Ten manifestations of girls treating you as a spare tire

Ten manifestations of girls treating you as a spare tire

Girls treat you like a spare tire. Everyone wants sweet love. The ambiguous stage is the sweetest stage in the relationship between men and women. Before the relationship is formally determined, you should learn to distinguish between ambiguity and spare tire. Don't be stupid enough to pay. Let's see how ten girls treat you like a spare tire.

Girls treat you like a spare tire. Ten performances 1 1, treat you as a good friend.

Good friends, not just friends. This means that you actually enjoy special treatment, especially for those beautiful girls. It is not easy to be her good friend. In other words, you need to pay more for her than other ordinary boys, and you are almost willing. Although you may have your own small plan, and she knows your wishful thinking like the back of her hand, she will never let you have any chance to agree with yourself. We say that even if you are good friends, there is a clear line between you and your boyfriend. You never have the right to ask for the treatment that any boyfriend can enjoy. Of course, as her good friend, she will do her best to be basically good to you under the accusation of her good friend, and will sit more or less patiently, promise you some requirements that are not beyond the scope of her friends, and occasionally give you a little sweetness, so that you will not give up on her completely without seeing a chance to fight back.

2. Generally, she only looks for you when something happens, and basically doesn't contact you when nothing happens.

Of course, except when you almost disappear from her circle of friends, she will still come out to chat with you like a fake corpse to make sure whether your heart is still on her. If anything happens to her, she will definitely come to you first, and sometimes she won't even ask her boyfriend for help. You think this is special treatment? Do you think this means that you are above her boyfriend in her mind? If you think so, it's really naive. I just don't want to disturb my boyfriend.

3. You are never the most important. Your business can be suspended for a period of time.

If there is a comparison, you can probably know more intuitively whether you are really a spare tire. You just need to see her throw away the information you gave her and go shopping with her boyfriend happily, and you will know what role you are in her mind.

If you treat her better than before, then she will deliberately alienate you.

Because, for her, you will always be a spare tire. How can we expect to attack the upper position and climb to the position of official empress? If you dare to go against her wishes, then she may choose to completely put you in limbo and never be called again. She usually hints at your execution plan in advance to restrain your unrealistic crazy ideas. Of course, so she can enjoy your unconditional contribution as a spare tire for the rest of her life.

I will be late for every date.

Although I occasionally go out for a date, the other person will definitely be late for every date, and it will be more than an hour. If you call and ask, she will only send you two irrelevant messages. In fact, she is really not interested in you, or she thinks it is your honor to agree to date you. If you wait less than an hour, you won't be able to show her status. In fact, whether she likes you or not and is not interested in you, the most important thing is that she doesn't respect you at all. Wake up, Sao nian!

6. Don't buy your account.

When you show your gentlemanly demeanor and attach great importance to her, the other party just won't buy your account. Even if you just help her open the car door as a gentleman, she can question whether you think she can't open it by herself. Such a woman is too feminist. When you amuse all the ladies present with your humor, but only she is indifferent, either she lacks a sense of humor or she can't appreciate your sense of humor, which is always wrong.

7. The weather is hot and cold.

After dating you, she may not contact you for several days, but you find that you have fallen in love with her and you can't see her for a day. When a girl says she loves you and can't contact you for several days, congratulations, you have been selected for her spare tire list.

8. I don't want to be near you.

He holds your hand and says goodbye to you, but then she will push you away and say that this development is too fast and she is not ready. You are not lovers at all, but friends. Obviously, she fell in love only because of loneliness.

9. I don't want to reveal you.

If a girl is using you, she is unlikely to introduce you to her friends. Even if you have a few friends, do those friends know that you are her boyfriend? Meet her friends, but no one knows that you are her boyfriend, and sometimes "birthright" is also very important.

10, go your own way.

Girls who use you will never take you seriously. If you ask her out, she may not come out. Only when she is happy and in a good mood, and she needs your company, will she call you. She won't consider your feelings, and she will even let you queue up to buy her ice cream in the hot sun for her own happiness. She is not a princess, she just took advantage of your kindness.

Girls treat you like a spare tire. The ten manifestations are 2 1. The strength of spending money determines their attitude towards you.

She always seems cold when she is together. One day, she suddenly became a lot gentler to you. Don't think that she knows your sincerity and accepts your love. She likes a lipstick and a bag and wants you to pay the bill willingly.

2, red envelopes, please transfer money in red envelopes.

I never take the initiative to chat with you. You take the initiative to find her, and she can always find all kinds of excuses to ask you for a red envelope-there will be a birthday recently, a holiday, no phone bill and so on. After getting to know her, you realize that a woman can be so righteous if she wants a red envelope. It seems a pity not to give it to her. It is love that makes others fall in love, and there is no connection between you except red envelopes. It is also sad to think about it.

3. Unwilling to take you into her circle of friends.

I seldom mention her to you, let alone introduce my relatives to you. Many times, you are eager to take the initiative to go to the party with him, but she always refuses you for various reasons. When dating you, I always don't want to be in places where acquaintances often appear. Even, her circle of friends is very lonely and often sends some sad emotions. There is no one she likes at all, and there is no lover, which makes other men favor her.

4. With you, you can come and go at will.

When I need your help, or when I am bored, I will call you. Once I don't need you, I will ignore you. My mood is capricious and unstable, so it's hard for you to know what she really thinks. Women regard you as a spare tire, their attitude towards you is capricious and their mood is very unstable. You always feel that she is hiding something from you, and you don't know what it is. For example, she will be in a daze for no reason, and she will leave you for no reason, even without an explanation. You ask her again and again, but she is also perfunctory. More often, she only comes to you when she is in trouble or feels lonely, and usually doesn't pay much attention to you.

5, with you, never pay the bill.

When a woman really wants to fall in love with a man, she will try to be independent and don't want to use him to make him look down on herself. So, when you date, she will definitely take the initiative to pay the bill. Even if I can't win, I will treat you to a movie, drink milk tea, give you a small gift and invite you back. If a woman is not with you and has no commitment to consider your relationship, she will spend your money with peace of mind and be penniless. There is no doubt that she just regards you as an ATM, and she doesn't have you in her heart.

I don't like you, but I want to give you false hope.

Feelings cannot be forced, and it is understandable not to love. After all, carrots and vegetables have their own tastes, and they can only blame others. But she obviously doesn't love you at all. She just won't refuse you. Every time you ask her out, she always goes with pleasure, and even occasionally has intimate behavior with you, which makes you feel that as long as you insist, there is still a chance to impress her. But she's just having fun with you. She can't stand your kindness to her, the gift you bought her ... the only thing she can stand is that she doesn't love you at all.

7. Pretend to be happy with you

It is naturally the best and most precious for two people to be together and give each other happiness and happiness. However, there are also many people who regard others as spare tires. Therefore, jokes told to each other and interesting things shared are perfunctory and forced. Pretending to be happy with you is actually a sign that women treat you as a spare tire.

8. Always look at others.

When I am with you, or when I go out alone, I will never feel like a person who already has the other half. Always look at others, always be kind to others, often contact others, but ignore your own feelings. In fact, the most fundamental reason is that this woman doesn't have you in her heart and treats you as a spare tire. This kind of performance is hard to hide, and no matter how clever she is, she can't change or stop it.

9. I don't really care about you.

When women care about you, they always stay in words and never take any practical actions. The words are full of hype, but in fact there is no movement at all. This is a typical performance of treating you as a spare tire. Because, to truly love someone is to turn care in words into care and support in practical actions, rather than perfunctory you with sweet words.

10, very perfunctory to family and friends.

The woman who treats you as a spare tire is not only perfunctory and casual to you, but also to your family and friends. She will be perfunctory and even think that they are not important. However, how can a woman who really loves you think so? Your family is her family, and your friends are her friends. They won't be perfunctory. If she can't do it, it can only prove that you are a spare tire in her eyes.