What rules are not constraints but achievements that parents should take to heart?

Which rules are not constraints but achievements that parents should take to heart? Don’t laugh at others

Last week, when I went to pick up my children from school with my good friends, I accidentally saw this scene. There was a boy who pointed at a girl and laughed loudly. He kept saying in a mocking tone that the girl was too dark, which made the girl burst into tears. However, the boy did not mean to stop, but instead went further. Many people may think that it is just a joke among children, and there is nothing wrong with it, but in fact, this kind of behavior of making fun of other people is actually wrong. As parents, we should tell our children from an early age not to laugh at others, not to ridicule others for their shortcomings, and to learn to respect others. Don’t take other people’s things casually

Yoyou’s mother once told me something. One day, she took Youyou to a friend’s house as a guest. I let my daughter play in the house for a while. Unexpectedly, after returning home, I found that my daughter had brought back the bracelets of my colleagues. As a result, I got angry and had a quarrel with Youyou. Although this matter does not seem that serious and is just the child's carelessness, if the parents are so reckless, the adverse effects will be unpredictable. We must cultivate children's awareness of property rights from an early age, and they must not take other people's things without their consent. Observe discipline and order

The reason why many children are called "little brats" is mostly because they have no rules and order. Do not follow classroom rules when in school and talk to others casually. When crossing the road, you don't look at the traffic lights and only care about your own convenience. Even when you go out, you don't know what to throw the garbage into the trash can. However, for a child, if no one teaches him, he will not be able to figure out these things. Before the child is 10 years old, he needs to be helped to create the concept of observing discipline and order, and respecting others means knowing how to respect. You need to apologize when you make a mistake

For many students, it is difficult to say the three words "I'm really sorry." I often see two sisters around me getting into arguments over a little disagreement, but no one wants to apologize. In fact, apologizing when you make a mistake is a good quality. After all, everyone makes mistakes, but very few people dare to face their own problems. If we want to encourage children to make mistakes from an early age, we need the quality of apology. Making mistakes is not scary, as long as they have the determination to proactively correct it and the courage to admit it!