Women with high emotional intelligence can flirt with men.

1. What should I talk about when chatting with a man? When chatting with men, many girls always think about what to say and what kind of stories to tell, and think the content of the chat is very important. As everyone knows, what is more important than the content is the atmosphere of chatting. When chatting, girls need to look at men with focused and encouraging eyes to stimulate men's desire to speak. In fact, the content is not important, because men will only feel happy to chat with you, satisfy their sense of accomplishment and express their desire. As for what they said, they can't remember at all. The way you listen carefully and express yourself correctly will always arouse men's emotions more than what you say. The same classic speech, let different people say it, the effect is very different. You have accumulated some words and a certain amount of stories, and you have a topic to talk to men. Next, you need to master a relaxed and emotional expression. It is very important to guide at the beginning, which can mobilize men's emotions and enhance the pleasant atmosphere of chatting. Once men's emotions are activated and the atmosphere of chatting is improved, what they talk about is not so important. Second, every time I send him a message, he always replies: Busy. What the hell does he mean? There are generally two situations when you encounter such a reply: 1. He is really busy and has no mind or energy to chat with you. 2, I don't want to talk to you, I am perfunctory. For the first kind, as long as a man is interested in you, he will definitely contact you after he is busy and explain it to you. Next time, he will take the initiative to open the topic and chat with you. If he often replies like this, then he is probably perfunctory. In other words, this man is not interested in you. Nowadays, everyone has his own mobile phone. As long as he wants to hear from you, he has, and he won't for a long time. You want to know whether he loves you or likes you. In fact, not replying is a very clear answer. Third, the man said, "Are you secretly in love with me?" How to answer? This is also a problem of strong framework. For such confession hints, neither deliberately suppress each other, nor change the subject. The principle of answering is to keep your own rigid framework. You can kick the ball back to him in a sarcastic tone. "Look not to come out, you will be cold reading? Know what I'm thinking? Yes, I really want to know if you are secretly in love with me. " Fourth, for those high-quality male gods, can you expose the sense of demand? Men are full of genes of curiosity and conquest, especially those with high quality. Before he becomes interested in you, you expose your interest in his needs, and he will soon lose interest in you. Men often don't cherish things that are too easy to get. They will only regard you as a spare tire or a short-term goal. Only by arousing his emotions can he be attracted. This is a sentence you need to remember. Emotion has neither interest nor logic, and there is no way to reason. Never expect to persuade a man to fall in love with you by reasoning. Love is unreasonable. When you start preaching, your attraction in men's eyes will only gradually weaken. Everything happens for a reason. Your life now is inseparable from something you have. For example, superior family conditions, natural beauty, and their own struggles and efforts. Give full play to what you have and explore your new advantages, which will make you more comfortable in attracting men. These fields include but are not limited to the following aspects: figure, appearance, wisdom, manners, dressing and so on. What should you do if a man makes some small requests, such as asking you to help him pour water? The most important thing in the relationship between men and women is the matching and balance of values. Unilateral efforts cannot maintain a long-term relationship. He asked you to help him pour water, so you need to ask him. For example, you can say, ok, but the water is not poured for nothing. You must visit your relatives. Or, well, pour water. You must learn to meow three times first. Before serving him, you must keep your own framework. To provoke a man, you should not only make him feel your value, but also have the ability to leave him at any time. 6. If a man asks, "Why do you care so much about me?" How should you answer? When a man says this, he is probably expressing a hint or a waste test. This is a problem with obvious tendentiousness. If you follow his ideas, then you will fall into the other party's box. No matter how you answer, it means that you have paid attention to each other. So when a man asks such a question, the best answer is not to answer. Will not respond, just ignore it. It is the best choice to jump out of each other's box and not accept hints. If you can't help but respond, then you must jump out of the framework set by the other party. You can say, "Why do you men like to flatter yourself so much? This is not good, it will reduce your charm. " A better expression is to cover him with your frame. You can say, "Is there? I don't particularly care about you when I treat my friends like this. Why do you ask? Are you starting to have a crush on me? " There is only one place in the world that I can call home, and that is where you are. 2. Without me before you, I am happy with it, and after I met you, for you. I just want to be a person after meeting you. What person? Your people. 4. Have you arrived home? No, without you, no place is home. Love is a song without a name, which is reserved for you without a name in this world. 6. "I found someone secretly loves you." "Who is it?" "me." 7. You are the star in my eyes, the brightest one, which stirs my heart. 8. I want to go to a Syracuse with you and grow old step by step. 9. I hope someone will understand me, even if I don't say anything. 10, live a good life and love you slowly, neither too early nor too late, but only you. 1 1, I despise the world again, and I want to hold your hand seriously. 12, even if I am good enough, you can't see it, because you don't have a pair of eyes that love me. 13, the corners of the mouth unconsciously rose, and the rising angle touched happiness. 14, let the wind and rain hit me, I will not die. There are not many blind people like me, so you should cherish me. 16, I still like you very much, like the old play bones and soft words in the old city. 17, liking you is like an old love letter, which means a lot. 18, I am very capable, but there is one thing I can't do, that is, I won't leave you. 19, all you gave me was scars. There is nothing to see. 20. I love you, my love, it is you! 2 1, the universe is romantic and the life is warm, which is worth my progress. I can't love you for ten thousand years, but I just want to take care of you all my life. 23. The greatest happiness in this life is that I love you, and I love you too. I fell in love with you from the day we met. 25. The gift still arrived as promised. Thank you. 26. I am yours, and no one can take it away. That's how I gave up. 27. "I think I am a playboy", "Why" and "Because I like every look of you" 28. Can you help me with some washing? Wash what? Like me. 29. You are the one who makes me secretly happy when I think of you. You are so sweet that you are overjoyed. 30. Every time I go through the security check, I worry that I can't get through, because I have you in my heart. 3 1. If you are tired, you can stop watching the sunset. On the road of life, I will accompany you to wander. Do you know the difference between you and monkeys? The monkey is in the tree, and you are in my heart. Don't let me see you, or I will like you as soon as I see you. 34, spring water is born, spring forest is in full bloom, and the spring breeze is ten miles, not as good as you. Autumn leaves have fallen, and autumn rain continues. I am worried about autumn, just for you. 35. Elephant's nose, panda's eyes, bird's wings, snail's shell, my you. I regret knowing you. You made me feel pain when you left me. 37. Maybe there is always a deadline for everything, such as yesterday's you, such as love words that have not been sent. If possible, I would like to spend every minute of my life with you. 39. The only meanness in this life is that you are mine. 40. Every time I miss you, there is one more star in the sky, so there is the Milky Way. If a woman with high emotional intelligence molests a man, 3 1. There is no desert in the world. Every time I miss you, God drops a grain of sand, and there is Sahara from now on! On the first Valentine's Day of this century, I wish you a happy Valentine's Day. I don't know if I will meet you in my next life, so I will love you more in this life. Meeting you is a mistake, falling in love with you is a mistake, and leaving you is a mistake. 5. Every minute of separation makes me understand that a man's heart is also made of glass; I think of you all the time, let me know that my heart also needs the comfort of love. 6. I love you/but I'm afraid to say it/I'm afraid to say it/I'm going to die soon/I'm not afraid of death/I'm afraid I'll die/no one loves you like me. 7. We walk side by side on some roads, and we are the protagonists in some stories. We have been singing a song for so long, and what will never change is our deep attachment to love. 8. Nothing, I just miss you suddenly. It was only for a moment that I thought of you. In this emotional year, I just said, I like you. I miss you very much now. 9. The only obstacle that prevents me from kissing you now is this glass on your mobile phone. 10, I hope that one day, I can open my heart and read the Sprite version of the Declaration of Love to the World. I firmly believe that this will also be a touching story that has touched the ages! 1 1, how long the night is, how long the tears are, and how long the love is. Follow you for a century rain or shine! We sail forward in the ocean of fate! 12, if it weren't for the rainy day and the miserable face, how could you see my heart like rain? 13, thousands of lights are shining, and I miss my hometown when I go out. I haven't seen my lover for a long time, and it's even sadder to think of my lover. 14. Why do I always have tears in my eyes? Because I love you deeply. 15. Love is a rose with thorns. If it is pricked, it will hurt and bleed. I hope we can grasp the little love in our hearts!