting for others to persuade him. I still remember that when he was a freshman, he thought he could live without studying in college, but he really didn't take it seriously. He played games every day in his freshman semester, and the game was slippery. As a result, he failed five subjects in his freshman semester. Freshman last semester, a * * * also didn't have a few subjects, including the situation and policy, ideological education, physical education, these must-have subjects.

by the way, he failed in meditation, hahaha, I just remembered. He was very uncomfortable at that time, and we tried to persuade him. He said that he was alone, but he got better the next day, and he was as ha ha ha as before, and I was very convinced by him.

so if you feel uncomfortable, you should adjust yourself.