Some people say that you can save your life by keeping your mouth shut. what do you think?

There are two kinds of people in life, one is fond of talking, the other is always talking in a crowd, and the other is unwilling to talk and likes to be silent. No matter how many people are around, he can't understand anything he says. In fact, for those who love to talk and those who don't, as long as they can adhere to principles and live a down-to-earth life, it is the most appropriate expression. There are always some people who talk endlessly in life, and no matter what the occasion, it seems that they can't finish talking. It can enlighten others' souls and open others' lives. This self-righteous glib person is actually unpleasant. Only by being disgusting, being a man and keeping your mouth shut can you manage your life well. Don't say what you can't say. As a person, I am most afraid that others will see through yourself and the city in your heart. If you are seen through.

In the other person's mind, you are dispensable, and he will think that you are nothing more than that. As the saying goes, talking too much will expose you too much and increase your sense of insecurity in society. It is inevitable to talk too much. So, be sure to watch your mouth and don't make trouble for yourself. You must be careful what you say and do. Success lies not in how much you say, but in whether your words carry weight. It is better to say that silence is golden and words and deeds are cautious. When you have to talk, you must tell the truth. People's language is ever-changing, with good advice, good words against their will and false promises. Among them, kindness and heartfelt words are the most beneficial, although sometimes it is difficult for people to accept that "good medicine tastes bitter and good advice is good for illness, but when most is unpleasant, it is good for action", and other people's sweet words may not impress you.

But sincere and considerate words will guide you. Truly powerful people are willing to listen to the truth, but hate hypocrisy and beautiful things. The best way to communicate with others is to be friendly. People with vulgar language will make it difficult for the other party to accept. Exaggerated people will destroy each other's composure; People with frivolous language will hurt each other's self-esteem. Only by answering and interacting based on facts will people be willing to accept and approach. Needless to say, there is no need to think too much. Honesty and sincerity are the best expressions. If it's hard to say, you can make a joke and make the finishing point. Life is not easy. Everyone has things he can't say, but some people like to reveal other people's privacy, which makes people fall into an embarrassing situation. In this case, a wise man.

I already have two children. How many children do you have? Jia Ling laughed. Then you have two children. Give me one. In the face of Jia Ling's spite, I am not embarrassed. But a generous and clever response with a joke. Netizens praised Jia Ling and expressed their recognition of Jia Ling. A person can't talk casually and do whatever he wants. On the contrary, what you say must have weight and quality. To put it bluntly, it will only reduce the image and the impression will be greatly reduced. The most important thing is to make a good impression wherever you go. In this way, a person's career will develop, life will be smooth, and he will speak. It is also a natural blessing for a person. The highest state of life: eyes are fine, mouth is good. Cai Kangyong said, you are what you say. ?

Listening is better than speaking. If you want to get to know someone, talk to him for a long time. Whether he is kind or not, how he is in this world, and how his temperament is, you will see it in his chat. Many people talk all their lives without knowing what kind of person they are. People who talk less can gain knowledge and make friends in interpersonal relationships. If we choose between speaking and silence, let's choose silence! Silence is golden, not only a label, but also a kind of human wisdom. Language is the lock of happiness, but be modest. Too much just chatting can make people feel uncomfortable. Over time, friendship will be separated, not worth the loss. I hope you have a sense of right and wrong in your eyes, a sense of proportion in your mouth and a scale under your feet, and live a good day.