How to make people happy?

Humor is the lubricant of love. Men can be unattractive and have no money, but they have to be humorous! From a girl's point of view, I know a lot about girls' psychology. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boy they like, except that they really like it too much or are brave girls with personality. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative. Don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, and you will feel miserable. Maybe anyone you like is also suffering.

Psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence about this boy who broke into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think that she is testing you, but she is actually fighting with herself. She is afraid of being hurt.

Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will gradually fade away.

Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.

If you suffer a setback, leave immediately and never talk to this girl again. Protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. While you are suffering, as everyone knows, that girl may be regretting in her heart! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be very sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she will never tell you and will never ask you to come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.

She will think that you don't really like him, or how could you just give her up?

Some people say that it is difficult for boys to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be out of order! Women's shyness is always beautiful and touching ~ ~ ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. The opposite example is very few.

Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead-bound and beaten, which will lead to a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If they don't succeed, they will be nice to this girl. Who makes people like it? I hate that others follow me blindly, and I hate that boys who have no idea and care too much about others' opinions about themselves deserve that they can't find a girlfriend.

If you are a man, you should be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you have worked hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples can be found everywhere. Girls love their men. Moreover, most good girls are devoted to their love.

Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girl they like, and don't be so timid. First, it makes people feel that you are unmanly, and second, it makes you feel uncomfortable. However, the most important thing is: in the end, you won't get anything. Happiness is always earned by yourself. Don't expect others to give it to you!

I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive, and they can only choose to accept and refuse, so I'd rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets.

1. What kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: I just started to contact MM)

1. I think the most important thing is to let.

A man's greatest charm lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make M

M feel that you are a self-motivated person.

Other things can be nonsense, but this question can't be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have made a long-term plan. In short, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don't be like a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to lean on. You should show your confidence and responsibility.

a wrong choice is better than no choice at all.

3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don't seem to care about everything, it's too rigid.

4. Look a little mature

A man who is calm and unhurried has fatal attraction to MM.

second, how to make further contact with MM (time: the stage of starting chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (

unless you look like Chow Yun Fat Andy Lau or Kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized with increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

put yourself in the girl's shoes: you must be under psychological pressure if you rush in so directly to meet someone. If I find that I don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick? Therefore, if you start to pose as if you are determined to win, you will basically be bored back immediately.

2. To start with a low profile

First of all, you should position the relationship as a "friend". Originally, you want to be a "good friend". A tasteful

person can also ask the other person to be a "confidante" or something. In short, never say "chasing you".

think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you-how can you

refuse you if you don't chase her? !

This will relieve the psychological pressure of girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after knowing each other for three days. You should have full communication and understanding. Feelings don't come out of thin air.

3. Don't be too impatient in the process of communication

Be relaxed and don't pester others all day. Whoever does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls < P > is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' hard work for many years).

naturally, you don't think you are good if you pester others all day. If you stay cold for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your presence.

also, don't show the ambition of "don't marry unless you want". It's not good to be too fall in price. Sometimes you can play tricks.

4. Create opportunities appropriately

As I said before, don't make things turn into "you are chasing others" immediately, and you need to get close to girls, which

depends on your creativity.

You can collect information and try to turn waiting for a rabbit into an encounter. You can also pretend to be casual and find out the best reason to invite the other person to do something with you.

In short, this is the most technical place. If it's really no good, you can ask your predecessors for advice.

5. Don't avoid it: It is impolite to give gifts to others casually

Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

As the saying goes, "You get nothing for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will

try to pay you back. If there is no way to pay you back, they will try to keep away from you, so as not to always owe you a favor.

If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend money together, such as eating in a good restaurant or playing in an expensive place. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people instead of

turning it into something to take home.

third, what is a "girlfriend"?

1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise.

You started to associate with a girl, from "ordinary friend" to "good friend", and then to "very, very good friend who talks about everything.

One sunny afternoon, you" accidentally "held her hand. "the willow shoots on the moon", you suddenly hit

and kissed her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are his boyfriend.

I know best. I never asked "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious.

"Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend?"

So, don't rush to break the window paper. The more hazy the situation, the better for you.

2. What is "confession"?

As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend

before you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always think that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what happens? I can only say that

he is very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".

3. Is there a time when you have to confess when you have to?

yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is not mature, but two people may be separated for a while.

At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward party is forced to release the "winning hand". If it wins, it will win, and if it loses, it can only be said that "bad luck is born".

4. Don't export the word "love" easily

I often see "bold confession" in forums. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "love

" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a kind of responsibility.

A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.

four, civilized love, can't be forced

1. Not every MM can catch up

There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to fulfill everyone's wishes, and there will always be losers. For example, even if you

study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with any of the TWINS.

Let's look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who didn't graduate from primary school is nice to you, she will earn 6 yuan a month to buy you a gift (overdraft) of

7 yuan, and she will be willing to be a cow and a horse for you, so you won't fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters

every day, you must feel bored.

So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.

2. Chasing MM is a serious social activity.

Don't bother others, but leave yourself a way back. Why do men have no wives? Some MMs are snobs (few)

. If you are not convinced, you can be angry and try to be strong, and prove that "she was blind at that time" with facts. Never mistake others for yourself.

Finally, don't appear cynical in front of MM. Cynicism sometimes means "you are a failure".

(time: I just started to contact MM)

1. I think the most important thing is to let MM see your self-motivated.

A man's greatest charm lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make M

M feel that you are a self-motivated person.

You can talk nonsense about other things, but this question can't be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are dissatisfied with the status quo, and that you have made a long-term plan. In short, your future is not a dream.

2. Be confident and responsible

Don't be like a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to lean on. You should show your confidence and responsibility.

a wrong choice is better than no choice at all.

3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual.

Be serious where you should be serious, and ridicule when you should.

Girls like men who are a little cynical, so don't seem to care about everything, it's too rigid.

4. Look a little mature

A man who is calm and unhurried has fatal attraction to MM.

second, how to make further contact with MM (time: the stage of starting chasing)

1. The most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things so clear that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (

unless you look like Chow Yun Fat Andy Lau or Kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized with increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.

put yourself in the girl's shoes: you must be under psychological pressure if you rush in so directly to meet someone. If I find that I don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick? Therefore, if you start to pose as if you are determined to win, you will basically be bored back immediately.

2. To start with a low profile

First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which was originally an "ordinary friend"

About giving gifts:

As long as it is sincere, it is best!

Give her a day of meticulous care!

the truth is best seen in the plain!

let her feel the warmth you brought her in the cold winter!

I believe she will be moved by you!

come on!

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