Would you like to be with someone who has suffered from depression? Why?

I don't want to be with a person suffering from depression. It's not that I discriminate against people with depression, but that I have a bad temper. I'm afraid I can't control my temper with someone who has suffered from depression and have a confrontation with her, which will make our relationship worse, seriously affect my mood and life, and eventually break up in discord.

I'm not afraid of your jokes. My wife was actually a depressive before, because she was under great pressure at school, but it was not postpartum depression. I have never abused her. She was strong. She always forced herself to enter the top five in her class and did her homework late every night, but she worked hard for so long and did badly in the final exam. This stimulated her, and she really couldn't figure it out and became depressed, often.

It was not until I got married that I knew that she had suffered from depression before, because she was just like a normal person. Her family didn't say who would know. It was not until one year after marriage that my wife was so excited because of some troubles at home. He has never been so angry. This time, he even threw away everything at home, so angry that he couldn't shut himself in his room. I can't open the door. At that time, I was scared.

Afterwards, she even took the initiative to apologize to our family, saying: I didn't know what was going on at that time, so I made such an impulsive thing. Afterwards, I learned that her depression had recurred, that is, from that moment on, our family's nightmare came. She often loses her temper for no reason. Every time she hits herself, our family is too scared to speak, for fear that something will make her angry, and our relatives and neighbors will avoid her. After all, she feels different from normal people.

I live in fear every day, afraid that she will take things too hard and do something out of line.