24 suggestions for keeping girls in love.

24 suggestions for keeping girls in love.

Girls, you should remember that love is not the whole of life, and you don't need to be tired of each other all the time. Too sweet and boring is the beginning of collapse.

Two people together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be a small friction, and it will blow over over time. Girls will think that boys ignore themselves and feel insecure, so they will make trouble. In fact, I just want boys to care about themselves and themselves.

Then how should we keep our feelings fresh and lasting at this time? Don't take office early, don't take office early in front of him. Don't mention his predecessor in front of him when quarreling. Do you want to help him find those good times with his predecessor?

Don't chase boys who often take selfies in the middle of the night to show their figure. Maybe he is casting a net in this way. Always maintain ideological and economic independence, so as not to be led by the nose emotionally.

On the first date with the opposite sex, if he takes you to the glass bridge, watch thrillers, escape from the secret room and other exciting projects, then you may be attracted to him. In fact, in a tense environment, it is easy for people to rely on those around them. Make sure whether a person really loves you or pay more attention to his usual performance.

Don't talk about fruitless love unless you don't want to get married! The longer it takes, the more it hangs! The person who wants to marry you won't keep you waiting too long and won't give you the result, which only shows that you are not suitable for being together at all.

Demining before marriage is very important. Don't talk about contact, at least know what kind of people the man's parents are. In love, people who know how to encourage and praise are more likely to get happiness! Always keep a 30% mystery about your boyfriend. Handsome, romantic, 180CM, really smells good. But what really lasts is loving you, being loyal and being responsible.

In communication, if a man seldom spends money on you, he probably doesn't really like you. This has little to do with Zhao Shi's financial situation. The point is: is he willing to spend money for you?

During the period of cohabitation, if the other party has pushing behavior during the quarrel, or has fake actions such as pinching the neck and slapping the face, break up immediately! This is what many domestic violence looks like at the beginning: first do some small moves to test you, such as punching and kicking. If you don't resist, it will get worse and eventually turn into a beating.

Don't brush Tik Tok when dating. Don't tell the whole story to the boy you just met. Don't let him get too close to his best friend. If you have been with him for more than a year, you can count the happy days with your hands. You should take a good look at the meaning of this relationship, whether it is because of loneliness or pure wishful thinking.

Learn to communicate deeply. No matter how tacit two people are, they should communicate more. If you don't say anything, he won't ask, and if you keep it in your heart, you will form a hidden disease. Over time, feelings will crack. One of the effective ways to promote communication is "reading". Girls who like reading can easily perceive each other's worries and easily resolve the contradictions between couples.

Just listen to the other party's promise before it is fulfilled, and don't take it seriously. See how much a person loves you, don't just listen to his vows of eternal love, and don't indulge in his nectar. The most important thing is to see what he has done for you.

Reduce expectations and increase happiness. Once we fall in love with someone, we will unconsciously imagine each other perfectly. In this way, after formal communication, there will often be a sense of gap between reality and expectation, and even a small fault of the other party will become a guide hole for quarreling. In fact, none of us are perfect. It is better to guide him to become better than to blame him.

When you want your boyfriend to work hard, don't say, "Can you be a little self-motivated?" This often has the opposite effect; The correct way is to be considerate and tolerant, then hug him gently and say "dear, let's work together" gently. However, a boy who loves you and has a sense of responsibility will not be moved when he hears this sentence. Therefore, people who know how to encourage and praise in love can make themselves and their other half better and better.

After dating, try not to send private photos in the circle of friends, and make less jokes about the opposite sex. Your "innocence" means good to some people.

If you only indulge in the present relationship, you are doomed to go far. If he can't provide you with a guarantee for the future and doesn't make any plans for your future, it will be difficult to guarantee a good life in the future. Marriage is an important event that affects the rest of your life. Don't ignore the fit of each other's three views because of the sweetness of love.

It is important to have empathy when you are in love. Being busy or not and loving you or not are two different things. On the premise that he loves you, you should learn to understand why he is busy at work and has little company. After all, society acquiesces that men always have to take on more responsibilities. How far can you go by feeling without bread?

How to determine whether a relationship can go on? This hole is enough. After you were with him, did your whole life get better or worse? If it is a date, it has always been your unilateral efforts, mental fatigue and physical fatigue. It's time to consider whether this relationship can continue. A good relationship should make each other better than before, not worse. Good here means not only material things, but also physical and mental pleasure and emotional satisfaction.

I appreciate a girl's love view most: whether single or in love, she can maintain economic and ideological independence. I am humble when I have him, like a duck to water: I can live well without him.

The more women love life, the more men can feel your enthusiasm, charm and energy. Enrich your spiritual world, and your inner charm will be constantly stimulated. Let others aspire to it.

Remember! You are most charming when you shine. Finally, I hope that in the near future, all the Bao Er people present here will meet a sweet relationship.