Why do some people prefer boys to girls, and some parents prefer girls to boys?

Preference for boys has already penetrated into the bone marrow of many people.

Whether in poor rural areas, relatively rich rural areas, small cities or big cities, there are parents who prefer sons to daughters.

It is never uncommon in rural areas to let the daughter drop out of school to work for her son to study and leave the bride price to his son to marry his wife. There are also those who search for their daughters to help their sons. For example, in Ode to Joy, many of Fan's parents are kind to their children, but they clearly put forward that property should be left to their sons.

Polarization, a daughter who does not want to be "exploited", can refuse and escape from this unfair environment.

However, a post on Tianya has opened another door to son preference. It turns out that some parents are secretly poking boys over girls.

For the convenience of narration, I will call the protagonist Xuan He and her husband.

Xuan has a brother, but unlike other girls, she has no education, and her family has a close relationship with her brother. Instead, I enjoy almost the same treatment as my brother, go to college, and not be "coaxed" by my parents to earn money after graduation.

Generally speaking, it has long been known that parents prefer boys to girls, but the treatment gap between brother and sister is not that big, so there is not much feeling.

Although Jessica Hester Hsuan was not satisfied, her growing experience convinced her that her parents loved her.

Later, the two brothers and sisters got married separately, and their parents gave hundreds of thousands of down payment to Xuan Ge who stayed in other provinces, and only gave two quilts and a set of tableware as a dowry.

Xuan didn't think it was unfair, because my brother bought the house and my parents didn't have much money, so they should keep it for the elderly.

Xuan is close to her parents, so parents call her if they need anything. Xuan and Xiao Chen Ye come to help and send something if necessary.

It is said that respecting the old and caring for the young, not to mention that your parents' in-laws are not filial and abnormal? Some people don't think so.

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One day, Xuan's father said that the sewer was leaking, so Xuan came from work early with him, brought tools, bought food and came to her parents' community with big bags.

Because Chen Xiao had a phone call back, they planned to stay in the community park for a while before going up, only to find that their filial piety turned into a joke.

The two overheard their parents chatting.

First, I heard from Xuan's father that we should not think that Xuan and Chen are really good to us.

"I'm anxious to be good to us. I may wonder what we will give her in the future. Xiao Chen just showed it to us, otherwise he would agree to help her family in this way. Can other people's sons really be good to us? "

After taking it, I agreed, but I also advised my father not to cold the hearts of his daughter and wife.

Xuan's father said he was not stupid. He will not really tell her that he is dead, that is, he will not say that his daughter has no share, otherwise his daughter-in-law will not be filial to herself in the future.

Later, the two talked about their sons who were far away from home, scrambling to be filial to their parents-in-law, saying that their sons were stupid and the older generation were sons. Who cares about their son-in-law?

Finally, the two concluded that the property belongs to the parents, and the parents will not give it to the children until they are gone. As for how to divide it, I won't say it, so as not to be eaten by my son and daughter-in-law, and I can still hang it.