How to make a joke?

Many people have the experience that when they hear a joke, they think it's funny, but when they tell it to others next time, the effect is often not so good. What's going on here? The answer is that this joke is not yours yet.

Recently, I read a passage in Mr. Tu Zipei's article, which is well said. If you want to make a joke your own, you must go in three steps.

First, you should write it down. Second, you must be able to look back and recall the feeling when you first heard it. Third, you should tell others, feel the different reactions of the people who listen, and then optimize. Only by completing these three steps can you say that this joke is yours.

Yes, in fact, it's not just telling jokes, but all learning is also these three steps.

First, manage, record or memorize the knowledge itself. Second, manage the relationship between knowledge and yourself, and figure out why it moves me and what it does for me.

Third, business knowledge, the triangle relationship between me and others. What can I do for others with this knowledge?

With all these three steps, I can say that this knowledge is not mine.