Excerpts of what the elders said that made sense

1. When looking for a wife, don’t look at whether she treats you well, but look at whether she treats others well. How she treats others now will be how she treats you in the future.

2. No one in the world except mom and dad has the obligation to treat you like this.

3. When I was a child, I always heard my grandma say that there must be a place to stick a stick when begging for food. This means that we cannot rely on others and must have our own nest.

4. My mother said: Men are not good at anything.

5. When you make money, you should be like a grandson, and when you spend money, you should be like me

6. My sister is not married at the age of twenty-seven, and the whole family is very worried. My grandma She said that it’s not that she doesn’t want to get married, it’s that she hasn’t waited for the right person. She will marry even if she is very old. This is the most reasonable sentence I have ever heard my grandma say, bar none.

7. My dad said don’t care about other people’s opinions, just be yourself. If they say you are bad, you will not lose a piece of flesh on your body. If they say you are good, you will not get 50,000 yuan. It has nothing to do with you.

8. My dad said: When you reach my age, you will know that the world is not black and white, mostly gray, and you have to learn to compromise.

9. Everyone wants to ride in the sedan chair, but who will lift it? Everyone’s existence has its value, even if it is ordinary. When grandma said this, I failed in the college entrance examination.

10. To judge a person’s character, you can refer to his parents and friends.

11. Time flies and people grow old easily. If you are happy in life, you must enjoy it to the fullest. And Ping An makes a lot of money, my grandma said

12. I won’t stop young people from falling in love. If you love them to death, what do you know about life? When you have a child and have no money to buy diapers. You will understand naturally.

13. Dad said that if you want to get ahead, you must inevitably step on others, but my daughter, I don’t want you to do that. I hope you will always be kind, and even if you can’t get ahead, you can still have smooth sailing

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14. Girls, be sure not to be emotional. When emotions come, trouble will come.

15. When a woman is sincere to you, what you can repay is not sincerity, but responsibility, so that it can last long.

16. I don’t want you to be rich and wealthy, because that is not practical and will be gone in a blink of an eye. I feel that God will give my daughter a smooth life.

17. The love that others give you in the world is for getting together, only the love of your parents is for separation.

18. Even if money falls from the sky, you won’t be able to pick it up while sleeping in the bed, as my dad said.

19. No one in the whole world is truly inseparable from anyone else

20. Reading requires talent! It is not your fault that you failed in the exam.

21. My mother said: Our whole family is ugly! I hope you can find a beautiful wife and children who will not be so ugly.

22. Those who can stay together will naturally last a long time. Being able to separate over just a little bit of trouble doesn't mean that you don't have true feelings, but that you are inappropriate. Even if they get back together, they won't last long. Dad once comforted me like this.

23. My mother told me that even if you are ugly, you should hold your chest high and be a good person. It is better to be laughed at than to be forgotten.

24. If you really want to go somewhere and you have made an appointment with a friend to go together, but your friend has something to do and cannot go, you will be left alone. Then don't be afraid of loneliness, go alone, and don't change your own direction because of other people's decisions.

25. No matter how good things are, they will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, it will be forgotten one day. No matter how much you love, one day you will have to leave. No matter how beautiful the dream is, one day it will wake up. Never keep what should be given up. Never let go of what should be cherished. You can't be friends after a breakup because you have hurt each other! You can't be enemies either because you loved each other deeply.

27. Love is not complicated. It only comes and goes in three words: I love you, I hate you, forget it, how are you, and I'm sorry.

28. Don’t be afraid to reject others if your reasons are legitimate. When a person makes a request, he is basically prepared with two answers in his heart. Therefore, any answer given to him is expected.

29. Don’t expect that sparrows will fly high. High in the sky, that is the territory of the eagle. If the sparrow corrects its position, it will still live a happy life!

30. There is always a person hidden in everyone's heart in his life. Maybe this person will never know it, despite this , this person can never be replaced by anyone. And that person is like a scar that will never heal. No matter when, as long as it is lifted or touched lightly, it will hurt. Excerpts from a collection of reasonable words about life

Reasonable words about life 1:

1. Read when you are empty and bored, but you must have own life goals and plans.

2. A generous person can play his role with peace of mind, do the work at hand conscientiously, and do not fight for fame and wealth, nor struggle with money. A generous person can make his world a brighter one. Even if he is frustrated for a while, he will eventually become a late bloomer. What should come will eventually come, and what should go will definitely leave. Everything has causes and consequences. When the cause and conditions are mature, the consequences will occur, which is unstoppable.

3. Be patient for a while, the sea will be calm, take a step back, and the sea and sky will be brighter.

4. If you like it, strive for it; if you get it, cherish it; if you miss it, forget it. Life is actually that simple. Life is not complicated in the first place. We make it complicated ourselves. What is complicated is not only the relationship between people, but also the ideal self and the real self. What complicates everything is our endless desires. Because of desire, everything obtained is no longer precious, and everything not obtained is good. When people know how to be satisfied, when can they usher in happiness?

5. If we are all children, we can stay where time is, sit together and listen to those stories that will never grow old while slowly opening our heads

6. Flowers are blooming We need enough soil, but the premise is to allow ourselves to sprout first. As we grow, society will transplant us from small flower pots to large flower pots. If we are towering trees, we will also be placed in the wild. In fertile soil. When happiness is close at hand, we must learn to cherish it. Don't just think that when it leaves, you suddenly realize: It turns out that we were so close to happiness.

7. Forbear what others cannot endure, and what practitioners cannot do. Name: Nobita. Hence the name: Mahavira Hall. That is Buddha.

8. The wound is just like me, a stubborn child who refuses to heal, because the heart is a warm and moist place suitable for anything to grow.

9. The reason why people are troubled is because of their memories; the reason why people are tired is because they are wandering; the reason why people are moving forward is because they are grateful; the reason why people are happy is because they are open-minded; the reason why people are mature is because they see clearly ;The reason why people give up lies in their choice; the reason why people are tolerant, lies in their understanding; the reason why people are human, lies in their feelings; the reason why people are fulfilled lies in the process; the reason why people are successful lies in diligence; the reason why people are happy lies in contentment.

10. Never give a friend who has betrayed you a chance to betray him a second time.

11. If you meet someone and love him more, you will always lose him. Then, if you meet another person and he loves you more, then sooner or later you will leave him. Until one day you meet someone and you fall in love with each other. Finally you understand that all searching has a process. It used to be at the end of the world, but now it's so close.

12. When spring comes, young buds sprout, and when autumn comes, yellow leaves fly. This is the choice of leaves. You can choose to return, or you can choose to give up. If you don't give up, there will be no rebirth. If you can't give up, you can't gain. Giving up is a natural law and a philosophy of life.

13. Getting together, separation, and separation are the laws of life. Don’t worry about it, and there is no need to be sad. Because of the pain, we choose to hide; because there are still dreams, we choose to be strong. What you want and what you can get are always far apart. Some people are destined to miss it. And some people are not even missed, they are just passing by. All sadness is in the past. When time slowly settles, you will find that you are much more happy than you imagined.

14. People always cherish what they don’t get and forget what they have

15. Be sincere, calm, generous, tolerant and have a normal mind

16. Pessimistic people will feel that no matter how much they do, no matter how good they are, everything is in vain, and life is meaningless. Even if his reputation lasts for eternity, his whereabouts are unknown and impossible to know. In this way, from the day they know that people are mortal, some people are pessimistic throughout their lives, or are pessimistic for a while, leading a negative life, willing to be mediocre, living life in a mediocre way, and doing nothing. When encountering setbacks, pressure and difficulties, they choose to escape, or even ignore family ties and responsibilities, choose relief, and use the sorrow of ideas to lead to the sorrow of life.

17. Gu Long said that girls who love to laugh will not have bad luck.

18. There is no time for true love in this world that can dilute everything.

19. Please remember that the definition of a good friend is: if you do well, she will love you from the bottom of her heart. You are happy; you are not doing well, and she is sincerely worried about you.

20. Living is a state of mind. When you are distracted, indifferent to the pain of life, indifferent to fame and fortune, have a positive and balanced attitude, ask for something but not ask for something, and do something. There is no need to do anything, no need to cover up yourself, no need to be snobbish to please others, just be a simple and true self. In this way, even if you are frustrated, you will not care about gains and losses. You will be honest, sincere, calm and happy.

21. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.

22. No matter what you do, think about it.

23. It is better to admit your mistakes than to lie, because admitting your mistakes is just a matter of face, while lying will incur long-term packaging costs. It is better to be criticized than to feel guilty, because being criticized is only a short-term discomfort, while guilt is a long-term torture. It is better to suffer a loss than to have a grudge, because a loss is just a loss of immediate benefits, while a grudge will increase the long-term cost of being a human being.

24. How careful you are in everything.

25. Be happy, cheerful, tough, warm, and sincere to others.

26. Always be full of hope for life, and face difficulties and tribulations with a smile.

27. A letter to the men of the world. Men take a step back in front of women. This is called grace, not fear. Men should stop arguing in front of women. This is called accommodation, not cowardice. Men can shed tears for women, admit mistakes to women, and be disgusting with women. Men who show off to women have no future. An awesome man always has an awesome woman by his side, and it's always the same person.

28. Learn to forget, forgetfulness is a good thing

Reasonable life words 2:

1. Do the right thing It's important to do things right.

2. I don’t like to read, I like to read about myself. Only a person who has no ability to talk to himself should read a book! I don’t like to study the world, I like to study myself. Only a person who can’t find himself will pay attention. Everything outside! I write about myself, not wanting to show off anything, but just telling you that you can start yourself, enter yourself, use the universe as the background, the earth as the stage, and fully interpret the great but unexplored self!

3. Competition is quite like playing tennis. Playing against opponents whose skills are better than yours can improve your level. (The drama comes from the opponent.)

4. Some people will never be together in their lifetime. But there is a feeling that can be hidden in your heart for a lifetime.

5. Life should be as trouble-free as dementia, as daring to think and act as schizophrenia, as happy as mania, and as unafraid of hardships as paranoid.

6. You will meet many people in the world of mortals, but a few of them can be engraved on your soul. But the encounter with you has penetrated into my bone marrow.

7. When you feel anything big, it is a sign that you are too small;

8. Born to be great, why bother to search for it? The unfamiliar is familiar, the familiar is unfamiliar , I am pure, but in order to so-called prove to others, I am exhausted and shackles throughout my life, making my nature and self go further and further away, out of reach?

9. In this world, who doesn’t know you? They are called passers-by, those who do not harm you are called good people, those who do not let you go are called enemies, those who care about you from time to time are called friends, and those who never leave you are called relatives. And these people don't understand you. Those who understand you are called lovers.

10. If you want to live a happy life, connect your life with your goals, not with someone or something.

11. Being disabled in life means doing what you think you should do, and finally leaving the world with deep regret;

12. The perfection of personality is the foundation, wealth The establishment is the end.

13. Things that are too beautiful are never suitable to be experienced, because once experienced, they cannot be forgotten; love that is too young is never suitable to be pursued, because we are all still on the journey of growth. A beautiful encounter, a gorgeous opening that has reached its end. Some people can only leave; some things can only be given up; some memories can only be buried in the heart; some pasts can only be forgotten.

14. Indulgence may be indulgence in various things. You may indulge in your laziness, your depression, your nervousness, your busyness, your crusade against yourself or others. You may indulge in avoiding things, procrastinating things, or gossiping.

15. When you are happy, you have to think that this happiness is not eternal; when you are in pain, you also have to think that this pain is not eternal either.

16. Is it because all the injuries are not deep enough? Is it because all the suffering is not severe enough? That is why loneliness is hidden so deep that the root cannot be found. location.

17. True generosity to yourself is to leave everything to the present!

18. When life is at its limit, it is easier to experience the power of the spirit and focus on a certain point continuously. In-depth strengthening makes it easier to touch the spiritual light!

19. The sadness of summer and the overflow of laziness. The face of mourning is like water, and it has been completed before the passage of time.

20. I miss the days when I met you. Those memories engraved in my heart can never be erased in my lifetime. Maybe we have no chance to see each other again. Maybe that relationship can only become a thing of the past, but you are me. The most touching thought.

21. I am alone, I am alone, alone in a siege, and alone in freedom.

22. There is no hope in thinking hard, but there is hope in hard work.

23. The difference in life is the difference in experience; ordinary people write goals, while masters experience them directly;

24. Most of the pain, They are all the result of refusing to leave. There is no destiny of misfortune, only persistence that refuses to let go.

25. It’s not wrong to fall in love with you. What’s wrong is that I didn’t let you fall in love with me.

26. Ordinary people live in confusion, masters know what others do not know, and leaders have experienced experiences that others have not experienced!

27. None Experience, everything learned is pale, only what you experience down-to-earth is the most real!

28. There is no destiny that can be conquered without contempt, endurance and struggle. .

29. Sex without love is destruction, love without sex is torture, love with sex is ascension, and the world is heaven right now! A person without the ability to love is more miserable than without the ability to have sex.

30. Desire comes from possession, and possession comes from self-love. When you have desire for someone, your heartbeat at that moment is love; when you resist your desire for someone, your understanding at that moment is love.

31. A smile from a beauty is worse than being worshiped by everyone; a smile from a hero is worse than being followed by 10,000 people;

32. What is failure? It’s nothing, it’s just getting closer to success. One step; what is success? It means that after all the roads leading to failure, there is only one road left, and that is the road to success.

Thirty-three. Enough energy becomes king, insufficient energy leads to death, strong energy is a god, weak energy appears like a ghost! The core of all practice is to replenish energy, and the method of all practice is to eat, drink, and have diarrhea. How to enter ?

Thirty-four. The prosperity of the world cannot cover up the hurt in my heart, and the floating clouds in the sky cannot take away the painful past.

Thirty-five. For the reason that imposes so-called greatness on oneself, the body and mind are exhausted. According to the so-called hypothetical standards, benevolence, righteousness and morality, the true heart is out of reach!

Three 16. When love cannot be perfect, I would rather choose to have no regrets. No matter how beautiful the next life is, I don’t want to lose the memory of you in this life. I don’t ask for eternal beauty. I want you in all reincarnations, even if it is Keeping a memory makes me laugh happily.

Thirty-seven. There is only one road that cannot be chosen, that is the road of giving up; there is only one road that cannot be rejected, that is the road of growth.

Thirty-eight, life has become a lonely and lonely process.

Thirty-nine. In this life, it is good to be able to stay in love, but it is impossible to stay together just because it is not suitable.

40. The most pitiful thing about human nature is that we always dream of a wonderful rose garden on the horizon instead of appreciating the roses that bloom in our windows today.

41. Life is a miss, I hope you don’t waste it. What you said makes sense

1. Don’t be afraid to reject others if your reasons are legitimate. When a person makes a request, he is basically prepared with two answers in his heart. Therefore, any answer given to him is expected.

2. Because you have loved, you are compassionate; because you understand, you are tolerant.

3. Love has always been a matter of thousands of turns. How can you know how to love someone who has never been abandoned or hurt?

4. If I say this song is beautiful, please listen to the lyrics carefully, because that is the mood I want you to understand.

5. Losing something after having gained something is always more hurtful than never gaining something at all.

6. Love is not complicated. It only comes and goes in three words: I love you, I hate you, forget it, how are you, and I'm sorry.

7. You don’t understand that liking someone is fate. Even if it is destined to be a disaster, it is inevitable.

8. We practice smiling all the time, and finally become people who dare not cry.

9. If you feel that the relationship has lost its freshness, remember to remind yourself: warmth is the static state of passion.

10. Withering is real, blooming is just a thing of the past.

11. Sorry is a kind of sincerity, and it doesn’t matter is a kind of demeanor. If you pay sincerity but don't get grace, it only shows the ignorance and vulgarity of the other party!

12. When a woman is looking at the sky, she is not looking for anything. She is just lonely.

13. A grievance that can be expressed is not a grievance; a lover that can be snatched away is not a lover.

14. If memory itself is grapes, then the process of recall is fermentation

15. I thought that one day, I would completely forget love and you, but, Suddenly one day, I heard an old song, and I burst into tears because we had listened to this song together.

16. The biggest mistake people make every day is to be too polite to strangers and too harsh to close people. If you change this bad habit, the world will be peaceful.

17. Don’t expect that sparrows will fly high. High in the sky, that is the territory of the eagle. If the sparrow corrects its position, it will still live a happy life!

18. One friend is very good, two friends is a little too much, and three friends is too many. It’s good to have a bosom friend. It doesn’t have to be too many. If you really don’t have one, you still have yourself. Treat yourself well and get along with yourself. You are also a friend.

19. No matter how good things are, they will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, it will be forgotten one day. No matter how much you love, one day you will have to leave. No matter how beautiful the dream is, one day it will wake up. Never keep what should be given up. Never let go of what should be cherished, and you cannot be friends after a breakup because you have hurt each other! We cannot be enemies because we loved each other deeply.

20. Think of a thousand roads at night, wake up in the morning and take the same path.

21. No matter what, a person’s depravity is always unforgivable. The more no one loves you, the more you must love yourself.

22. Words are spoken by people, and farts are also made by people. Talking and farting are just one breath...

23. Marry a red rose, and over time, the red rose will become red. The rose becomes a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white rose is still "the bright moonlight in front of the bed." If you marry a white rose, the white rose is just a grain of rice dregs on your clothes, and the red one is a cinnabar mole on your heart.

24. There is always a person hidden in everyone's heart. Maybe this person will never know it. However, this person can never be replaced by anyone. And that person is like a scar that will never heal. No matter when, as long as it is lifted or touched lightly, it will hurt.

25. When you like me, I don’t like you. When you fall in love with me, I fall in love with you. When you leave me, I fall in love with you. It’s you who leaves. Too fast, I still can't keep up with you, we missed Noah's Ark, missed the Titanic, missed all the thrills and non-thrills, we will continue to miss, I don't know where my loneliness comes from, But I feel really lonely. You are lonely too, everyone in the world is lonely, but everyone’s loneliness is different!

26. I finally discovered that my perspective of looking at people is too simple. I never thought about what kind of face is under the mask. I always treat the mask directly as a face, but forget about the smiling face. Under the mask is often a tearful face.

27. Some people’s love is just a “emotion at the time.” If the other party mistakenly regards this emotion as long-term love, it is their own naivety.

28. When love taps on the shoulder, even men who usually disdain poetry and painting will become poets.

29. If you can’t forget him, don’t forget him. True forgetting requires no effort. Short sentences about life that make sense. Sentences that the old man tells the younger generation.

Spring is not the season, but the heart; life is not the body, but the mind; the old man is not the age, but the state of mind, and people are not Age is about state of mind, life is not about years but eternity.

In life, the emotion is temporary, but the gratitude lasts a lifetime; the glory is temporary, but the influence lasts a lifetime; the grievances are temporary, but the achievements last a lifetime.

Fools think that happiness lies on the far shore, but smart people know how to cultivate the food around them into happiness.

If you can tolerate it, be patient, but you must retain a sense of arrogance and don’t let others Trampled on again and again;

Love can be kept or thrown away, but one must have a kind of backbone to prevent tears from falling.

Keep your eyes open and see clearly that in this real society, if you are useful, you are a treasure; if not, you are just a blade of grass.

Feel your mood and find out the hearts of these fickle people. Some people hide their knives in their smiles, while others use tricks behind their backs.

Slowly understand and feel deeply, I hope you have the eyesight to see all these clearly;

Gradually grow up and quietly become stronger, I hope you have the ability to make peace with life!

Don't judge other people's appearance, because they don't rely on you for food.

Don't evaluate other people's virtues, because you are no nobler than him.

Don’t judge other people’s families, because that has nothing to do with you.

Don’t evaluate other people’s knowledge, because the most indispensable thing in the world is knowledge.

We must know how to cherish and protect everyone around us. Because of the broken necks and looking back in the past life, we have met in this life.

The reason why people live a tiring life is because they can’t let go of their arrogance, lose face, or resolve their complexes.

The state of mind can return to peace, but it cannot become dead.

The greatest sorrow in life is that one has no hope for the future, and the worst habit in life is that one has no plan for work.

Losers are often people who are only popular for five minutes, and winners are often people who persist for the last five minutes.

Progress cannot be achieved solely by others, nor by God alone. Progress can only be achieved through one's own hard work and hard work, so one must be self-reliant. Establish your own confidence, your own concepts, thoughts and opinions, and then strengthen yourself. As the saying goes: God's help is not as good as man's help.

Say a word of relief to those who are embarrassed; say a word of encouragement to those who are depressed; say a word of enlightenment to those who are confused; say a word of support to those who are helpless.

To sum up, life in this world means getting along with two kinds of people, one is oneself and the other is others. People everywhere are like drawing a circle, with self-awareness and self-control as the center, compassion and altruism as the radius, and the circle of personal life and space is drawn.

A smile costs nothing, but is always priceless.

Smart people respect others' love for themselves, while stupid people hurt those who love them.

Brothers may not be friends, but friends should be brothers.

Without friends, you will be lonely; without enemies, you will fail. Because friends are used to rely on, and enemies are used to stimulate one's potential.

Running on a road that is not suitable for you is like wearing a pair of shoes that does not fit your feet. It will make you very painful.

If your enemy makes you angry, it means you are not sure of defeating him. If your friend makes you angry, it means you still care about his friendship.

No wind is a tailwind if a man does not know which dock he is sailing to.

Humility is based on strength and confidence, while arrogance is based on emptiness and incompetence.

Anyone who uses hypocrisy as a weapon will harm himself first before harming others.

The most beautiful embroidery always features bright flowers against a dark background, and the most brilliant achievements are always the result of arduous struggle.

Whether a flower lives in a busy city or in a field, if it works hard, it is not wasted; if it is strong, it is not wasted. No matter what kind of ups and downs a person has experienced, what kind of life he has lived, if he strives hard, he is successful, and if he does not regret it, it is worth it. The value of a person does not lie in his worth, but in the value of bringing positive energy to others; the meaning of life does not lie in the wealth he possesses, but in the reality of living. Don't deceive people by deceiving their feelings, and don't deceive people by deceiving their hearts. Only those who treat people with their hearts are sincere, and only those who love with kindness are possible.

Although the peonies are beautiful and beautiful, the jujube flowers are small and bear fruit. It is better to cultivate one's heart than to decorate one's appearance, and to be silently fulfilling is not as good as to flatter others. A beautiful appearance will eventually disappear in the folds of time, but the fullness of your heart will make you exude irreplaceable charm. It doesn't matter if you are lonely, don't feel empty when you are lonely; don't panic when no one cares about you, the orchid will bloom like it was born in the valley. Liveliness is the courage of many people; loneliness requires the strength of one person. When flowers are fragrant, bees and butterflies come to love them; when people are good, they have close friends to accompany them.

If you have a calm mind, you will have a true destiny by following the circumstances; Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. It is rare to have a random word in life. Don't be happy when you get it, don't be sad when you lose it. Gaining is harvesting; losing is experience. The heart is the master of everything, and those who are indifferent can relax. When you look at the glitz of others, you should know the vicissitudes behind them; when you admire the spring breeze on others' faces, you should know the hard work that they have done. Whether life is fair or not depends on how you think about it.

Don’t waste your time when you are young, only by enriching yourself can you be true; don’t regret it when you are old, only by thinking about it calmly. Some things may seem interesting, but they are not worth doing; some things may seem boring, but they are worth the effort. The fireworks are fleeting, the prosperity is fleeting, and the name is like an echo, leaving no trace. If you pay attention to the pleasure of your eyes and ears, you will eventually forget your own efforts; if you are greedy for physical enjoyment, you will definitely neglect your instinct to make progress. When you live, don't waste it; when you live, don't waste it.