Afraid of being hurt, I dare not fall in love. How can I adjust this mentality?

Anyone who is afraid to fall in love for fear of being hurt must have been really hurt.

A child bitten by a snake knows that he is afraid of snakes.

Only an old driver who has had an accident can understand the great significance of the existence of traffic law.

Only people who have been hurt are afraid of pain, and it is normal that they are unwilling to take risks and try again because they are afraid of pain. Unless they have never really loved and never really hurt, so they say true love one after another? True love is not necessarily true, but it is really cool.

Just like a person who is afraid of marriage, she must have experienced or seen a marriage that scares her. A broken and quarrelsome marriage makes her unable to see the beauty of marriage and will never be able to believe in a beautiful marriage, so she would rather float in endless love and ambiguity than draw a card.

Okay, I'm very clear.

Because I was a child of a single-parent family who grew up watching a miserable marriage, I met a fucking love rat in my first love! ! How fucking angry! !

After I broke up with love rat, there was a time when I really wanted to talk about love. During that time, I teased many people, most of them threw it away in a couple of days, and even went to see my uncle. Unfortunately, all the hooligans I met were holding: Noodles don't sleep? Don't be ridiculous, everyone is so busy.

Flirting people don't love at all, and they are neat and tidy and can't shoot wild guns. Finally, when they were tired of playing, they packed my unsafe soul into a small corner and began to work hard, such as fitness, reading, learning languages, messing around, playing games, playing group books, and telling dirty jokes with gay friends in yy. Every day, Cao Cao and jb hammer ... no one cared about my gender at all.

During this process, many people asked me why I didn't fall in love. Someone always introduces me to someone, even a blind date. I'm very worried. It's not that you can't find someone, and it's not that no one loves you. I just think it takes a lot of time and emotion to fall in love. You take others seriously, but you never know when I will be betrayed, abandoned, cheated, cheated. I live in pain at the thought of lovelorn death, and I am not interested in sweet love.

Until I met someone.

He makes me want to try again, no matter how painful it will be in the future.

He makes me feel that even if I have been in love for only one month, one year, even if there is only one process, my happiness now is so real and satisfying.

I know he keeps feeding me sugar with sugar in his left hand and poison in his right hand. Maybe he will feed me a bottle of poison that hurts my stomach one day, but what does it matter? His sugar is super sweet! ! !

So, you see, what you are afraid of and what you don't want to do is just because you haven't met the right person yet, waiting for you to meet the destiny takes a hand's enemy.