My mother-in-law is always unreasonable. She said a few words and called me unfilial. What should I do?

My mother-in-law is always unreasonable. She said a few words and called me unfilial. What should I do? For women, after entering marriage, they need to handle the relationship with their husbands, and they also need to handle the relationship with their husbands. In this series of problems, women are most afraid of meeting unreasonable mother-in-law.

Because there are ways for women to get along with reasonable mother-in-law, but for those unreasonable mother-in-law, many women really can't stand it and can't communicate. This is a problem that makes some women feel uneasy.

In real life, there is an unreasonable mother-in-law, who only cares about her feelings in life, never considers the living conditions of her son and daughter-in-law, often puts forward some excessive demands, and sometimes deliberately loses her temper.

What should a mother-in-law do to be "unreasonable"? Women can get along with their mother-in-law in three ways.

Women are very upset when facing such a mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law is her husband's mother, and women should respect her, but in the face of such an unreasonable mother-in-law, women can't stand it for a long time, which is a very tangled thing.

Therefore, as a woman, in the face of unreasonable mother-in-law, we need some ingenious methods. At this time, she should choose some clever ways to deal with it, which will not hurt her husband, but also promote the harmony of the whole family.

Women have three ways to deal with this problem. Through these behaviors, they can improve their mother-in-law and make the whole family harmonious and happy. This is what women need to know after entering marriage.

Let the husband communicate with his mother-in-law

If a woman meets an unreasonable mother-in-law in life, don't force her mother-in-law, but go back and forth. At this time, she can let her husband communicate with her mother-in-law, which is very direct.

To some extent, a woman and her mother-in-law are not related by blood, or even have deep feelings. Therefore, the communication between a woman and her mother-in-law must be unsatisfactory, which is a very realistic situation.

Women should also understand that husband and mother-in-law are related by blood and will be closer. They can say anything, so it is more appropriate for the husband to communicate with his mother-in-law, and there will be no big problem.

Therefore, women need to know this method. When the mother-in-law is unreasonable, she must let her husband stand in front and let him communicate, so that the relationship between her and her mother-in-law will not be affected and her husband will not feel embarrassed.

A woman was proposed by her mother-in-law, and she doesn't want to do it at this time. At this time, she can let her husband communicate with her mother-in-law. This can dispel this requirement and is a good measure.

Every woman should know this method in marriage. When she has a bad relationship with her mother-in-law, or when her mother-in-law is unreasonable, she should choose this method. In this way, she can maintain the harmony of the whole family.

Women can hide a little.

In fact, to some extent, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will encounter many problems when they live together, because there are great differences in living habits and aspects, which is easy to produce some contradictions, which is also part of the reason for the tension between many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

If a woman meets an unreasonable mother-in-law, this contradiction will intensify, which may lead to the family not being able to live together well. Therefore, women can choose to hide a little at this time and avoid more contradictions through this method.

For example, if a woman is put forward by her mother-in-law, you can pretend to shirk it at this time. If she has some contradictions with her mother-in-law, she can hide at this time to avoid fierce contradictions.

Of course, it is not that women need to compromise themselves to cater to their mother-in-law, but that women need to avoid unnecessary contradictions, which are often the unreasonable consequences of their mother-in-law, so they can choose to avoid them at this time.

But fundamentally speaking, a woman should choose to live separately from her mother-in-law after marriage, and she can buy a house and live outside with her husband. This method can fundamentally solve this problem, so that the relationship between yourself and your mother-in-law will not be too tense.

In fact, women should know how to get along with their mother-in-law before marriage. Although filial piety is needed, we should keep a certain distance to some extent. If they have a certain distance, they may be able to avoid more contradictions.

Warm the mother-in-law's heart with emotion

Everyone should believe the saying that "everyone's heart is meat". After seeing a person who is kind to himself, everyone will be moved and then be kind to that person. This is a very realistic situation, and everyone should learn to think.

As a woman, after meeting an unreasonable mother-in-law, she will definitely feel a little uncomfortable, and even often hold grudges. But if a woman wants to develop a family, she must warm her mother-in-law's heart with emotion.

Because emotion is the best regulator, no matter how tense the relationship between two people is, as long as there is emotion, we can turn an enemy into a friend and let each other live in harmony. Therefore, emotion is the best weapon and is worthy of being used by women in their lives.

For example, a woman regards her mother-in-law as her own mother and does filial piety in her life. Usually you can help your mother-in-law share some housework, or you can chat with her mother-in-law in order to build feelings.

The woman's practice must be seen by her mother-in-law, who will be very kind to you. In the later life, the relationship between a woman and her mother-in-law is like mother and daughter, avoiding the tension between them.

Therefore, after a woman meets an unreasonable mother-in-law, she must know how to influence her mother-in-law with her feelings, make her reasonable, and even get her mother-in-law's favor, in order to get the life she wants.

Suggestion:

Getting along with family members requires a certain amount of wisdom and joint efforts to maintain feelings. They need some means to deal with their contradictions. This is the truth that everyone in the family should know. Only in this way can they reap happiness.

After entering marriage, a woman must face the relationship between herself and her mother-in-law. She needs to use her own means to make her relationship with her mother-in-law harmonious, and she needs to make herself and her mother-in-law become relatives with certain feelings. This is a situation that a woman needs to face.

Therefore, it is suggested that women can choose the above three ways when facing unreasonable mother-in-law. These methods can improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, make the family harmonious, and finally have a happy ending.