Nine steps to save my girlfriend, and my mentor helped me save my predecessor.

My plain face was crushed by my new love.

I am 30 years old, he is 27 years old, and his new love is 24 years old.

I think so-so. His face value is very high and his new love value is very high. For me, it's like a crush.

The photos of them look like a pair of golden couple.

Seeing that photo, maybe everyone thinks I'm finished, and I have no chance. They all advised me to give up.

But I didn't.

I really did everything I could to save it. I was crazy.

First of all, I killed a serial phone call and refused to break up, forcing him to almost delete me.

Followed by fake pregnancy, the girlfriend who works in the hospital forged a fake B-ultrasound list.

He's scared. I guess he was afraid that my parents would come to me. Come and find me. Give me money to abort the child.

Worst of all, I cut my wrist and killed myself.

Now I think of it as bitter tears ...

Later, my colleague recommended my tutor to me, and the tutor asked me: If I were him, would I look back when I saw this?

I said definitely not.

My tutor asked me again, what would you do if you were an ex?

On the one hand, she is young and beautiful, gentle and sensible, on the other hand, she is old, plain and noisy.

The questions asked by the tutor are sharper than each other, which also makes me more and more awake.

Stalking, crying and threatening can't save my lover. Only when I become better can I attract him back again.

02

Sorting out self-worth and reloading.

When I first found a tutor, I cried and complained every day, and I was tired of doing everything.

My tutor began to accompany me to sort out my strengths and values, and let me see my good places.

Finally, we found that although my external value is low, my education and salary are relatively high, I am financially independent, and I am familiar with the world. I am generous, good at housework and good at cooking. These are my advantages.

After combing the advantages, I became more confident and began to have the power to change myself.

My tutor said that I was very resistant to writing me a redemption letter. I said, he can't talk to me anymore. No matter what I say, he doesn't want to see it anymore. He already hates me!

I am extremely depressed. I know what I did before was too bad and unique. Very self-blaming.

But the teacher said categorically: there must be something he likes to hear, but after you say it, he is very comfortable and can untie his heart. We must find these words!

Finally, after three days of polishing, my redemption letter was written like this: (Don't copy, be sure to suit your own situation! )

After the redemption letter was sent, I waited in fear and trembling. Unexpectedly, he replied: alas! Take care of yourself.

At that moment, I was both excited and excited, and seemed to see the dawn of the future. I really want to say at once: can we make up? Can You Ever Forgive Me?

The teacher stopped my behavior and told me that it was not suitable to love war now. Let me improve myself first and then save it. Asking for reunion now will only change the effect of saving letters, and he will never trust me again in the future.

I began to readjust my state, cheer myself up, learn to take care of myself and manage my emotions. At the same time, I began to send a circle of friends to show my changes.

03

Xiubian+trumpet test

In this process, I showed my circle of friends five times:

For the first time, high-quality friends, I made an appointment with some famous friends in the industry. He should be able to recognize it when he sees it, which means he has a lot of contacts.

Second, high-end reception.

The third time, the income from financial management: I know something about financial management, and it is true that both funds and stocks have good returns.

The fourth time, I was promoted in the workplace, and my work was improved.

The fifth time, alone time, excellent cooking. I cooked very exquisite western food when I was alone.

Of course, there are also some friends who punch in and study alone. Please note that I didn't make these up, but I actually made them.

During the period, the teacher said that I didn't need to disconnect. I can ask him occasionally when I have something to do. Every contact is just a skim, and two or three sentences will pass.

However, there are even two or three sentences designed with the help of the teacher, and each sentence conveys that I am different from before.

The teacher looked at the link and found that it belonged to a dessert shop. She asked me to add the owner.

Unexpectedly, this shopkeeper is his new lover!

That girl is still showing all kinds of love in the circle of friends, and I am a little broken. I really want to find my ex and beat him up.

The teacher comforted me, and I was really grateful that I had a teacher with me when I collapsed and went crazy so many times. She also stopped me from a series of impulsive behaviors. I will always remember her warmth.

The teacher told me that knowing the direction of their feelings from their new lovers would give us more chances of winning.

Sure enough, sometimes girls will say something that hurts spring and grieves autumn, which is very small for girls. At this time, I will send some friends who show my mature breath.

04

Be nice+show weakness, and attract him successfully

It was just a holiday, and the teacher suggested that I go out for fun. I travel to Yunnan by myself, which is also the place he wants to go most.

It happened to be his birthday that day. I asked my best friend to help me choose a gift and gave it to him in a flash. The gifts are Zippo's lighter and a game keyboard.

He likes smoking and playing games, but his financial conditions are relatively average. He has always liked lighters and keyboards, but he is reluctant to buy them himself.

He sent a circle of friends to ask who sent the gift, and it was deleted half an hour later. Then he asked me privately: Did you send it?

It took an hour to reply: Happy birthday ~

He replied faintly: thank you.

I said: I have prepared three gifts for you.

He said: You don't have to be so polite. The third one will be sent out separately.

I said: The third gift is a joke.

I made a joke.

He answered for a long time, hahahahahaha. I know, at this time he has begun to relax.

He asked me: How have you been recently?

I took a photo of Erhai Lake and told him that Yunnan is really beautiful.

After we talked a few more words, he joined my circle of friends and gave me some favorable comments.

During my few days in Yunnan, I was not idle, and I sent some photos of myself, which was very artistic. The teacher said that I can't compare with each other in face value, but I must surpass each other in feeling.

If the other person is a vase, I will make myself a work of art!

In the recent circle of friends, he praised almost everything.

In addition to the photos of the trip, I also posted the image of a strong woman who did not forget to continue to bask in the workplace during the trip.

I have been constantly strengthening my image as an independent woman. The teacher said that your value promotion attracted him. But even this would not be enough You must make him feel that you need him.

The day before I left Yunnan, I sent a slightly sad circle of friends. In the evening, I called him and said that I was left halfway by the driver. I'm too scared to get a taxi.

He and I chatted for a while. After the bus arrived, I hung up and apologized to him: I'm sorry, I hope I didn't disturb you.

I admit that my last words smelled of green tea. But he seems to enjoy it.

In order to thank him, I mailed him Yunnan specialties and postcards.

After a few days, I found that the girl sent a circle of friends who were suspected of breaking up.

05

Take the initiative to contact+give steps to successfully recover.

He started talking to me, and I could feel his depression. I didn't blame him blindly and laugh at him for being too fragile as before, but learned to understand that he loves him.

I knew in my heart that he was sad because he broke up with his girlfriend, but I pretended not to know anything and just stayed with him.

I wanted to get back together quickly, but I held back. At this time, he has not forgotten that person. I rush in, he may just use me as a substitute.

I need to wait for his active choice.

Later, I saw girls delete all their photos. I know everything has been explained. He talked to me more and more frequently, and the teacher asked me to give him a step down. I made an appointment in the name of asking for help.

When we met, he brought a big bouquet of roses and asked me if I could chase me again.

I said that depends on your performance.

Now that we are married, I often say "I hope the baby will look like you in the future" when I am pregnant.

He said: no, I hope she is like you. You are the best existence in my heart.

Some people say that redemption is a bone-breaking investment, but it is not, because you will always get better yourself and better love.