Do you have to be humble to please someone if you love them?

Everyone has his own youth, and he has met one or two people who are really moved. He even feels inferior for the so-called love, trying to please him, but getting stuck in it, often just hurting himself. If a person has no feelings for you, no matter how hard you try, you can't warm his heart.

Xiaoya once liked a boy, but the boy has made it clear that he has no feelings for Xiaoya. They are just friends. Xiaoya said: Nothing, friends can be lovers. Just because you don't like me now doesn't mean you've always disliked me. The boy was speechless, but he couldn't change Xiaoya's mind. He could only refuse with a firmer attitude.

My friends around me advised Xiaoya to give up. There are many good men. Why do you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you? Xiaoya doesn't think so. She said it's not easy to meet the right person. I just like him. As long as I pay enough, one day he will look back at me.

In the later days, Xiaoya still insisted on her love, sending messages to each other every day, even if the other party only replied with an expression or a word or two, until later, it was too much love to return. Xiaoya was disappointed, but she never gave up. When a boy is in trouble, she always appears first, and she will try her best to help him. As long as she gets a thank you from each other, Xiaoya feels very satisfied.

It is good to love someone actively, but if you are too humble, your feelings will become cheap. After all, the easier you get, the less you will cherish it.

No matter how much Xiaoya pays, the boy is always ungrateful. He knew Xiaoya's mind, but he didn't feel it. If he is temporarily transferred, it will be unfair to himself and Xiaoya. If he doesn't feel it, he can't force himself to treat Xiaoya sincerely. The boy knows this very well, so he never accepts Xiaoya's confession. On the contrary, the boy began to get tired of Xiaoya, who frequently appeared in front of him.

Until then, Xiaoya saw the boy on the road. A group of people should have just gathered and prepared to go back. Xiaoya was so happy that he took the initiative to say hello. Unexpectedly, the boy looked unhappy and said, Are you bored? Do you want to follow me after I finish eating?

The person next to him joked: Is this the mean girls you are talking about? I've been sticking to you for a long time, and I finally saw it today. Say that finish, a few people began to laugh again. Xiaoya was only ashamed. All her efforts are like a joke, and even taken as a joke. At that moment, Xiaoya seemed to suddenly wake up a lot. How blind she became for someone she didn't love, and finally she got nothing but scars.

In the emotional world, if a person doesn't have any good feelings for you, it is better to stop loss in time. All the troubles are actually caused by themselves. Humble love can only make people sympathize, but it can't get any respect. Loving a person should not be flattering, but needs to be in an equal state. If the other person doesn't have you in mind, then turn around and leave proudly. Why do you want to lower yourself and wronged yourself to be humble and please? If you don't know how to advance and retreat in your feelings, you will only let yourself.