How did you spend the most difficult time?

1990 In July, my brother was admitted to a public normal school. My brother is the first to eat the imperial grain. While the family is happy, my father is worried about 600 yuan's tuition, and my brother is also very contradictory. In fact, he can go to a good university in the senior high school entrance examination, but because of family reasons, he can only consider public normal schools. Because my younger brother is clever, he didn't go to Grade Two in Grade One. Because of his young age, he was admitted to a public normal school at the age of fifteen and joined the work at the age of eighteen. )

Because my family is poor, no one lends money to my father. That night, under the dim light, I saw my father crying and my mother was even more indecisive. I went to my father's side, wiped my tears with my sleeve and told him that I was going to work, so that I could safely pay off my debts and borrow money. My father looked at me and saw hope.

The village chief and my brother's teacher finally collected the tuition fees, but my travel expenses for going out to work were not settled. My parents discussed that my brother will start school in early September, and now in July, I will take out 50 yuan from my tuition and start school immediately.

The first time I went out of town, left my parents for the first time, and took the train for the first time. When I left, my mother cooked five eggs for me, and I was reluctant to eat them. At that time, trains were steam engines, burning coal. There are so many people in the car that the trunk can't be moved. Maybe this is the so-called tide of working in those days. I got on the train at seven o'clock in the afternoon and arrived in Zhengzhou around one o'clock in the middle of the night. The train stopped and the whole train had to get off. The whole train panicked, didn't it go all the way to Beijing? I can't help it I panicked and had to walk out of the platform with everyone.

It was dark at night, when Zhengzhou Railway Station was being rebuilt. After leaving the station, the square was crowded and could not walk. My eggs are also squeezed into my schoolbag. To make matters worse, I can't twist the back of the book to my chest. I don't have the strength to move the people crowded around me. Even my feet were carried away by the crowd and I haven't touched the ground yet. I was so scared that I was sixteen years old.

At first, I panicked. Later, I immediately calmed down. Because I don't depend on it, besides the fare in 37 yuan, I still have 10 yuan. My father and I take a three-yuan bus. Eggs are rotten in that climate, so I threw them away with love. At that time, I heard the adults next to me say that Beijing was limited, so I worked in Zhengzhou. Whether I can go depends on luck.

The next six days gave me luck!

People in Erqi Square are still crowded, and they are diverted to other places during the day. The first day, I cried I saw a Sichuanese in his thirties, hungry and crowded, and lost his life. The police dragged him away with a bamboo mat. I miss my father too, because I can't go home and Beijing. Ten dollars, I have to save money, a glass of water is 10 cents, a steamed bread is 15 cents, and I buy three glasses of water and two steamed buns every day. Without the production party, there would be no new China. Learn from Lei Feng and socialism is good. There are station personnel to manage, squeeze around during the day, listen to adults talk about the latest situation, and bring them back to reform and sing at night. The station administrator can give each team a sheep head or tail or ten people in the middle to get on the bus to Beijing. Every time I don't, I feel sad. I doze off on the hardest night and manage our team. Anyone who dozes off will hit someone with a bamboo pole more than two meters long if he can't sing well. At that time, he found me dozing off, my forehead was cut by the bamboo root he took, and my face was covered with blood. The whole team said he was just a child, and I didn't cry. I think I did something wrong, and it's for my own good. In case I fall asleep and a car goes to Beijing to pinch the sheep's head and tail, then I will lose my chance again. A soldier's eldest brother wrapped me in toilet paper. I lost the chance to go to Beijing again that night. . .

It's been five days. It's too hot to wash my face. Plus my forehead is bleeding, you can imagine what kind of depression and appearance I am. . .

People can't be unlucky all the time, but they will always meet good people and spread good things.

On the sixth day, I was not transferred. I walked to the fence at the entrance of the station. There is a soldier's brother standing guard. I was lying on the fence. Because I was close to Brother Bing, he asked me how many days I stayed. What happened to my head? I answered seriously. He said I was so young and sensible. He can ask his leader to help me and let me come here at nine o'clock in the evening. I am so happy that I can't describe my heart. I am so excited.

I came to the fence very early in the evening, and I was anxious and afraid. At nine o'clock (Bing Ge said it on time), there was a tall and handsome Bing Ge, who should be an officer. Because his hat and epaulettes are different, he still holds the instant noodles, bread and a big bottle of Sprite that I first saw in his hand, which shows that he was led by my hand and dizzy. After drilling several Kobashiguchi-like holes, he saw it stop there. Hurriedly got off the bus and left. . . I looked from the window. He was so tall that I didn't come to leave my address. Suddenly my heart ached and tears accompanied me to Beijing. . .

In Beijing, I found a good job. I not only paid my brother's tuition for three years, but also saved some savings after paying off my parents' foreign debts. Thanks to the help of good people, this experience has made me grow up. Decades later, the six-day experience in Zhengzhou made me unforgettable. Last year, when my son took the college entrance examination, he was admitted to the military school with excellent results, which allowed his love to continue. . . . .

Be yourself and ignore other people's opinions!

In February 2007, my ex-boyfriend and I went to Jinan by car, and took refuge in one of his friends and my sister, thinking that everything would be fine if we got used to a strange place! But the reality is really cruel. We visited several rental houses, and the worst room was the second floor built by the owner in order to pay more compensation for relocation. It's a simple house with only one window, and under the window is an open-air toilet! The whole air stinks! I can't imagine that we lived there all summer! The "worst" summer of my life! At that time, we got up every morning, and the most tangled thing was that we had no money to eat. Hehehe, do you believe it? We really have no money to eat! Because I failed to do business in my hometown, I owed a lot of debts and wanted to work to pay back the money. Besides some clothes, I have a mobile phone in my hand, Nokia 1 100! When we have money, most of us borrow money! I bought fried dough sticks this morning. At that time, one yuan bought three fried dough sticks, which were neither too big nor too small. Let's eat! Then there are steamed bread and mustard tuber! I was working at Jingshi Road, and we lived in the northernmost part of Jinan. We got off the bus and walked for ten minutes! I have always believed that the hard times will pass, and I am not afraid of being tired again. My ex-boyfriend is very important to me, and I just want to be with him! We will be happy. The hardest day is coming! ! ! ! We work hard to make money and pay off debts! After a year, I finally changed my money! We also rented a building. Although we shared it, I was really happy. We have been working hard and making progress, haven't we? We also have some savings. I remember it should be less than 7 thousand yuan. For me at that time, I was very happy and confident! However, suddenly, my boyfriend left, really left! I don't know if I am alive or dead, but I can't find anyone. I was really bombed, just call the police! I looked for his family and friends everywhere. Nobody! ! ! ! But I feel in my heart that he is just hiding, and he will never die. I strongly urge myself not to think unlucky! While working, I tried my best to find him. A week later, my friend in my hometown, who really couldn't stand it, told me quietly. My ex-boyfriend fell in love with a female netizen and ran away with our money. He saw him lead her shopping with his own eyes! Only then did I know that the money was gone! The degree of coercion at that time can be imagined! I gritted my teeth and threw away all his things. I got a loan and changed my new residence and mobile phone number! Everything absolutely related to him! I can get through such a sad day! This little injury is nothing! I start over! ! ! "I cried my eyes out at the time, but I didn't feel bad. Fortunately, I survived. " After so many years, I always believe that good and evil will be rewarded! He really didn't get what he deserved! I don't want to mention it here either! Waste my brain! We should all live in the present and work hard. This is the real attitude towards life!

17 years, my daughter was born prematurely and stayed in the intensive care unit for one month. That year, my husband rewarded more than 300,000 anchors. He began to lie to me that the investment failed. He never lied to me for more than ten years, so I trusted him and lent him money everywhere. After my daughter was discharged from the hospital, I accidentally found out that he cheated me. When the money was gone, she borrowed money everywhere. Plus my daughter's treatment fee and various nutritional supplements for premature babies, I used a credit card and a loan from Alipay to hide in my room and cry alone, afraid to let Dabao see it. Later, he decisively distinguished the economy from her husband. Fortunately, he has paid off all the debts he borrowed from raising children and his own brain damage, and he also has savings. He is financially independent and does not depend on anyone.

My most difficult time was because I was exposed to Buddhism, and I understood the cause and effect, which lit up the little things in my life. I am frugal when I have no money, and I can save if I can. I don't want to compare with others. When I was injured, I advised myself not to worry about it. I face it with sympathy and tolerance. I tell myself that the difficulties are only temporary and will eventually pass. I also advise myself that everyone has difficulties, but the difficulties they face are different, so take your time. There is no Amitabha [prayer] [prayer] [prayer] in South China.

The hardest thing for me is to get through it. To get through it is to dilute everything with time and get through it with barely support. My daughter-in-law who has experienced many years has become a woman. She has chosen her own path and has been going on. It is a slow process, with disappointment and despair, and she will not give up. She can't sleep for a long night, waiting for the sunrise in the morning, and it is also a process of accumulation, and so on.

I survived four years, during which I experienced a divorce. My old mother, who had been dependent on me for more than 20 years, died, and my brotherly feelings changed from thin to cold. I also lost my job and was hurt by a villain. I resigned, the online shop was closed, and there was no income during the period. Now I have to raise my daughter, and my quality of life has plummeted completely. I have to save money and spend three times a penny.

I don't want to talk about it anymore. I know my hardships. Don't talk when you are in trouble, don't talk about the length of people, others bully me and lie to me, Cold Mo, I meditate and chant Buddhist scripture when I can't hear or see, it's good to have troubles, cervical spondylosis has been going on for many years. Bodhisattva bless mercy. Thousands of people left me, but I didn't lose my gender. I stood firm and gritted my teeth. I believe that the sky will not let me down, and I will be less exposed to negative energy to resolve all kinds of external interference. It has bottomed out. I want to see how it behaves and what it can do to me. Sometimes, you don't care. It's like a boring clown, torturing you and making fun of you. It's boring. Get as far away as possible! May the Bodhisattva bless all people who are depressed and miserable, don't do crazy things to torture themselves, live well, live well, at least you are still breathing and alive.

A story has attracted a lot of emotion. After reading the comments, everyone is telling their own misfortune! But in my opinion, they are so lucky that they didn't fall to a deeper trough. Let them compare those small setbacks!

Like me, I am wandering now, either wandering like that or trying to live like a dog in the city. I don't know, and no one has seen the tramps in those cities. That's it. I don't even have a mouth to eat and a place to sleep. The only difference is that I have a mobile phone and secretly wash my hair and face in the park toilet to make myself less conspicuous in the sun, but I don't know how long I can last. I have been here for over a month.

It's not the first time I've been wandering. I used to ask friends for help, but I was always unwilling to be ordinary and unwilling to stay in the factory honestly. Too much trouble. To put it bluntly, I like being a bitch and always want to make a difference. Cities in the north, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, where the domestic economy is better, have walked alone, and the ending is very miserable. I was left behind, no friends, nothing, I searched all the people I knew, and no one spoke!

In order to sleep, I recently pried several old cars that others have abandoned for a long time. There are so many mosquitoes in Guangdong now that it itches all over with a bite! I stole a lot of immature papaya and sugarcane from others to fill my stomach, as well as bananas. The taste is really bad, especially the banana is astringent to death! Looking for food everywhere now, for the last trace of dignity in my heart, I just need to rummage through the trash can!

Several times I went out without money, food and shelter, and caught up with the cold weather. In order to keep a little temperature, I walked with my luggage and hungry. From morning to night, from night to morning, my feet feel missing! I feel pain, and I can't even squat. Occasionally rest in one place, but dare not stay longer. I'm afraid of being seen. The more desperate, the more sensitive, afraid of being laughed at, unless you really give up all hope!

I can't see the road tomorrow, and I can't even eat. Anything else is nonsense. Only those who have experienced real helplessness and hunger will understand the meaning of this sentence.

Now my mind is full of criminal thoughts, such as smashing cars, stealing, robbing and kidnapping. I dare to do anything when I am hungry, just for a 50-cent steamed bread, hehe! If you are not worried about your parents' face, or just an opportunity and determination. Anyway, now it's either sleeping on the street completely degenerating or committing a crime!

Don't ask me why my parents are still here, why not go home, hehe ... who doesn't want to stay at home! Pity my parents, who are almost sixty, still work in the city, live in the factory dormitory, and usually collect garbage everywhere to earn money to order food. They can't help me, and I'm ashamed to see them. It was embarrassing enough for them. Now even if I don't tell them my situation, they say they don't want this useless son. Really, not angry words!

Alas ..... it can only be said that it's bad luck. When things get tricky and you can't do anything, all the choices are just helpless. Let's go ... It can't be worse anyway!

The world is really terrible. I want to pick up some food money on the road every day, but I have never even seen a steel jump. Is this a cruel world?

Those who are unhappy about their feelings, careers and families, save it, it's just a small hurdle on the road of life. If you cross it, it's like falling into an abyss! If you really feel miserable, go to the corner of a bustling place like the railway station in the middle of the night to see the poor people sleeping on the ground and experience their situation. If you can, buy them four steamed buns for two yuan, and they will really appreciate your generosity! Beggars nowadays are all liars, or I can be said to be "me". I am not even qualified to be a beggar!

Say you deserve it, or say you deserve it, for whatever reason, but this is by no means the result of the original pursuit. What we are pursuing is right, but we may be overreached or not blessed by God, so we will fall into this deep valley of life again and again and never get up again!

Be grateful for a hot meal, a place to live, a place to call home, and a few friends to help you occasionally when you are frustrated. That's enough! Excessive happiness can only be regarded as a pursuit, don't force perfection!

For those who think they are unlucky, there is a reference and comparison. Nothing but moaning and making people laugh!

Last year was the hardest year in my life, and now it is very difficult, but it is much better. I came to Beijing from Inner Mongolia in 37, and after graduating from college. It has been 13, and it has been working before. 13 it's hard to start a design company by yourself. By 15, my colleague had 15, but last year, I was suddenly diagnosed with advanced lung cancer, but I was not diagnosed. After that, my doctor friends in Beijing helped me with the fastest examination and operation. The specific process can't be described, and once I felt dead. Fortunately, really lucky, the surgery is not cancer. Because many experts, such as Xiehe, Tiantan and Cancer Hospital, said it was cancer after consultation, but in the end they got a very rare disease with low immunity, and the symptoms and images were very similar to lung cancer. Among them, there is postoperative internal bleeding, intensive care rescue! After being discharged from the cancer hospital, Concord stayed in the hospital for another 37 days, and all survived. The company went from prosperity to loss, but it was not dumped. I started to struggle again this year.

Everyone will complain that their life is so unsatisfactory. There is no one who never complains, and only those who come out of complaining will not complain. Your lifestyle will always depend on yourself. What kind of life you want, you must do it. This is also a dilemma. Some people will disappear, and some people will be born again. Life is always on your own.

Let me tell a true story first, which I learned not long ago. Aunt Xiao Gan is a domestic worker invited by Mr. Liu's family. She has been a domestic worker in Mr. Liu's family for more than 20 years, and nothing has ever been lost in Mr. Liu's family. Aunt Xiao Gan, also in these 20 years, has become a household name in Nanning politics from unemployment to now. Her present life has always been won by her own hands.

Aunt Xiao Gan started as a worker in a factory in Nanning, and her husband was the director. She is not very rich, but she is also full, at least she doesn't have to worry about basic life every day.

Later, the factory had no funds to operate and closed down. They lost their jobs. Her husband, he started gambling because money came quickly! Soon the family lost everything. However, Xiao Gan chose to be a domestic worker, although she still doesn't know much about it. When her husband lost all his money, he came to Xiao Gan for money. Xiao gan gave it to him at first, but there was nothing he could do. Let's leave now. When a marriage begins to break up, one party will always do something that makes the other unhappy. Sometimes, it's not that love begins to fade, but that some people are far away from you.

The pain of unemployment, the helplessness of starting to do housework, the low fixed salary, the separation of marriage, and raising a child who is studying … all kinds of setbacks have exhausted her body and mind. At this time, he became a complete and complete loser. After several attempted suicides, I finally figured it out. Life is ok. After all, you have to live on your own. If you continue to be decadent, nothing will be solved.

As Nietzsche said, those who can't crush you will make you stronger. Xiao Gan began to look around for a job, even if she didn't make money, she would do it. If she didn't make money, she earned experience! Gradually, life began to get better, and my daughter did well in college. On the one hand, she was admitted to Sun Yat-sen University, and on the other hand, guangxi traffic Bank invited her to work. Xiao Gan has bought two houses by herself as a housekeeper, and has been invited to be a training teacher in a housekeeping company, and even someone specially asked her to be a housekeeper. But considering that there are still parents in their 80s who need support, she refused. She likes doing housework. It used to be a problem whether others wanted her to do it or not. Now, she can do whatever she wants and rest whenever she wants!

From unemployment, to going out clean, and now it is a household name in politics. Her life has always been on her own. Once difficulties can't crush her, she can step on them.

In the face of adversity, some people choose to escape, while others choose to be strong. Your lifestyle has always been your choice.

Let's talk about Teacher Liu again. After graduation, the two universities went to the education department for an interview, both of which graduated from famous universities. As a result, I was finally assigned to be a teacher in a high school. After teaching for a while, I feel that this is really not the lifestyle she wants. So, I resigned and took the postgraduate entrance examination. Four years later, he was assigned to teach at Guangxi University. It seems that I found my own value and sang all the way. As far as I know, 15 years, she has been rated as "the most beautiful teacher in my heart" by students.

Indeed, her class can make me lose interest in playing mobile phones. Interaction with students, humorous language ... After the whole class, our palms are red. I have to say that she is really the most beautiful teacher I have ever seen, and how lucky I am to meet her in class. It's a pity that I only had a class with her once.

She was once depressed, but she clearly knew what kind of life she wanted to live, so she always lived seriously and happily.

We can complain that there are too many disappointments in life, but we can't just fall down. In adversity, there must be ideals, pursuits and reasons for struggle. Only by relying on ourselves can we live a better life.

Finally, I hope you and I can live an ideal life on our own.