I don't want to bring my grandson. Now that my grandson is in kindergarten, my daughter-in-law has no intention of going to work. What should I do?

Generally speaking, in a normal family, the child is the most important one, and for the old and young people at home, they will think of the child. Open-minded old people take the initiative to take care of their children in order to reduce the burden on young people. For these elderly people, because they don't need to work, taking care of their children can not only enjoy family happiness, but also reduce the burden for their children. This is the best of both worlds. Why not?

Actually, not all the old people think so. Many old people think that the child is your child. Although I am the child's grandparents, I don't want to take him. Because the old man feels that he has been brought up by his own children, and now he needs to have his own life. You may want to go out for a walk, travel, or live a relaxed life alone. It's not so demanding for children to take care of themselves, because although they are 5 or 6 years old, they are still in good health, far from the age when they need children to take care of them. We also understand this kind of old people. I have been busy worrying about my children for most of my life. Now that my children are married, I can relax myself.

You don't want to bring grandchildren. I can understand what you're doing, because it's not inevitable to bring grandchildren. There is no explicit law in the law that grandma must bring grandchildren. If you don't want to bring grandchildren, you can just take them away. The grandson is going to kindergarten, and the child's mother doesn't want to go out to work. I don't know what you are struggling with on this floor. I also said that I don't want to bring my grandson, who has already gone to kindergarten, which means that my mother always brought her. Since you don't want to take your grandson, you should stay out of everything about your grandson and mother. Be an old man in peace, do what you want, and don't think about being a demon.

It's not up to you to decide whether a child's mother will go to work or not, because although the child is in kindergarten, people are needed to pick up and drop off the child. The problem of transportation is that children come back from school to help their children learn. These all need people, and because you don't want to bring your grandchildren, if your mother goes to work at this time, who will pick up the children and help them learn?

in this case, I have two suggestions.

First of all, considering that you don't want to take care of your children, whether they are in kindergarten or not, and their mothers have no plans to go out to work, you can't intervene. To put it bluntly, although you are the child's grandparents, you are not related to the child's mother. You have no obligation to help her take care of the child and don't want to take care of her grandchildren, so she has no obligation to support you and doesn't want to listen to you ramble here. In this case, just don't interfere and let it develop.

then another situation is that you want to step in and make decisions. If you want your child's mother to go out to work, then you can communicate with her. Because her mother is working, you will pick her up and drop her off. When the child is out of school and her mother is not off work, you will coach her. In her usual life, you also need to do your best to take care of her. Let the mother of the child rest assured that she can give the child to you with confidence.