In A Dream of Red Mansions, why didn't Jia Baoyu let Lin Daiyu eat the bird's nest given by Baochai?

In fact, Baoyu didn't stop Daiyu from eating the bird's nest given by Baochai. He just felt that Baochai lived in Jiafu and belonged to relatives. It was a courtesy not to bother others too much. Baochai really felt sorry for Daiyu. She sent bird's nest out of kindness. There are really not many people who interpret the key to Daiyu's heart. As for the reasons for Baoyu's refusal, it is manifested in three aspects.

Baoyu was worried that Grandmother Jia would lose face when she found out. She is very unhappy that Jia, as the supreme ruler of Jia family, takes Jia family's face seriously. Otherwise, I wouldn't have visited Wu Heng Garden where Baochai lived. When I saw a house like a snow cave and simple furniture, I kept shaking my head. In her old man's house, even if she is used to saving trouble and simplicity at home, living in our house should have all the ostentation and extravagance she needs. It would be a pity if relatives saw this scene.

Isn't grandma Liu present at that time a relative? You see, Daiyu's Xiaoxiang Pavilion is exquisite and warm, even more magnificent than the top-grade study. Granny Liu kept boasting. How happy Jia was at that time and how glorious her face was! She smiled and said to Daiyu, "This is my granddaughter's house."

When I arrived at Baochai's room, it was a different scene, which made the old lady extremely disappointed. What do you think she will say? It is also a taboo to be so plain and clean in the room. We, an old woman, should live in a stable more and more.

Daiyu is grandmother's favorite pet, second only to Baoyu. Even the most expensive soft Chinese are willing to stick window screens on her, not to mention a few bird's nests. Daiyu's mother, Jia Min, is Jia's favorite daughter. Even Mrs. Wang envied her before she got married. Maybe she was secretly jealous.

Although Daiyu said herself, food and clothing belong to their family. This is her modesty. How much dowry do you think Jia Min needs? If nothing else, the ancient books on Sister Lin's bookshelf are priceless antiques. The variety of those books is estimated to be beyond our imagination. There are even ancient piano scores that are rarely used, not to mention the poems and songs that you often read.

If Grandmother Jia knew that Sister Lin had eaten the bird's nest sent by Baochai, she might be grateful on the surface, but she would be angry in her heart. Maybe we can find a chance to scold Mrs. Wang. This is not about Jia mu. You know, in ancient times, the face of aristocratic families was very important. Baochai's behavior made grandmother Jia lose face.

Some people may say that Baochai's painstaking efforts and kindness have been misinterpreted again. These are two concepts. If outsiders know about this, it is estimated that people who praise Baochai might as well blame Jia for his poor care.

Dai Yu's usual food and clothing, which is not the best, the old lady is most concerned about. If there is something delicious, think of her and Baoyu first. Yingchun, Tanchun and Xichun have never been so concerned.

My favorite grandson and daughter actually let outsiders send bird's nest. Isn't this an excuse for leaving outsiders with poor care? At that time, Xiangyun wanted to treat her, but Baochai refused. She moved crabs from home and arranged them for Xiangyun. Jia Jia is polite on the surface, but she is not happy inside. If Baochai treats alone, it's just paying for Xiangyun, and everyone knows it with great fanfare. Shi Xiangyun has no money, but she is waiting for her daughter.

The old lady disapproved of Baochai's practice. This time, I gave Daiyu a precious bird's nest, which made me even more disapproving. This proverb applies to any era.

Baoyu was afraid that Mrs. Wang would misunderstand after learning about it and deepen her bad impression of Daiyu. Baoyu always tries his best to praise Daiyu in front of his mother and make everyone praise Daiyu. Baoyu couldn't figure out why his mother liked Baochai and didn't like Daiyu.

As soon as Daiyu came in, Mrs. Wang warned her to stay away from her son. Daiyu is also very clever, saying that when she comes, she naturally stays with her sisters, while her brothers live elsewhere. Daiyu immediately drew a line and left Mrs. Wang speechless.

After getting along, Baoyu was full of Daiyu, which made Mrs. Wang very dissatisfied. A mother always thinks that her son is the best, and all the mistakes are others'. Baoyu was more responsible in the gold incident, but Mrs. Wang vented all her fire on gold, which led to her suicide. Mrs. Wang doesn't like Qingwen. She feels that her eyebrows and eyes are like sister Lin's, and she is flattering and charming to her son.

After Jin Chuaner's death, Mrs. Wang told Baochai about her troubles, meaning that Daiyu had some new clothes and wanted to ask her for them, but she was afraid she wouldn't want them. Baochai was very clever and immediately expressed her fear and could contribute her new clothes. After this incident, Mrs. Wang's affection for Baochai has added another layer.

A joke by Zijuan tested Baoyu's sincerity and made everyone in Jia's family know that Baoyu likes Daiyu. Mrs. Wang's biggest enemy. Her son was confused by sister Lin and made such rude behavior in front of everyone. Can Mrs. Wang not be angry? Grandmother Jia reprimanded Zijuan, but Lady Wang hated Daiyu in her heart.

Little things keep accumulating, and Mrs. Wang's dissatisfaction with Daiyu is also accumulating. Coupled with the intentional or unintentional fanning of xiren and Baochai, Mrs. Wang is even more unhappy.

In order to reduce his mother's misunderstanding of Sister Lin, Baoyu became smart and deliberately alienated Daiyu in front of his mother. Once, Jia invited them to dinner. Baochai was there at that time. Daiyu left first, but Baoyu couldn't go with Sister Lin because of his mother's presence. Look at what Baochai said. Let's go quickly. Sister Lin is unhappy again. (Sister Lin is still not feeling well. Isn't this the disagreement between Mrs. Wang and Daiyu? The problem is that Daiyu is not angry at all. Is it too much to joke in front of Baoyu's mother?

Baoyu didn't leave, saying, who cares? He will be all right soon. Baoyu learned to restrain himself in front of his mother. He was afraid that Mrs. Wang would worry too much and bring trouble to Sister Lin. This time, Daiyu ate the bird's nest sent by Baochai, and she was already disgusted with Daiyu's busy lady Wang. Isn't it more boring? I have a good impression on Baochai, but now I like her more and feel sorry for her.

You see, in the end, Baoyu didn't tell his mother about it, but told the old lady and Xifeng. Through the dialogue between Baoyu and Zijuan, I know the reason why Baoyu refused Baochai to send bird's nest. He also applied for a bird's nest for Sister Lin, and someone gave it every day, so Baochai no longer used it to send bird's nest. This is what Baoyu said in the original text. "Although it is not convenient to ask my wife, I have revealed a little wind in front of the old lady. I'm afraid the old lady will tell Xifeng. "

This shows that Baoyu is becoming more and more sensible.

Thanks to people's kindness, there are also shortcomings, and I am afraid that sensitive Daiyu will feel sad and inferior. In the 45th chapter of A Dream of Red Mansions, I wrote that Daiyu's cough was again, and Baochai came to see her. The two sisters chatted, and after the last time Daiyu said operas in public, Baochai educated her, and their relationship was much better.

Baochai saw that Daiyu had a bad cough. She read Daiyu's prescription and said that there was too much ginseng and cinnamon. Although tonifying qi and kidney, it should not be overheated. should

Eat and nourish people, get up early every day to get one or two first-class bird's nests, five yuan of rock sugar, and cook porridge with silver tweezers. If you are used to it, it is stronger than medicine, and it is the most nourishing yin and invigorating qi.

Facing Baochai's painstaking efforts, Daiyu was very moved. I began to blame myself for being too narrow-minded before. You are always kind to others, but I am the most caring person. I just think there is a traitor in your heart. The day before yesterday, you said reading miscellaneous books was not good, and you also advised me to say those good ones. Thank you very much. It turned out that I was wrong in the past, but now I am really wrong.

Daiyu has a strong self-esteem and cares about other people's opinions. It is not good for her to ask for bird's nest. Sister Lin has a lot on her mind and feels inferior because of her self-esteem. She regrets that she has nothing, food and clothing, a piece of grass and a piece of paper, just like the girls in Jiafu. Those little people are not too much.

He also said that he had invited a doctor and cooked medicine, ginseng and cinnamon, which had been turned upside down. Now he wants bird's nest porridge. Even if the old lady, wife and Xifeng are all right, the women and girls under him will think that I care too much.

Baochai comforted her and said that she would tell her mother tomorrow and send you some Liang, and the maids would cook it every day. It was cheap and didn't surprise the public.

Baoyu and Daiyu think differently. He feels too sincere to disturb Baochai. In Baoyu's mind, Daiyu is a family, Baochai is an outsider, and you can't take others' politeness too seriously.

Baoyu knows Daiyu's character, so as not to leak, a rising tide lifts all boats. Irrigation in previous lives should be repaid with tears in this life. Daiyu was too tired to pay her debts.

Baoyu was afraid of Daiyu's psychological burden, and then he thought that he had no father, mother, brother or sister, and his inner inferiority was aggravated. Isn't his illness getting worse?

Daiyu appreciates Baochai's painstaking efforts and kindness, so she trusts Baochai more. Baoyu, on the other hand, weighed all kinds of relationships and turned down Baochai's kindness in a roundabout way.