It is sometimes too easy for others to take what you do for granted, especially couples, to say that the pattern is bigger, the horizon is farther and the road is wider?

People who have done great things are long-term people, and people who only care about the present will not go far. The most important thing for people with big patterns is to see far. Only with a long-term vision will the pattern open. What others see is an acre of land, but what you see is the whole world.

There is a saying in The Analects of Confucius, Wei Linggong, that "a man who has no long-term considerations must have immediate worries." It means that you should look at things with a long-term vision and careful consideration. "

Only by focusing on the long term can we plan ahead and make all preparations to better meet the test of the future.

People with big patterns: see far.

Don't be blinded by current interests.

When I was a child, everyone saw such a story, that is, the story of "picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelon". "There is a little monkey. One day, he was very lucky. He picked up a lot of things, but unfortunately he lost one thing. At the last moment, the little monkey gave up the watermelon he picked last time in order to pick up a sesame seed. The little monkey came home with only one sesame seed in his hand. "

The little monkey finally picked up a sesame seed, precisely because his vision was not long enough, and finally it was not worth the candle.

People with a big pattern of life are very clear about their goals and what they need most, so they don't care about temporary gains and losses, but only think about the final success or failure.

These people will not be blinded by immediate interests, have patience, know how to catch big fish in a long line, and finally reap big benefits.

People with large patterns know how not to be blinded by immediate interests, and finally they can create greater interests.

Do long-term layout and things like that.

In the Korean drama itaewon Ban, Park Shilu was imprisoned for seeking justice for his father, and has been alone ever since.

However, her father's dying entrustment became her belief. He applied this persistence to his life planning. He made a plan for his revenge for 15 years. After he got out of prison, he started from a pub and worked hard to start a business.

Fight back all the way to realize your business ambitions, and take revenge on the enemy who killed his father, and realize all seemingly absurd dreams.

This is a man with a large pattern. He didn't stop because he was in prison, but slowly settled himself in prison, where he still learned to plan his own life path.

I made a long-term layout to make his life glow. So don't be bound by the present, take a long-term view, know the integrity of being a man and doing things, and have a long-term layout, so as to better grasp life in your own hands.

Niu Gensheng once said: "The layout determines the outcome." The pattern of people who can make long-term layout will not be small.

Hold your breath when you are in trouble.

Everyone wants to be the one who is fearless in the face of danger and difficulties, but people are naturally afraid and will be afraid. But you can temper your mind with the study and process the day after tomorrow, and turn yourself into a person who is calm enough when encountering difficulties.

There is a saying in Zhihu: "Just bear it once."