Communication skills

It is inevitable that there will be all kinds of problems in dealing with people. What should you do if you don't want to swallow when you meet someone who humiliated you in public? Don't worry, use these three tricks well, and seal your throat with one sword, which is super Japanese.

When someone humiliates you in public, remember, don't confront others, because if you do, even if you win, it will appear that you have no pattern. If you do this, it's like a dog biting you. It's not worth biting the dog, let alone being a doormat. If you want to respond to each other tactfully and domineering, you just need to remember these four tricks.

First, the calm counterattack method, no matter how others hit you, you just need to be calm and comfortable. The more the other person treats you as an operation, the less anxious you are at this time. People humiliate you in public just to annoy you and make you lose your manners in public. The more this time, the more calm, the more comfortable. If you are not angry all the time, in the end, the other person will be more anxious. Finally, you won't appear in public. Instead, the other party became a joke in public. Facing this situation frankly will make you look tolerant and people around you will look at you with new eyes. Remember, when others irritate you and laugh at you, don't be easily irritated by the other party. Instead, I looked at him calmly and even replied to him with a calm smile. "You say it's good to be cool, it's good to be happy, and it's okay to continue." The more you do this, the more you can show yourself. You are so angry. As for it, it won't harm your health. Take care of yourself. I wish you a long life. "The more you say that, the higher you are. In the end, he became a joke instead of a joke.

Second, agree with the way of counterattack.

Promise first and then fight back. When you face others, you don't have to fight back directly. In order to make your battle more powerful, you can agree with each other's statement first. For example, if the other person says you look like a giraffe with a long neck, don't worry if the other person says so. You can fight back like this: "giraffes are good, deer are more popular in the zoo, and it's better than being a coward."

Third, the method of borrowing power.

Attack each other in their own language. For example, if the other person hurts you "you are sick", you can just say that you are right. I am very puzzled. I didn't have this problem before you, and I don't know why. Every time I see you, I am quickly infected by you. It seems that I should avoid contact with you and stay away from you in the future, so that the other party will be speechless.

Generally speaking, if you meet a malicious person and humiliate you to your face, there is no need to confront him. Using these tricks well not only shows your generosity and propriety, but also makes the other person speechless, and your popularity will rise!