The highest state of loneliness, in a word

The highest state of loneliness is to fold and collect the unpleasant past in an unmanned corner.

In life, there is no experience of not going, only yourself who doesn't go; Feelings, no past, only mood. Tears are talking expressions; Heartache is invisible cold. No matter how deep the feelings are, I can't help being indifferent. Don't open your wound to others. There are not many doctors in the world, only doctors who sprinkle salt. Many people lie to you, and you are very useful. No matter how many people are with you, you are useless. There are many people who are far away from you. That is the reality.

Life is too short, there is no need to worry too much about life, some things are not understood and not understood; Some people don't know, they don't know. Life will not change because of your complaints; Life will not change because of your melancholy.

Some people you can't forget can only be lonely; You can't let go of some feelings, you can only make a fuss. Maybe others have forgotten you, and memory is just your own cage; Maybe others have a better life than you. Worrying is just your extra futility. You're just the past, not the only one. I will remember you and love others. For the rest of our lives, we will have a good life. Qian Shan is changeable, not as gentle as your smile; I look back and wish you all the best.

The benefits of being alone.

Being alone is an ability, just like socializing. Unfortunately, this ability of modern people is declining. The reasons are: firstly, in modern society, human beings live in a social state, which means that you are "part of the collective". Now we live completely in the relationship with others and lose the possibility of being alone. Second, with the fast pace of life and high work pressure, people are used to the feeling of holding a group to keep warm. Third, many people think that being alone is a waste of time.

Fourth, modern people's sensibility and appreciation of beautiful things are weakening, which directly affects the effect of solitude and the result of thinking. Fifth, it is generally understood that being alone means leaving the crowd and society. In fact, there is an essential difference between loneliness and solitude. Loneliness is because you can't feel the care from others, it is a kind of pain without warmth, and it is a passive acceptance emotion; Being alone is an active choice, giving you enough time and space to think.